I had to run last week to my local Department of Motor Vehicle office for a new driver’s license. I had to get a new photo taken. The little smiley face that I drew haphazardly on a piece of paper wasn’t going to work should I get pulled over by the state police.
The errand was annoying. It was the last thing I wanted to do on a busy day, but I needed to get it done. In my haste, I turned right, when I should have turned left. I had gone a good distance before I realized my mistake. Oh, I still got to where I needed to go, but it took me in a completely different route.

As I drove, I was amazed with what I found. I drove past beautiful farmland and a woods that made me think of the state forest near where I grew up. Several happy memories from back when I was a kid came to mind. I got a smile on my face thinking about the memories. Also, the traffic seemed less, calming my mood. To top it off, my wife called me. She warned me that the road I normally would have taken was blocked for an accident. If I had gone that route, I would have been stuck for at least an hour or so in bumper to bumper traffic.
My trip to get my license photo is a simple story, a simple errand, but it reminded me that changing up our routine is often good for us. We fight change. We run from it, we make it bigger and more burdensome than it really is, but it often is exactly what we need.
Yes, change is good.
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“Change your thoughts and you change your world.” —Norman Vincent Peale
“Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.” —Carol Burnett
“You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” —Mahatma Gandhi
“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed, citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” —Margaret Mead
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Sometimes a wrong turn can take us to a real destination.
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So true Sadje. Wrong turns can be a great thing. 😎😎😎
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Exactly 👍🏼
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Nice reflection!
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Aww, thank you Mary! I appreciate that!
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A true and timely message. Yes, change can sometimes lead us to surprises that we never would have known otherwise and keep us from trouble!
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Can lead to good surprises … you’re so right. 😎🤪🤪😎😎😎😎
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😊
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The Road Not Taken (Robert Frost)
“I took the one less travelled by
And that has made all the difference.”
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So well written. 😎😎😎
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Yeah, I always liked that poem, especially the ending. Kept me thinking about it off and on for years, and here I am, still thinking about it.
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Wish we could all write like him. Ha, ha.
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That would be a gift to us all.
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Love this…I frequently find myself doing the same. A wrong turn that takes me somewhere unexpected. Honestly, I think it’s why I always leave early no matter what. Planning for an unexpected, um…detour…of my own making. But look what you found when you made that ‘wrong turn’. So good! 🥰
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Yea, the planner in me was not happy. The creative artist though needed the break from boring highways and suburbia. 😎😎😎😎
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I hear you! 🥰
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All roads lead somewhere! It may not be where you expected but there you are!
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Yes, a different road sometimes is just what the doctor ordered. Thanks for reading.😎
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What a nice surprise to see beautiful farmland because of a wrong turn. Much better than sitting in bumper to bumper traffic. The freeway was under construction in our vacation town of Summerland. They would close lanes and the traffic was awful. We took a lot of windy back roads to get to Santa Barbara. I loved it!
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Yea, it was kind of nice to get away from the highway and suburbia and be out in the country. Good to get away from it all. 😎😎😎
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It is nice to get out of traffic and enjoy nature.
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this is such the perfect example of that!
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It’s funny sometimes the places life takes you.
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and I get lost a lot, so I’ve seen some funny places )
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Love this Brian – “changing up our routine is often good for us.” 👍🏼
I agree that change can bring about some pleasant surprises. 🤩 I’m sure seeing that farmland, made you slow down and pause! Yet, if your DMV is anything like ours, I feel your pain! 😲🚗🚌🚙😣
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Oh yea, I felt the pain of waiting. Fortunately it wasn’t too long. I caught up on a few WP blogs while I waited. It gave me a blog today so I’m not complaining! 🤷♂️😎😎😎
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There you go my friend. Find the opportunities where you can! Good job my dear Brian. 😂💖🥂
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I’ve had a similar experience. Getting lost in your dotage isn’t what it was as a youth!
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Great minds do think alike Brian!
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“We fight change. We run from it, we make it bigger and more burdensome than it really is, but it often is exactly what we need.
Yes, change is good.”
I laughed at the smiley face but not the DMV as I realized I was called for jury duty and forgot to go so you read about me behind bars, send candy please.. lol 💕🥺😉
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A little unexpected detour can often be a blessing in disguise! 🙏
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Nice musings and I love those quotes.🥰
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Yea, I love those quotes too. So true.
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True ❤️
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Oh, I love this wonderful encouragement to change it up! Great quotes to go along. Brilliant, Brian!
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The quotes are my favorite thing about the piece. Love how they break change down to its core. So simple, but so hard. Ha, ha.
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Gandhi’s words are powerful. I love this story, and it feels like a ‘meant to be’ moment.
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I wasn’t loving it when I realized that I made the wrong turn, but once I start to look out the window all was good. Ha, ha.
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😍
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As Bob Ross would say, “What a happy little accident!” Sometimes those detours, intentional or not, are just what we need.
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Yea, he was onto something there. Ha, ha.
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I agree. Change can be both painful and worthwhile.
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It hurts, but I try to face it head-on. Better to know what’s coming.
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Great thoughts on the power of perspective! Thanks, Brian!
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Such a big thing.
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Here’s to wrong turns, delightful discoveries, new paths, and changed routines. What joy! Have a wonderful week, Brian.
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Oh thank you. It’s kind of crazy how things work out, but some times those wrong turns are just what we need!
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This was a good message to read rn.. thank you for sharing!
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😎😎😎😎
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You are exactly saying. Thanks for Good massage
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🙏🏼😎😎😎
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LOLOLOL I’m picturing your drawing of you over to a cop! You’re going to jail for sure.LOL
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Little stick figure. “Here ya go Sir. Great pic of me don’tch ya think?” The last sound you hear: the officer throwing my sorry butt in jail!!! Ha ha. Who’s the smart aleck now!!! Ugh🤦🏼♂️😎😎😎😎🤣🤣
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LOLOLOLOL! They would think you were beyond drunk.
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Yes, it would be ugly. Ha, ha.
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