Life can be hard. Some days you’re rolling along, running fine and feeling like you’re hitting on all cylinders, and then all of a sudden, the next minute life can leave you stranded along the side of deserted highway in the middle of nowhere. Demands, deadlines, bills, and everything in between can drive you crazy.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about life and one of my favorite lines. I picked it up as kid from the TV show MASH and it’s stayed with me through the good times and bad. I’ve always loved the advice that a character from the show, Psychiatrist Dr. Sidney Freedman, used to offer the doctors and nurses when things got to be their toughest.
He would come into the operating room, look around at his friends, who were tired and weary from saving lives, and say, “Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice. Pull down your pants and slide on the ice.”
I listened to an interview with one of the writers years ago and when asked about that line, he mentioned that the doctors’ work was incredibly important, they helped save countless lives, but at the end of the day on things that really didn’t matter in the grand scheme of things, you shouldn’t take yourself too seriously. In essence, we all need to know when to laugh at ourselves.
I’m no expert, but I think the keys to a good life are as simple and silly as that: prepare, work hard, and try your best, let the chips fall where they may, it may be good, it may be bad, but life goes on. If I follow that advice and even throw in a little humor once in awhile, I like my chances.
“Ladies and gentlemen, take my advice. Pull down your pants and slide on the ice.”
Great quote, Brian, and MASH was a brilliant comedy. In my time in the police service, I came across people who, in the worst of circumstances, still found glimmers of hope and time to laugh and smile. Laughing and finding a brighter side is the best kind of medicine.
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Davy, the people who, in the worst of circumstances, can still find glimmers of hope and time to laugh and smile . . . these are my heroes. I love people like that because they give the rest of us hope. (And I don’t mean fake hope or optimism that is really grounded in anything.) Thanks for the comment.
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In the search for “the next great thing” combined with an expected sense of “do more, be more”, we do often forget to take a breath and let ourselves find a drop of humor. This is a great reminder to us! Thank you for sharing it!
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Oh, I’m a big one for that, always trying to do better, get better, lose more weight, earn another achievement . . . you are so right, sometimes it’s best to just take a deep breadth and laugh at myself.
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That’s perfect
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😀😀😀😀😀
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I’d forgotten all about that character on MASH. I think I need to figure out where to stream the whole series…so good. Thanks for the reminders to laugh whenever possible, Brian. 😉
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He was only on a few episodes, but the line was mentioned a couple of times and just always stayed with me. I always loved that the Sidney Freedman character was always so calm in the face of craziness. It definitely appealed to me.
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I like it…err…I mean him/his character…for those same reasons. Calm! 😊
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Such perfect advice Brian! It’s easy to take everything too seriously. Laugh a little!
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Oh, yes, I know I need to laugh. Such great medicine.
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Though the quote makes no sense to me, I really enjoyed your thoughts on relaxing and enjoying life. I’ve been stressing about the things I may never get done–and starting to live in panic mode. “Do what you can and let go of the rest” is a great message for me today.
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Great message Brian.
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Thanks Brenda! 😎😎😎😎
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Great post, Brian. Thanks for the reminder of that quote; good advice to live by.
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Thanks so much . . . 😎😎😎
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I’d forgotten about that quote. It made no sense to me at the time. Hearing the explanation is a good reminder about some of the better ways to handle adversity.
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I loved MASH growing up but I don’t remember that line. So grateful you (re)introduced me to this line. Indeed – do our best but don’t take ourselves too seriously! Great reminder!
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I’m going to have to find that episode. 🙂
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I just had to check. His character first appeared in season two and appeared in one episode every year until it went off the air. The sliding on the ice comment appeared in season 3 and 10. Thanks for commenting!
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A timely bit of advice, Brian.
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Laugh to keep from crying. Life can get rough and busy. This post is perfect and I’ve always loved MASH.
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Some good wisdom in mash!
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Sure was
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Unbuckling the belt …
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That’s the idea Jeff, roll with the punches!
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OH yes! Perfect advice! Laughter is such an important thing and its FUN! 🙂
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Great advice Brian!
I’m still struggling to find a laughter, but I’m glad I read your post and will try my best to keep looking for a laugh 😁
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There are times when it is hard to find it, but when you can it helps with life’s challenges! Good luck!
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