Yo, Cuz! You’re Killing Me!

Historical legend is an interesting thing.

I wrote a couple of weeks ago about how we don’t actually know a lot about Betsy Ross, but traditional American lore has it that she created the first U.S. Flag. Check out my post – Betsy Ross and the Three Moochers (Why the Flag Has 5-Pointed Stars). Now, here is another piece of legendary history that I stumbled across recently, and it completely blew my mind.

I’ve always been fascinated by Nathan Hale’s famous line: “I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country.” It’s an incredibly strong statement. It says so much about duty, honor, and sacrifice.

The Man On The Inside

Here is what we know for a fact. In September 1776, General George Washington desperately needed information on British troop movements in New York. Hale, a 21-year-old captain, volunteered for the gig. He disguised himself as a Dutch schoolteacher to slip deep into enemy territory.

He successfully gathered the intelligence but was captured by the British on September 21, 1776, while trying to cross back over to American lines. Because he was caught out of uniform with military sketches and notes hidden in his clothes, he was classified as a spy rather than a prisoner of war. British General William Howe ordered him to be hanged the very next morning, without a trial.

Kissing Cousins

But here is where the history gets tricky — and personal. Legend has it that Hale wasn’t just caught by a random British patrol. No, it wasn’t just any Tom, Dick, or Harry with an allegiance to King George III. He was actually spotted in a tavern by his own first cousin, Samuel Hale, a staunch British Loyalist. Samuel allegedly recognized him, knew exactly what Nathan was up to, and ratted him out to the Redcoats.

When I read that bit of information, it completely took me back. His own cousin. His own blood. His own tribe.

“Yo, cuz… can’t you give a guy a break?! What did I ever do to you?”

I’m holding out hope that this specific part of the tale is just that — legend instead of reality. Family is family, and cousins are supposed to hang out, not hang each other.

So, what do you think — is there a family member in your tree you wouldn’t trust in a 1776 tavern?


Discover more from Writing from the Heart with Brian

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

25 thoughts on “Yo, Cuz! You’re Killing Me!

Add yours

  1. At times of war or civil unrest, families often take opposing sides. This seems to happen a lot. Sad but true. Although I would like to believe that my cousins would have my back.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Yes, sad but true Darlene. I’m not sure why this story struck me as odd. I guess the idea that he was so close to getting away. Than to be found. And to think that it was someone you knew turning you in. It’s one thing to square up on a battlefield. It feels like another to be specifically turned in by distant kin. But that very much is the way life goes some times.

      Liked by 1 person

    1. I’m surprised it’s not already. Can’t you see Hollywood play up the various aspects. The cousin thinking the spy causing is just going to be put away in prison. The cousin in prison refusing to see his blood relative. Oh, all good stuff, now I have to write the screenplay. Did they say “yo cuzzzz” back in 1776? Ha, ha.

      Liked by 1 person

    1. I get family members having differing points of view. I even kind of understand being on different sides of the battlefield, but simply seeing your cousin in a bar and getting him in trouble. Wow, that just struck me as rough!!! Wow.

      Like

    1. Oh I’m with you Elizabeth. I knew about Hale’s quote, but I didn’t know the cousin part. When I was a kid, I loved the novel “My Brother Sam is Dead” — which is about a kid caught between his Patriot brother, Sam, and his Loyalist father, but I had never heard this story. It really is quite sad. “Oh you’re going to the gallows tomorrow and by the way your first cousin on your mother’s side is the guy who turned you in. Nice family!” Ha, ha.

      Like

    1. Isn’t it crazy! The fact that the cousin turned him in seeing him at tavern or in town seems to make it worse for me. War is horrible. Lots of things happen in battle. But seeing a cousin out and about and turning him into redcoats — wow, just feels soooo wrong!!!!

      Like

  2. Well,….I’m a Hale….so there’s that. Oy vey! If treatment goes well tomorrow, God-willing, I have a cousin’s weekend in which I will share this story, Brian! There’s no one in my family tree I wouldn’t trust…unless a Samuel pops up that I don’t know ahout! YIKES!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. Its lovely to read some American history. Its a sad truth that in times of bitter division in a country it can separate families. They come out on different sides and all they see is the enemy; perhaps thinking betrayal because they don’t think/feel the same way. My instinct is the cousin didn’t identify with him – he was the enemy and he felt he was doing the right thing. I think its sad that families can be divided like this and the divisions can endure for generations.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a comment

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Website Powered by WordPress.com.

Up ↑

Discover more from Writing from the Heart with Brian

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading