Historical legend is an interesting thing.
I wrote a couple of weeks ago about how we don’t actually know a lot about Betsy Ross, but traditional American lore has it that she created the first U.S. Flag. Check out my post – Betsy Ross and the Three Moochers (Why the Flag Has 5-Pointed Stars). Now, here is another piece of legendary history that I stumbled across recently, and it completely blew my mind.
I’ve always been fascinated by Nathan Hale’s famous line: “I only regret that I have but one life to lose for my country.” It’s an incredibly strong statement. It says so much about duty, honor, and sacrifice.

The Man On The Inside
Here is what we know for a fact. In September 1776, General George Washington desperately needed information on British troop movements in New York. Hale, a 21-year-old captain, volunteered for the gig. He disguised himself as a Dutch schoolteacher to slip deep into enemy territory.
He successfully gathered the intelligence but was captured by the British on September 21, 1776, while trying to cross back over to American lines. Because he was caught out of uniform with military sketches and notes hidden in his clothes, he was classified as a spy rather than a prisoner of war. British General William Howe ordered him to be hanged the very next morning, without a trial.

Kissing Cousins
But here is where the history gets tricky — and personal. Legend has it that Hale wasn’t just caught by a random British patrol. No, it wasn’t just any Tom, Dick, or Harry with an allegiance to King George III. He was actually spotted in a tavern by his own first cousin, Samuel Hale, a staunch British Loyalist. Samuel allegedly recognized him, knew exactly what Nathan was up to, and ratted him out to the Redcoats.
When I read that bit of information, it completely took me back. His own cousin. His own blood. His own tribe.
“Yo, cuz… can’t you give a guy a break?! What did I ever do to you?”
I’m holding out hope that this specific part of the tale is just that — legend instead of reality. Family is family, and cousins are supposed to hang out, not hang each other.
So, what do you think — is there a family member in your tree you wouldn’t trust in a 1776 tavern?
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At times of war or civil unrest, families often take opposing sides. This seems to happen a lot. Sad but true. Although I would like to believe that my cousins would have my back.
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Yes, sad but true Darlene. I’m not sure why this story struck me as odd. I guess the idea that he was so close to getting away. Than to be found. And to think that it was someone you knew turning you in. It’s one thing to square up on a battlefield. It feels like another to be specifically turned in by distant kin. But that very much is the way life goes some times.
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Yikes, complicated history and infuriating depending which side of the loyalty you fell in. This also sounds like the making of another great movie!
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I’m surprised it’s not already. Can’t you see Hollywood play up the various aspects. The cousin thinking the spy causing is just going to be put away in prison. The cousin in prison refusing to see his blood relative. Oh, all good stuff, now I have to write the screenplay. Did they say “yo cuzzzz” back in 1776? Ha, ha.
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Yup!! A couple of em!
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Sounds like you have material for a future story/blog. Ha, ha. Family – can’t live with ’em, can’t live without ’em.
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there’s some scandalous stories about my family, so just be glad those branches were still in Europe at the time
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Oh this sounds like fodder for a future LA novel!!!! The names can all be changed to protect the innocent. Ha, ha.
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that is awful and i believe that my family would have my back.
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I get family members having differing points of view. I even kind of understand being on different sides of the battlefield, but simply seeing your cousin in a bar and getting him in trouble. Wow, that just struck me as rough!!! Wow.
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Wow. You introduced me to a bit of history I knew nothing about. What a sad story.
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Oh I’m with you Elizabeth. I knew about Hale’s quote, but I didn’t know the cousin part. When I was a kid, I loved the novel “My Brother Sam is Dead” — which is about a kid caught between his Patriot brother, Sam, and his Loyalist father, but I had never heard this story. It really is quite sad. “Oh you’re going to the gallows tomorrow and by the way your first cousin on your mother’s side is the guy who turned you in. Nice family!” Ha, ha.
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I don’t trust anyone in my family in any tavern.😅
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What’s the phrase” A fool and his money are soon parted. I guess we could modify that to say, A fool and his money in a bar in the middle of a war are soon parted. Or something like that. Ha, ha.
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