What’s in your backpack?

We each carry a tote bag, backpack, messenger bag, or briefcase.

Little kids have Thomas the Tank Engine ones. There’s Hello Kitty ones too. There’s a bag for every taste, Nike, North Face, L.L. Bean, and rugged outdoor brands for the real hikers amongst us. You don’t have to look far to see the many different varieties.

The college kid down the street has a ratty one that looks like it’s seen better days. The teacher getting into her car carries three different totes — one for her laptop and lunch, one for two big binders, and a third that she uses as a purse. The well-heeled celebrities we see on the TV and social media carry designer messenger bags made of fine Italian leather.

Some are big, some are small. Some are cloth, some are leather. Some are expensive and some are cheap. We carry different things. One working mother on the run carries a bottle of water and yogurt. She didn’t have time for breakfast and hopes to eat before her first client meeting. Someone else may carry a laptop and a book.

The little boy down the street carries his school books. If you look real close, though, deep in a rear pocket, he carries his favorite baseball card — New York Yankees Outfielder Aaron Judge — and a picture of his mom. If he’s got her picture, he feels that she’s never far away from him, even when the meanie in the next row pushes him in line.

The trendsetters in any group are looking to make a fashion statement with their bags. Oh, they carry their wallet and phone in their bag, but it’s all for show. The bag goes with the outfit, silly.

We carry our own hopes and dreams in our backpacks. In his bag, John carries his to do list. Tops on the list is to stop at the jewelry store on his way home from work. He plans to make the final installment payment on an engagement ring. He plans to ask his lost-time girlfriend to marry him this weekend when they travel to the mountains.

Bob a plumber carries his iPad in his bag letting him know which house he needs to travel next. He’s got a few tools in there too. He likes when he can help. Oh, he knows times are tough for people, but he likes when he can help them out of a jam.

Some backpacks are heavy. Some are light.

The man sitting on a park bench carries his demons in his bag. He reaches into the bag, grabs a pic of his wife and kids and says, “I will not drink today. I will not drink today.” The woman on the bus checks her bag too. She makes sure she has her Pepper Spray for protection. She has to walk home tonight after the bus has stopped running and, if it’s dark, she wants extra protection — just in case.

You never know what’s in another person’s backpack. Sam absently picks up Stan’s backpack and is taken aback by how heavy it is. “What do you have in there? A Brink’s truck?” Stan laughs lightly but doesn’t offer any details. He hasn’t told his coworkers. His wife starts chemo later in the day and he’s got an extra sweatshirt and blanket for her. She asked him to keep things quiet.

Jamal thinks of his own heavy bag. He pulls it out and rearranges extra clothes, a magazine, and a book. He wife is pregnant. She could deliver any day now. He’s got everything he needs in case she goes into labor.

“Give Stan a break Sam. You never know. We’ve been to the hospital three times in the last two weeks. Gotta be prepared for anything and everything, right?”

Capital One, the large credit card company, has run an advertising campaign since 2000 asking “What’s in your wallet?” We’re all carrying something. Perhaps, the marketers with Capital One should instead be asking: What’s in your backpack?


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64 thoughts on “What’s in your backpack?

  1. Beautiful! Absolutely unbelievable truth to every word in your peace! I will be blogging later about something similar that one of my trainers talked about the other day at the end of an insane workout. He reminded us that every single person in that class works out for a different reason and carries things with us that others know nothing about. Well, done, my friend as always I am so inspired by every piece that you write! Thank you!

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    1. I love your trainer’s words. So wise. How come I always get the guy that says “Brian — you’re dogging it. We all see you dogging it. Quit your bellyaching and get up and move!!!!” Yup, just my luck. Ha ha. Thank you! I just try to have some fun writing. I’m glad that you’ve gotten something out of it! Thanks so much Kiki!

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    1. Uh-oh … reading it again!!! You’ll find all the mistakes then. Ha ha, I’m kidding. I hope you like it. I just find it interesting how everyone has a story. We may not know it, but there’s something going on with everyone!!! Thanks for reading.

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    1. I’m like you. Fascinating to me. When I see people with bags, my creativity is usually off and running. But it’s also fascinating just from a daily life standpoint. You’ll appreciate this because of your daughter. I’m fascinated by my wife and other teachers and the things they carry to work daily!!! I always ask my wife why she doesn’t just keep more stuff at school. Nope — gotta carry it back and forth each day!! Ha ha!!! 😎😎😎😎

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  2. Great analogy, Brian. As I was reading this, it occurred to me that anyone who owns a cell phone has access to almost everything on your list of needs. You can order a meal – get from one place to another – follow directions – put money in or withdraw it from your bank – talk to a friend – get advice – handle an emergency and maybe even have access on how to deliver a baby. Think of how the phone has downsized our needs for all those other things. This from an 84 year old woman who used to think technology was the instrument of the devil.

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    1. When my daughter was doing a lot of walking, I got her one of those personal safety noise alarms devices. I thought she was going to mock me for being a dad and being too protective. It’s been a few years. I saw recently that she still has it on her briefcase. I was happy she took her safety seriously.

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  3. Beautiful post. We really don’t know what people are carrying in their backpack or going through with weight on their shoulders. I purchased a backpack for my camera and lenses to travel with. But so far I haven’t used it yet. I will this summer.

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      1. So true on not knowing what people are going through. I find photography very relaxing. Especially sitting down at my computer to review the images and deciding which to keep and which to toss.

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  4. So good, Brian! I toyed with the idea of writing a post – with pics, of course – showcasing my insane assortment of tote bags after Lisa was here and quipped, “You’re like that lady on TV – Elsbeth – who dresses crazy and carries a lot of tote bags.” I needed to track that down…and when I saw a pic from the CBS show I giggled. Lisa wasn’t wrong about the tote bag obsession…but I don’t generally wear pink fuzzy hats, LOL! 😜💝😜

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  5. Beautiful post. When I started earning for myself, I bought myself a travel backpack as I am someone who to loves to hop on a plane and just wander to different places. My mom hates that backpack so much because it’s so bulky, not really asthetic. But it has been with me to different places. From los angeles, new york and even to peru. I still carry it around in the city and to my workplace. I don’t put so much in it except two water bottles, wallet, journals and maybe a laptop. But it’s sort of a comfort knowing it’s on my shoulders all the time

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  6. Hi Brian
    We think the backpack has to be light, spacious, and go with our outfit.
    Great post. We always wonder what other people carry in their bags.
    Thanks & cheers
    The Fab Four of Cley
    🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

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  7. i love this post, brian. with your wife being a teacher, you summed up how we have to carry multiple bags.) all of your examples are great for making us think about others and not judging them, we all have our reasons and baggage that we carry.

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      1. Even though I’m retired I still have a bag and my friends tell me that I’m like Mary Poppins, pretty much anything they might need I have in my bag.

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  8. Great post, though I do take issue with the line, You never know what’s in another person’s backpack. You do if you surreptitiously rifle through it when they’re not around!

    (Not that I would ever do this, of course.)

    But seriously, this analogy also applies to drivers. It’s why I try to give people grace when they are driving too slowly or cut me off. You never know what baggage they are dealing with.

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  9. So beautiful, Brian – I’m reading this on the bus, with my backpack on my lap. 😊

    Some days, the bag feels heavy – literally and figuratively. I love how you reflect on what people carry, how people present their bags vs what’s contained inside, and the assumptions we make about others weight.

    Great post!

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