It’s that time of year. Local high school kids are celebrating their graduations. Every time I look on social media the past week or so I keep coming across graduation pictures. There’s one of a mom and dad and the man or woman of the hour. Gotta get one in there too of grandma or grandpa. It’s fun to see.
It reminds me why I love this time of year. Three big reasons:
–Hope. Oh, hope is a powerful thing. It’s fun to see the graduates walk down the aisle and to see the great things they’ve accomplished and to imagine the even bigger things they’re going to achieve in the future. Maybe one will become a local carpenter, teacher or doctor? But who knows, maybe another will find a cure for cancer? The sky is certainly the limit.

–Killing off the Cliques. I’ve noticed with my own experience and my kids that something happens in the final months of high school. Kids start to drop the high school cliques that play such a huge part of the school experience. They start to see that they need each other. The jock talks to the nerd in line to pick up their yearbook. The drama queen ends up walking side by side with the video gamer. If real life has any benefits, it’s that it sends the cliques scurrying for cover. In the final weeks leading up to graduation, kids become adults and hopefully realize that we’re all more alike than we are different.
–What’s next. Author and speaker Norman Vincent Peale once wrote: “The more you lose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the more energy you will have.” I like to think of it another way. No one is more powerful than a person with a vision. Jump on the bandwagon and let’s see where the class of 2025 takes us.
Let’s go!
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That’s actually so true about the cliques coming together and different tiptoes of people talking to each other. That happened at my school too, I’m not sure why, maybe as people realise the cliques aren’t so important anymore.
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The cliques were the worst. I never seemed to fit in any of the round or square pegs. I was glad to see them dissolve!!!
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I can relate Brian.
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I love the hope that flows through this post. I hadn’t thought of the cliques melting away but yes – such a good thing. Let’s see where this class takes us! Yay!
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Hope is a good thing! 😎😎😎
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The prospect of life in the real world can sure smack a kid in the face and make them see reality. My grandson graduated college and was quite amazed. “I never dreamed would have trouble finding a job.” he told us.
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Reality comes fast doesn’t it Sheila. Good luck to your grandson. When I graduated, the job market was similar to today. It was tough sledding for a while. Tell him to stay positive, it will get better!
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You know what else kills those high school cliques? Being sentenced to Saturday detention run by a strict and nosy vice principal. By the end of the day, people are literally pumping their fists in the air in a show of solidarity!
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Yeah, yeah, and they all write a letter to the principal, saying “What we found out, sir, was that we’re all crazy and bad and beautiful, and spoiled and strong and mature and looney tunes and brilliant. Take it or leave it…” Instead of their names, they sign it the Breakfast Club. Sounds like a great idea for a movie. You should write up the script Mark!!! I see a big future for it. Ha, ha. 😎😎😎😎
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Man, we should take this idea to Hollywood!
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Yea, we need to take it before someone steals it. Which begs the question: I know some folks have issues with the Breakfast Club. The language and some of the topics would need to be updated, but could you ever see a remake? I don’t know. I don’t know that the times are the same.
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I love the movie unabashedly but would be opposed to a remake…not because of the language or topics; my issue would be the casting. It was already perfect. Nobody else could ever do it justice, and to me, it would just feel wrong seeing another jock, geek, etc.
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😎😎😎😎
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you are so right, I remember this myself, saw this with my daughters, and now with my oldest grandchild, the others yet to come
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A hopeful time.
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Love the final quote and your take on it. Both inspiring! A most exciting time of year. Years in the making! Sitting on the grad floor next to students was the pinnacle of my teaching year. I do miss that. 😊
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Oh that had to be a fun way to end the school year!!!!
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Yes! Made all the hard work worthwhile, seeing students walk across the stage and moving on with their lives.
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Very good
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Your description of the dropping of cliques resonates with me. That’s what makes the graduation ceremony so so special. Everyone has made it to the finish line in their own way but it becomes a big communal celebration. 💕
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Cliques were deadly back in the day. It wasn’t that it meant bad things . . . it just kept people away from each other. The standoffishness caused so many issues. My hope is that it’s gotten better, but I’m not sure that it has.
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I can only imagine that cliques have become more insidious with online and social media communities, sadly.
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“No one is more powerful than a person with a vision. Jump on the bandwagon and let’s see where the class of 2025 takes us.” YES – please save us from ourselves! I always have HOPE! V
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There’s a simple quote near the end of the movie Shawshank Redemption but I love it: “Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things.” Thanks Vickie, you’re so right. We always have hope!
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You nailed the big three things that happen after graduation, and all are so good!
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Yes
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😎😎😎😎
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What a hopeful and uplifting post, Brian. Love the 3 you chose for this time of year. 🎉🎓
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