Choosing Hope #5: Reasons to be hopeful

(Fifth in a week-long series on hope and optimism for the future.)

I closed my email and turned my phone over so that I couldn’t see the screen. I didn’t get the news I wanted. I had been hoping for something else. I wanted to shout, I wanted to scream. I wanted to cry out that I deserved better news.

I couldn’t get the message out of my mind, so I decided to go for a walk. Is it possible to walk with anger? I’m sure I looked like a crazed lunatic to passersby. Fortunately, the formal act of walking started to melt away the anger I held inside. I started to walk more freely and my mind started to wander. I didn’t forget about the bad news, but it wasn’t top of mind.

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Looking past the immediate

The world can feel like a heavy place at times, but it’s important to remember that there are plenty of uplifting things happening too. The more I walked, the more I started to think less about my immediate challenges and more about reasons why I’m optimistic for the future. Here’s 17 reasons — some off-the-wall, some personal, some more focused on the world — why I have hope for our shared future:

—I write about my dog Nittany a lot on my blog. I write about her, because I find that it’s hard not to look at her joy and her crazy antics and not be happy about life. For me, it’s Nittany, for someone else it may be a cat or dog or some other pet. Animals are a wondrous thing,

—Fellow bloggers and writers who I’ve worked with in the past who cheer me up and inspire me to be open, honest, and to push my creative juices.

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—Yes, there are lots of negatives in the world. There are higher prices and inflation, but there’s good things too. For example, inflation means that things cost more — the price of 12 large eggs in Philadelphia are now running $4.12 — but, on the plus side, mom and pop farmers can now charge more for their goods.

—Fidget spinners, those small, ball-bearing devices that the user can rotate between his or her fingers to relieve nervous energy and ease stress. (Give me a good reason to not to include them! I can’t think of one.)

—Ice cream. It’s hard to be mad when you’re eating ice dream.

—With new drugs and treatments, cancer is becoming less of a death sentence every year.

—The Internet and the (relative) free-flow of information.

—The knowledge that I am where I’m at today, and that’s okay.

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—The rapid growth of technology. (I’m amazed each day that my simple blog can be read by someone hundreds or even thousands of miles away from my little part of the world.)

—Child mortality rates according to the World Health Organization are lower than they have ever been in human history. A doctor once told me that he would sign up for the worst job in the world if he would never again have to look into a parent’s eyes and tell them that their child had died.

—The chance to write each day.

—Nature. A beautiful and precious thing. Yes, a photograph is a beautiful thing, but there’s nothing like being in the woods or by a pond and being quiet and still as the trees and water around you.

—The emotional high of getting a text, email, or call from a friend.

—While the elusive snow leopard still faces threats, the big cat — which lives in central Asia, from southern Russia down to China, Afghanistan, Pakistan, India and Nepal and was first listed as endangered in 1972 — was downgraded to “vulnerable” in 2017. The snow leopard still has a long way to go, but it’s making progress.

—People are generous. Global charitable giving is up. In particular, the National Philanthropic Trust reported that Americans gave $484.85 billion charitable causes in 2021, a 4% increase from 2020. World figures are up too.

—Volunteer firefighters. Well, let’s just say volunteers period. We come across volunteers numerous times in our life, from the volunteer coaches on our kids’ teams to the retired neighbor who delivers Meals on Wheels for the elderly. They deserve our thanks.

—Faith, family and friends.

Yes, I’m excited and hopeful for our future.


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25 thoughts on “Choosing Hope #5: Reasons to be hopeful

  1. This is beautiful, Brian. Can I add one more to your list? The power of words which can transmit your hope and optimism to someone else, namely me in this moment. It’s absolutely beautiful. I didn’t know that about child mortality and the snow leopard. Those plus all the other great things on your list have filled my cup at the start of this day. Thank you, Brian!

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    1. Awww, thanks Wynne! I’m glad I could help fill your cup. I’m sure those two kiddos of yours help fill yours each day too. Kids have a way of doing that w/o even trying all that hard. Have a great weekend!!!!😎😎😎😎😎😎

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  2. Atta boy! Terrific job with this one, Brian. Not trying for the unlikely/impossible, but setting reasonable expectations; I like it. Help yourself to another bowl of ice cream, on me! 😊

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  3. Brian,, what a fantastic post! I’m sorry you were angered by your email, but all the reasons for hope that you have given are great cause for celebration. When my brother died from cancer some years ago, I remember how my dad was in despair and said that there would never be a cure for cancer. He was just so very depressed and overcome with grief. I didn’t want to correct him because it wasn’t the right time. It’s wonderful now to see how much scientists and researchers have achieved. Yes, there’s a lot of hope for the future.
    I must get myself one of those fidget spinners. 😀

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    1. There’s no denying it, cancer sucks. So painful for everyone. A cure in our lifetime? Can you imagine! I hope so. I feel the same about other illnesses like Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, ALS. I hope your dad was able to move on from his despair. So tough. But yes, great to see the progress. I’m glad you liked my post. Thanks for letting me know! 😎😎😎😎😎

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  4. While I’m sorry to hear you received disappointing news, your ‘walking meditation’ and turning your attention to goodness and gratitude sounds like a wonderful, restorative practice. Thanks for sharing your list, Brian (and yesssss….ice cream!). 😎

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    1. I had to have looked funny to my neighbors. I swear there was smoke and fire coming out of my ears! I can’t say for sure, but I might have stomped my feet a couple of times too. Ha, ha …. But life moves on right. In the grand scheme of things all pretty minor. No one died. No one got hurt. I just didn’t get some news I wanted. I’ll live. Yes, yes, I def need to pick up some ice cream!!! Maybe some “death by chocolate” or maybe, some ben & Jerry’s phish food to commiserate! Ha ha. Have a great weekend.

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      1. Thanks, Brian…hope you have a great weekend, too. I bet our neighbors have seen a version of me doing the same…smoke out the ears…oh yeah! Take care! 😎

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    1. In moments like that, I try to tell myself “and this too shall pass!” I’m usually too impatient to take advantage of the advice, but hopefully it works for you Sheila! Hang in there!!!😎😎😜😎😎

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