Choosing Hope #4: Hope for when things go bad

(Fourth in a week-long series on hope and optimism for the future.)

Some days it’s hard to see the good. I’m not talking about trying to be “sickeningly sweet and optimistic.” No, no, I’m talking about being realistic, but still seeing the good that comes up in life. We’ve all had those days. You try to be positive, but you read the bad news or evil seeps into your day. On those tough days, I come back to two simple poems: “If” and “Still I Rise.”

Rudyard Kipling wrote “If” in 1895 and Maya Angelou published “Still I Rise” from And Still I Rise: A Book of Poems in 1978. I love the passion and care that’s behind both works.

Image by Pixabay.


“If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

    To serve your turn long after they are gone,   

And so hold on when there is nothing in you

    Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,   

    Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,

    If all men count with you, but none too much;”

–From If by Rudyard Kipling


Image by Pixabay.

“You may write me down in history

With your bitter, twisted lies,

You may trod me in the very dirt

But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?

Why are you beset with gloom?

’Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells

Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,

With the certainty of tides,

Just like hopes springing high,

Still I’ll rise.”

–From Still I Rise by Maya Angelou.


I love the messages, to be strong and take heart. Most importantly, I find that they give me hope for the future, for better tomorrows.

I hope they do the same for you.

Image by Pixabay.


Discover more from Writing from the Heart with Brian

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

49 thoughts on “Choosing Hope #4: Hope for when things go bad

    1. It’s funny you pointed out that line. I’ve read the poem countless times in the past. I had seen the line before, but it hit me differently this time. I read it earlier this week and broke out laughing. Love writers like that who keep cutting open an onion to our feelings and revealing things to us. She’s got so much to say. Thanks for joining the discussion Melissa.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Yes! I just mentioned to Jane that the publisher told me yesterday that the books should be shipped by Monday! Yay! Can’t wait for you to read, Brian. Thank you so much. 🥰

        Liked by 1 person

  1. A beautiful post, Brian, and message we all benefit from remembering. A signed copy of And Still I Rise (which I purchased already signed from an old bookstore) is my most treasured book, and that poem is my favorite, most-read piece.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Oh, that’s so cool Natalie. I wrote elsewhere here that I could quote her every week when I run my weekly quotes. She’s got so much to say about living a full life. I love the simplicity, but hidden complexity, in her writing and thoughts. I find I always learn something new about myself when I read her work. Thanks for sharing.

      Like

  2. What beautiful poems to muse on this morning! In particular, “But still, like dust, I’ll rise” struck me. We don’t think too highly of dirt, but indeed it rises when agitated. Thanks, Brian!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. You are absolutely right, Brian, there are days that I find it difficult to find the positive things in life. I’ve pushed the so-called news out of my life long ago and do my best to ignore it. The world is so negative today and so many people are very unhappy. But, we must continue to find positivity each day, and never give up!

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Your thoughts and the verses are inspiring. It may sound odd, but I also find hope in the bigger picture of history. As in, “It came to pass…” The media tries to hold us in the present awfulness, but so many awful things happened through time, and they finally passed. Mankind survived — and here we are still. We’ll make it.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. No, that’s not odd at all Christine, it’s great advice. We see things and assume that it’s always going to be that way. I was in the grocery store line and heard people complaining about prices. They are high, there’s no question. I don’t want to minimize them or the pain for some folks, but who’s to say that it’s always going to be that way. Some prices may actually go down. I know it helps me to see the bigger picture. Before a test, I used to tell myself, ten years from now I’ll laugh about this. Generally that has held true.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Speaking of prices, I have a memoir of a young married man working in the Grain Exchange in the Dirty Thirties. Stood in the relief line with train engineers — no grain to haul or sell. Relief provided funds for food and rent, but not a cent for clothing, fuel, medical, etc., for about eight years. And no relief paid to single men.
        But some wise soul once said, “If I have a headache, it bothers me more at that moment than all the blood that’s ever been shed in all the wars that have ever been fought.” 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

  5. You are quite right Brian in asserting that not all days are good. Choosing joy isn’t about ignoring the bad, it’s about making a choice in spite of the bad. The poems you mention are great inspiration on making a positive choice. Thanks for sharing. 🌸

    Liked by 1 person

    1. I love how you phrased that. It’s so well said: “Choosing joy isn’t about ignoring the bad, it’s about making a choice in spite of the bad.” I know that I sound wishy-washy or undecided in some of my wording. I don’t want to come across as someone who only sees the good. That’s not a good stance to have either. The approach that helps me is to see the challenges and still look for the joy. Thanks for joining the discussion.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. You don’t sound wishy washy at all. Perhaps people think that of me, because I do focus on the joy. Though I can assure all, it is a definitive choice. Thanks for your lovely post Brian. 🌸

        Liked by 1 person

    1. I love that line too. To be that strong of a writer to come up with that one. I would’ve used some silly word like confident, cocky, wealthy, rich. Maya takes it up three notches. Wow. You’ll appreciate this Wynne. I originally included both poems, but then I started to worry about copy right infringement. I think I could have used Kipling’s verbatim since it was published before the 20s, but I published all of Maya’s I think I would have been breaking infringement rights. So I said the heck with it and just included small parts. Yea, I doubt anyone would come after me, but still crazy anyway. Oh the life of a WordPress Blogger!

      Liked by 1 person

  6. I love the soothingness of poems. I smiled at the Maya Angelou poem. My very first post from years ago opened with one of her poems. Her work is so wise and prophetic.

    Liked by 1 person

Comments are closed.

Website Powered by WordPress.com.

Up ↑

Discover more from Writing from the Heart with Brian

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading