The summer is winding down. My wife is already back to school. Fall is almost here. I went outside the other night and the temperature felt like it had taken a dip. I’m not sure when or how, but my hope is that we can make one last trip to the beach.
We’ll see if I can pull a rabbit out of a hat.
In the meantime, here are a few truisms about the beach or shore or whatever you call it that I’ve learned over the years:
- Sand gets in everywhere and I mean everywhere.
- I don’t care what the weatherman says, the water is never warm enough. I’ve been to the Caribbean. I’ve touched the Pacific and the Atlantic. I’ve looked longingly at the Mediterranean. I’ve even stepped foot into several large lakes. Lake Erie and Ontario come to mind. The water is never as warm as you expect.
- One short walk on the beach soothes the soul. When the beach sends a direct call to my heart and soul, I have to go. The beach and mountains are the only things that have that power.

- The sun will always find you. It will always find the one spot that you forgot to cover or put suntan lotion.
- Kindness and seashells are the entry fee to heaven.
- There are different types of beaches and beach towns. There are ones with tacky commercial shops, others with snobby, high-priced boutiques. There are rocky beaches and others with sandy dunes. There are private beaches far from probing eyes. There are others where the sand is so wide that the ocean feels like it’s miles away. There are beaches for every taste. You have your pick of Cape May, New Jersey or Santa Barbara, California; Keywest, Florida or Newport Beach, California; Bar Harbor, Maine or Long Beach, Washington or a million other places. Beaches all have one thing in common: They call us.

- Sunrises and sunsets over water are some of the most powerful medicines in the world. They have a unique healing power.
- Jelly Fish look amazing, but don’t be fooled. They are on the smaller size and gelatinous but Jaws is their hero. They want to be a Great White Shark when they grow up.
- No matter how many precautions you take, your keys, phone, and water bottle will end up in the sand. It is unavoidable. It’s not a question of “if,” but “when.”
- The poem Footprints uses the imagery of a dream. In this dream, someone walks with God and sees only one set of footprints in the sand during difficult times. It’s during these times when God is carrying them. The poem takes place at the beach because most folks love the beach. No one wants footprints in the snow. No one wants to cry out: “Take me now Lord. The temp dipped to ten below zero last night and the snowdrifts are up to my shoulders!”
- Summer is amazing at the beach. But Spring, Fall and Winter aren’t too bad either.

- Sea gulls are crazy little buggers. They’re the treacherous thieves and bank robbers of the oceanic world. Have you seen them on the boardwalk? I would use stronger language to describe them, but this is a family blog.
- The number of signs on the beach don’t matter. Someone will always swim where they’re not supposed to swim and someone will always play their boom box too loud.
- Napping at the beach is different than anywhere else in the world. When I close my eyes and take everything in at the beach, my thoughts drift away. I hear the waves crashing to the shore and nothing else. I’m in another place. I don’t even have to fall asleep. I wake up calmer and more at peace. The waves help me get back to me.
- There are no bad days at the beach.
I feel a day trip coming this weekend or next. Now to convince my wife. Who’s with me?
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It’s true, a day by the ocean can heal just about anything! I just got back from visiting a new to me beach (Newport, OR) last week. What a beauty. Thanks for all of these reminders of why it’s so great.
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Oh that’s cool Jessica. My experiences are probably a bit tainted by Atlantic beaches, but hopefully it felt at home to what you just saw. Love, love the water. Love how it can be so peaceful and full of life all at the same time. Have a great weekend. 🤣🤣😎
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Same here – the Oregon coast looks nothing like the northeast beaches I am used to, but it was so beautiful to see a very different beach culture. Hope you have a great weekend, too!
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love your beach wisdom and sounds like you are halfway there already. I’ll see you guys there.
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Oh, I’m there in spirit … but might take a while to get back. We usually go later in the fall with a bunch of friends. That might be the next visit. School has started. So, we’ll see if I can convince the boss to make a day trip of it. Ha, ha. 🤣🤣😎
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a fall trip to the beach with friends sounds great
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😉👍
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Have a great weekend LA!
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Sand and glitter are forever…😆
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Oh that’s too funny Erin. Sand and glitter. Decisions made in haste that last a lifetime. Ha, ha. 🤣🤣😎
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Love the beach…water brings so much serenity
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Love the water. And I’m not even a big get in the water guy. I just love the sound of the waves crashing on shore.
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Agree, the crashing waves are heavenly!
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Of course, my wife just sent me video showing the huge waves that hit Jersey/Delaware last night and today. I’m not sure they would be considered all that big by surfers but still pretty big. I don’t care … I’m still a beach guy. 🎉🎉
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Yes there were some big waves but that’s when you watch from a bar on the other side of the road!
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I like your thinking John. Smart!!!
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If she’s not interested, I’ll tag along. I love the beach! The less tackier, the better. And I agree with you about the powerful sway both the beach and mountains have over your soul. It’s a toss-up which I like better; both soothe in their own way.
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I’m with you. I like the beach and mountains. I grew up more in a mountain, wooded area, so I’m probably a little more partial to the beach, but I’ll take both. I don’t think we’ll get anywhere this weekend, but I’m hoping we get to a lake or beach over the next four weeks. We’ll see. 🤣🤣😎
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We’re pretty lucky if we have a beach nearby.
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I hear you. It’s a bit of a drive for us to get to the beach, but I’m hoping to get to a lake or beach somewhere . . . soon. Ha, ha.
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Having a bit of a drive to get there makes it all the more special.
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🤣🤣😎
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This is so wonderful – “Kindness and seashells are the entry fee to heaven.” Cheers to a few more beach day this year!
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I’m counting on it being that way. Ha, ha. I might end up the other direction, but I’m hoping anyway. Ha. ha.
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Nodding my head in agreement with your post. YES! The beach restores my soul! Nothing else can work the magic like it can. Just got back from a vacation at the beach and the one thing you didn’t say. Beach vacations are never long enough! 😎
I hope you can make it there this weekend!
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Probably not this weekend … but I’m working the boss! We’ll see. Maybe next weekend or later in Sept!!! Ha ha. And you’re so right about them being too short! Never long enough. Have a great weekend!!!!
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September is a great time to go. It’s not as crowded, and the water is warmer. 😉
Thanks! Hope you have a great weekend, too!
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Yea, Sept and October are great times. We usually go with friends for a weekend in late October to Cape May. Colder but lots of fun.
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Love the title of this post! The beach is always calling me and I rarely have time to visit like I wish I would. These photos make it all the more tempting!
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Ha, ha, I’m right there with you. I feel like I let the call go to voicemail until it feels like the call is ringing off the hook. I’m hoping we can make it sometime over the next few weeks. Good luck to you!!!
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Big smiles here, Brian. The beach is everything you say. I hope you get that last beach day.
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Let’s hope so!!!!
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😍
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Oh, you’ve nailed it, Brian. Especially, “When the beach sends a direct call to my heart and soul, I have to go. The beach and mountains are the only things that have that power.” Yes, yes, yes! Answer the call, Brian!! ❤
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We definitely have plans to head back to the beach in late fall, but I’m hoping for a quick day trip maybe over the next three weeks. We’ll see! Your trip to Whitby sounded amazing!!! I appreciate the calmness and serenity that I get from it!!!! Have a great weekend! 😎😎😎😎😎
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Hell yes I’ll pick up!!!!!! 😩😩 now I want the beach
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Ha ha, love it Belladonna! Ya gotta make it happen now. We both do. 🤣🤣😎😎😎😎😎
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Yes Lawd!!!! Please let this happen for me again before winter strikes.
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Well, I don’t know, but the beaches in Puerto Rico in July from 12–1 PM are pretty warm, especially in the south. Hawaii is pretty good too, but any beaches in the continental U.S. feel cold to me.
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Okay, I’ll give you that! The Caribbean and Hawaii have definitely warmer than the cold Atlantic!! Ha ha!
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Sure sounds inviting! You’re right – there’s no bad season at the beach.
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Some days are amazing at the beach. But you’re so right, no bad days!!!😎😎😎🙏🏼
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😊👍🏻
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I’m with you!
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🤣😎😎😎😎😎
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love your witty, true, observant and honest beach views!
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Oh thank you Vickie! Lots of good at the beach!!!
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Such beautiful truisms, Brian. A walk on the beach is soul soothing indeed. I feel the summer flying by too but there are still a few rabbits to be pulled out of the hat, as you said, before our part of the world settles into fall and the slumber of winter. 🙏 Hope your wife is settling into the new school year ok!
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Oh yea, the test will be on Monday. Her kid’s first day! Ha ha!
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