I stopped by the front desk and the maitre d' showed me to my table. "Right this way, Sir." The party was in full session. Oh, in reality I was just taking a short break from work and had stepped out onto our front porch to sit on a rocker, but when I closed my... Continue Reading →
When you need a friend
The meeting was winding to a close. I had been worried about it all morning. I wanted to make sure that my client got what she needed. It was made even more awkward because there seemed to be an abnormally high level of tension and a confrontation of egos over whose needs were more important.... Continue Reading →
When empty nesters lie
I’m training to be a professional IndyCar race car driver. My wife? She’s become a world renown ballroom dancer. What’s going on? We regularly talk to our kids on the weekends. These conversations are always interesting. However, as empty nesters, we don’t always have a lot to say. They’re the ones doing lots of cool... Continue Reading →
The Beatles & bad break-ups!
The month of April has a something for everyone, some silly jokes for the pranksters on April Fool’s Day and the chance for nature lovers to plant a tree on Arbor Day. With the weather starting to turn warmer in much of the U.S., it’s also natural to think about Spring and Earth Day. I’m kind of... Continue Reading →
Lay? Lie? Oh, just go to sleep!
I rarely if ever leave two spaces at the end of a sentence. I'm good about remembering the Oxford comma. I'm adamant about choosing the correct version of there, their, or they're, but I still have my grammar challenges. I've talked about some of my hurdles in past blog posts. In my post Confusing Rules,... Continue Reading →
At Death’s Door
I looked in the car mirror, tightened my tie and took a deep breath. Once my my wife and I were ready, we got out of the car and started walking to get in line for the viewing. The wife of a friend had passed away and we wanted to show our respect. We recognized... Continue Reading →
The proper way to collect seashells
My wife and I went away for a long weekend getaway to the beach last weekend. We strolled the empty boardwalk (give it a few weeks and I'm sure it will be packed to the gills) and later when the rain stopped and the sun came out, we put away our raincoats and walked along... Continue Reading →
My Towering Inferno
My Tower of Babel is starting to topple over. Oh, I'm not talking about the original Tower of Babel, the old parable in the Bible. I'm talking instead about the tower of books that have been collecting on my desk. In the parable, the Babylonians wanted to make a name for themselves by building a... Continue Reading →
The Ten Commandments of Me
(A version of this story ran in March 2016.) Best selling author and blogger Gretchen Rubin suggests that readers of her book, “The Happiness Project,” establish a list of personal commandments to be used as overarching principles and guiderails to help lead a happy life. Other philosophers, self help gurus, and writers have had their own spin... Continue Reading →

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