Several years ago, we went hiking in Shenandoah National Park in Northern Virginia, but even with the covered woods, the bright sun beat down on us. My shirt was soaked with sweat and dirt.
The climb back up the hill where we parked was slow. I would walk for a minute or two and then stop and then continue on for a few minutes more. My wife and I had been completing our little game of stop and start for the past half hour. We were both exhausted.

I could feel my sore muscles with every step, but I pushed on because I knew we were getting closer to the parking area, where we’d get refreshed with cold drinks and maybe a snack. The parking lot couldn’t come fast enough.
Sure enough, we made it to our destination and cooled off on a picnic bench under a grove of trees. As tired as we both were, my wife gave me a crazed look when I told her that I was glad we completed the hike but couldn’t wait to do it again in the future.
She looked up at me and asked “Have you lost your mind?”
I supposed I had. When I dream about bucket list places I want to visit, I find I often dream about mountains and parks like Shenandoah National Park; Yellowstone National Park spanning across Wyoming, Idaho and Montana; Zion National Park in Utah, Yosemite National Park in California, and many others.

Yellowstone celebrates a big birthday of sorts this week. President Ulysses S. Grant signed the Yellowstone National Park Protection Act on March 1, 1872, creating one of the world’s first national parks and later the creation of the National Park Service. We’re fortunate to have the National Park System. In 2022, the National Park Service received 312 million recreation visits, up 15 million visits from 2021.
Parks with the most number of visitors each year include:
- Great Smoky Mountains National Park—12.94 million visits.
- Grand Canyon National Park—4.73 million visits.
- Zion National Park—4.69 million visits.
- Rocky Mountain National Park—4.3 million visits.
- Acadia National Park—3.97 million visits.
- Yosemite National Park—3.67 million visits.
The park service got me thinking about a few other things that we take advantage of, but don’t appreciate enough. Oh, yes, family, food, clothes, shelter, and a host of other “necessities” are big on that list, but I was thinking a bit more narrow focused. Here’s my list:
–Clothes warm right out of the dryer or dry from the line.
–A homemade meal. This list would be long. My mother-in-laws chicken. I’m sure it has so much butter that doctors probably have it outlawed. My wife’s meatloaf. You think meat loaf, okay, can’t be all that great and then you take a bite and realize that nothing else even compares.
–My dog Nittany lying her head on your leg.
–A sunny day after a lengthy spell of rainy days.
–A hot shower.
–Cell service. Think this doesn’t matter. Ask AT&T customers who were without service late last week. You need to make a call and you can’t get a bar. It’s rare, but when it happens, you realize how special it is.
–Friends who accept you. There’s nothing else like finding “your people.” You know when you have.
–A thank you card.
What are some things that you regularly use, but oftentimes take for granted?
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Yellowstone is on my bucket list. I’ve booked it for the first week in September. Can’t wait!
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Oh that’s awesome Mary. Sounds like a fun trip!!!! Have a great time!!!!
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Thanks. You’re so right that we’re lucky to have the national parks. I finally made it to the Grand Canyon last year. Your post reminds me that I need to go back to Acadia soon.
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I went with my son to Zion National Park in Utah last summer, it was amazing. We only had time for a short trip, but I could have spent weeks there. Sadly, we’ve never made it to the Grand Canyon. Ugh. I’ve heard great things about Arcadia. I wouldn’t mind the Maine lobster too. Ha, ha.
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It’s great that you got to do Zion with your son. Good point about the lobster 🦞 – motivation for the 4-hour drive to Acadia!
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🙂 🙂 🙂
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Oh my goodness. Thanks for the Friday morning “fill up” Brian. I love everything on your list…especially the warm laundry and a sweet pup resting on our legs. Sigh. Happy Friday, my friend! 🥰
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Yes, yes, yes, TGIF. Have an amazing weekend.
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🥰☀️🥰
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We live quite a way from immediate service, so our generator saves a lot of in the food, warmth and comfort area of life at least 4x a year from a few hours to a few days.
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Yup, generators are always one of those things that many people put off, but boy do they help out in a pinch. Smart thinking!!!
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So many places to visit! My list is loooong 🙂
As for your list of every day joys, they are all wonderful. Doesn’t take much to make one feel good.
Have a great Friday.
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I mentioned the US Dale, but I can think of more than a few parks in 🇨🇦 closer to you, where I would love to visit!!!!
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Of course. I meant in the US. But yes, there are quite a few in Canada that I’d like to add to my list, too!
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I thought you were talking the US but I really want you to travel more in Canada too. So many wishes and bucket list places and do little time. I think I need to quit my job and just travel nonstop!!!! See how far I get!!! Ha ha ha
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Lookit you… I’ve crossed Canada by car twice, stopped at many parks (there are lots more, of course!).
I am SO ready to retire!
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Yes, same here!
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My favorite and faithful Guy who does floors and encourages me in this long-term unwellness! (We just might need your wife’s meatloaf recipe. . . . )
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It’s to die for!!!! I never thought of myself as a meatloaf guy but I’ve never had it like this. Ha ha!
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Indoor plumbing. Solid walls and flooring. Heat and hot water. Security.
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Oh yea!!!! I’m with you LA! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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You are so right!
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I think in general we take our home appliances for granted. We’ve had really good, long runs with most of them, and when a couple eventually failed we (then!) realized how very lucky we were they lasted as long as they did.
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Great point Bruce! We seem to through weird stretches where everything works great and then something happens and we have a run of things breaking. Kind of strange!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I try not to take my cats for granted. They’re very loving and forgiving, and that’s not true of all cats. They’re also getting older. My time with them is getting short.
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I write some very sarcastic things about my dog … but I get it Belinda, I try to enjoy our time with her. She’s getting older, time is starting to show its wear.
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There is absolutely nothing else like finding ‘your people’! Total acceptance, and total recognition.
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Yes, I’ve been thinking about that lately, such a small thing, but huge impacts!!!!
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Excellent list of under appreciated things. Just think a few years (or maybe decades) ago we didn’t even have cell phones.
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I’m always amazed by that one … both from negative and positive perspectives. First, how did the huge cell phone companies get us hooked and willing to pay a new monthly bill. Ugh. But, there’s so many positives too. The ability to have a mini-computer at our finger tips whenever we need it. Kind of crazy!!!
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I love the point of this…things to be thankful for, things to do while we can, never take things for granted…my wife and I hiked up Angel’s Landing in Zion National Park and it was a life highlight…here’s video and photos if you are interested: https://johnrieber.com/2023/06/19/is-this-americas-most-dangerous-hike-i-found-new-video-of-our-hike-to-angels-landing/
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Oh, thanks so much John, love your post and the shots. Looks amazing. Angel’s Landing is definitely on my bucket list, looks absolutely terrifying and exciting all at the same time. My son and I got the chance to spend some time at Zion last summer. If we didn’t need to get him back to 29 Palms, we could’ve easily spent a week there. So much to see. Thanks for sharing.
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Yes, it is something else indeed…scary and exhilarating in equal measure! The great outdoors is something, isn’t it?
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Here’s to National Parks! A sunset, sunny days, the big sky, and children always make me feel good.
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I’m with you about hiking National Parks. They’re so aw-inspiring! What a fun tidbit about the park patronage numbers. Your entire gratitude list resonates with me. So much goodness! Hope you have a great weekend filled with puppy snuggles, warm laundry, and homemade meals. ☺️
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Oh yes, that sounds like a perfect weekend!
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I love your list – and the National Parks. I’d love to visit all the historic lodges. Paradise Inn on Mt. Rainier is one of my favorites and I’ve visited Timberline Lodge on Mt. Hood, and the one in Zion. But there are so many other classic ones!
And your list of other treasures is so good as well. I’d add a good conversation to the list!
Grateful for you, Brian!
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Those lodges sounds awesome. I would love seeing all of them. Thank you Wynne! Thanks for your kind comment too. Grateful for your friendship!!!! 🙂
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My friend Brian, I L💖VE your list and I especially your last entry, “A Thank You Card!” I guess this shows how old I am, but it boggles my mind of how two simple words go unsaid and unwritten more times than I can count. Keep emptying that ‘bucket’ list my friend. 😜 And I too adore our beautiful parks. Just gazing out at the expanse of cracks, canyons, crevices and trees, trees, trees, it humbles me, just standing there and pausing at the incredible beauty of creation! 🗻🌄🌋
Cheers to a FANtabulous weekend my friend. 😍🥂🌞
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It is a fantabulous weekend Kym. We thought we might have to make a decision on our aging little puppy on her future, but turns out a health issue she’s having is not that big after all. Feeling very good right now.
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Awwww Brian, you have every reason to celebrate and I am so lovin’ your vibe my comedic master of disguises! 😜 Nittany probably just wanted a little TLC! 🐶 Hugs my friend. 😊💖🤗
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Oh, we were worried! Thought it might be time. Grateful for the lil pup! She keeps the comedy coming!
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I can believe that Brian. We can use all the laughter we can get, simply from those little things that mean so much! Glad things turned out great for your little bundle of joy! 🐶 Cheers! 🍸🥂🍷
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The US has so many wonderful and breathtaking national parks that I have yet to but want to explore one day. And you’ve listed so many on my bucket list.
It is wonderful there are laws in place protecting these natural beauties!
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Don’t get me wrong my bucket list includes lots of places north and south of the US and across the globe. My eyes are bigger than my checkbook. Ha ha!
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Amazing post Brian, got me appreciating the outdoors and then also, the little things around us that we take for granted.
top on my list is a air conditioning. It’s hot tropical weather over here almost all the time.
There are so many more things. Thank you for making me pause to appreciate them.
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Oh, in your tropical weather Emaistace, I would be a mess. Air conditioning would be on nonstop! I see why it would be top on your list. Ha, ha.
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Oh Brian. It’s crazy here. And guess what, our electricity power supply is often rationed. Drives me crazy
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Oh, my goodness Emaistace, that would drive me crazy too. I would be lost without air conditioning. I sound so spoiled. Here’s hoping for better fortune with the electric. Ugh.
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Hahahahhah @ “I sound so spoiled”.
Thank you for hoping with me.
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There’s something so special about the mountains. They keep calling me back too. You should also add a few Canadian national parks to your list, like Jasper and Banff. I’d love to visit every national park in North America someday.
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Oh, yes, mountains draw me in. I grew up in a rural valley and mountains have always had a power and place of meaning for me. Kind of crazy. Yes, lots of places in Canada on my bucket list. I probably should have restated that in my story, parks in North America. So much to see, so little time. Ha, ha.
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Oh I know. But hey, it forces us to prioritize and appreciate being able to travel when we can.
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Brian, Shenandoah National Park is my favorite place on Earth. When I was young, we hiked most of the trails in the park. Our favorites were the waterfall trails. It’s been over twenty years since I hiked there, but the beautiful places live in my memory. ❤️
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Oh, that’s awesome Cheryl. I’m with you, love Shenandoah. We try to visit every couple of years. When my wife and I lived in Virginia, we seemed to be there every weekend. Yes, we loved the waterfalls too. Dark Hollow falls was a favorite. If I remember right, it had a pretty steep hike back out, but that was fine. You’ve got me itching to go now. Might have to make a trip this spring. Thanks for reading.
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Brian I love hiking and being able to see all the glory God created!! So many places in my list
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