The things we take for granted

Several years ago, we went hiking in Shenandoah National Park in Northern Virginia, but even with the covered woods, the bright sun beat down on us. My shirt was soaked with sweat and dirt.

The climb back up the hill where we parked was slow. I would walk for a minute or two and then stop and then continue on for a few minutes more. My wife and I had been completing our little game of stop and start for the past half hour. We were both exhausted.

I could feel my sore muscles with every step, but I pushed on because I knew we were getting closer to the parking area, where we’d get refreshed with cold drinks and maybe a snack. The parking lot couldn’t come fast enough.

Sure enough, we made it to our destination and cooled off on a picnic bench under a grove of trees. As tired as we both were, my wife gave me a crazed look when I told her that I was glad we completed the hike but couldn’t wait to do it again in the future.

She looked up at me and asked “Have you lost your mind?”

I supposed I had. When I dream about bucket list places I want to visit, I find I often dream about mountains and parks like Shenandoah National Park; Yellowstone National Park spanning across Wyoming, Idaho and Montana; Zion National Park in Utah, Yosemite National Park in California, and many others.

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Yellowstone celebrates a big birthday of sorts this week. President Ulysses S. Grant signed the Yellowstone National Park Protection Act on March 1, 1872, creating one of the world’s first national parks and later the creation of the National Park Service. We’re fortunate to have the National Park System. In 2022, the National Park Service received 312 million recreation visits, up 15 million visits from 2021.

Parks with the most number of visitors each year include:

  • Great Smoky Mountains National Park—12.94 million visits.
  • Grand Canyon National Park—4.73 million visits.
  • Zion National Park—4.69 million visits.
  • Rocky Mountain National Park—4.3 million visits.
  • Acadia National Park—3.97 million visits.
  • Yosemite National Park—3.67 million visits.

The park service got me thinking about a few other things that we take advantage of, but don’t appreciate enough. Oh, yes, family, food, clothes, shelter, and a host of other “necessities” are big on that list, but I was thinking a bit more narrow focused. Here’s my list:

–Clothes warm right out of the dryer or dry from the line.

–A homemade meal. This list would be long. My mother-in-laws chicken. I’m sure it has so much butter that doctors probably have it outlawed. My wife’s meatloaf. You think meat loaf, okay, can’t be all that great and then you take a bite and realize that nothing else even compares.

–My dog Nittany lying her head on your leg.

–A sunny day after a lengthy spell of rainy days.

–A hot shower.

–Cell service. Think this doesn’t matter. Ask AT&T customers who were without service late last week. You need to make a call and you can’t get a bar. It’s rare, but when it happens, you realize how special it is.

–Friends who accept you. There’s nothing else like finding “your people.” You know when you have.

–A thank you card.

What are some things that you regularly use, but oftentimes take for granted?


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57 thoughts on “The things we take for granted

  1. Thanks. You’re so right that we’re lucky to have the national parks. I finally made it to the Grand Canyon last year. Your post reminds me that I need to go back to Acadia soon.

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    1. I went with my son to Zion National Park in Utah last summer, it was amazing. We only had time for a short trip, but I could have spent weeks there. Sadly, we’ve never made it to the Grand Canyon. Ugh. I’ve heard great things about Arcadia. I wouldn’t mind the Maine lobster too. Ha, ha.

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  2. Oh my goodness. Thanks for the Friday morning “fill up” Brian. I love everything on your list…especially the warm laundry and a sweet pup resting on our legs. Sigh. Happy Friday, my friend! 🥰

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  3. We live quite a way from immediate service, so our generator saves a lot of in the food, warmth and comfort area of life at least 4x a year from a few hours to a few days.

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  4. So many places to visit! My list is loooong 🙂
    As for your list of every day joys, they are all wonderful. Doesn’t take much to make one feel good.
    Have a great Friday.

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  5. I think in general we take our home appliances for granted. We’ve had really good, long runs with most of them, and when a couple eventually failed we (then!) realized how very lucky we were they lasted as long as they did.

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  6. I try not to take my cats for granted. They’re very loving and forgiving, and that’s not true of all cats. They’re also getting older. My time with them is getting short.

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    1. I’m always amazed by that one … both from negative and positive perspectives. First, how did the huge cell phone companies get us hooked and willing to pay a new monthly bill. Ugh. But, there’s so many positives too. The ability to have a mini-computer at our finger tips whenever we need it. Kind of crazy!!!

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    1. Oh, thanks so much John, love your post and the shots. Looks amazing. Angel’s Landing is definitely on my bucket list, looks absolutely terrifying and exciting all at the same time. My son and I got the chance to spend some time at Zion last summer. If we didn’t need to get him back to 29 Palms, we could’ve easily spent a week there. So much to see. Thanks for sharing.

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  7. I’m with you about hiking National Parks. They’re so aw-inspiring! What a fun tidbit about the park patronage numbers. Your entire gratitude list resonates with me. So much goodness! Hope you have a great weekend filled with puppy snuggles, warm laundry, and homemade meals. ☺️

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  8. I love your list – and the National Parks. I’d love to visit all the historic lodges. Paradise Inn on Mt. Rainier is one of my favorites and I’ve visited Timberline Lodge on Mt. Hood, and the one in Zion. But there are so many other classic ones!

    And your list of other treasures is so good as well. I’d add a good conversation to the list!

    Grateful for you, Brian!

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  9. My friend Brian, I L💖VE your list and I especially your last entry, “A Thank You Card!” I guess this shows how old I am, but it boggles my mind of how two simple words go unsaid and unwritten more times than I can count. Keep emptying that ‘bucket’ list my friend. 😜 And I too adore our beautiful parks. Just gazing out at the expanse of cracks, canyons, crevices and trees, trees, trees, it humbles me, just standing there and pausing at the incredible beauty of creation! 🗻🌄🌋

    Cheers to a FANtabulous weekend my friend. 😍🥂🌞

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      1. Awwww Brian, you have every reason to celebrate and I am so lovin’ your vibe my comedic master of disguises! 😜 Nittany probably just wanted a little TLC! 🐶 Hugs my friend. 😊💖🤗

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      2. I can believe that Brian. We can use all the laughter we can get, simply from those little things that mean so much! Glad things turned out great for your little bundle of joy! 🐶 Cheers! 🍸🥂🍷

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  10. The US has so many wonderful and breathtaking national parks that I have yet to but want to explore one day. And you’ve listed so many on my bucket list.

    It is wonderful there are laws in place protecting these natural beauties!

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  11. Amazing post Brian, got me appreciating the outdoors and then also, the little things around us that we take for granted.

    top on my list is a air conditioning. It’s hot tropical weather over here almost all the time.

    There are so many more things. Thank you for making me pause to appreciate them.

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  12. There’s something so special about the mountains. They keep calling me back too. You should also add a few Canadian national parks to your list, like Jasper and Banff. I’d love to visit every national park in North America someday.

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    1. Oh, yes, mountains draw me in. I grew up in a rural valley and mountains have always had a power and place of meaning for me. Kind of crazy. Yes, lots of places in Canada on my bucket list. I probably should have restated that in my story, parks in North America. So much to see, so little time. Ha, ha.

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  13. Brian, Shenandoah National Park is my favorite place on Earth. When I was young, we hiked most of the trails in the park. Our favorites were the waterfall trails. It’s been over twenty years since I hiked there, but the beautiful places live in my memory. ❤️

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    1. Oh, that’s awesome Cheryl. I’m with you, love Shenandoah. We try to visit every couple of years. When my wife and I lived in Virginia, we seemed to be there every weekend. Yes, we loved the waterfalls too. Dark Hollow falls was a favorite. If I remember right, it had a pretty steep hike back out, but that was fine. You’ve got me itching to go now. Might have to make a trip this spring. Thanks for reading.

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