When I was a kid, summer was the best. My mom gave me chores, but life was great, no school, no homework, life was a breeze. At least, until Decision Day. In my little world, that meant the day that the school posted the classroom assignments and I would learn who I would have for a teacher. Let’s just say, that’s the day, life got real.
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It was a simple thing, but the classroom list carried a ton of stress. A good outcome meant a teacher I liked and lots of friends in my class. A bad outcome meant a tough teacher and no friends. In the end, I was never all that happy with either outcome, because it meant that summer would soon be ending and a new school year would soon be starting, but I still wanted a good teacher.
Like most kids my age, I spent an inordinate amount of time focusing on who I was going to get. We all wanted the fun teacher, the one who played games, seemed friendly to other kids, and gave out snacks. Looking back all these years later, it’s funny how the teachers I worried about the most, turned out being some of the best teachers I ever had. They challenged me, but yet still encouraged my curiosity and love of learning. I may have wanted someone else, but I flourished under their watch.
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Yes, it’s funny how life works that way sometimes.
I’ve seen it with my own kids too. My youngest son worried one year that he had the strict elementary teacher. Two months into the school year, he admitted that he couldn’t have been more wrong. Yes, she had brusque manner, but she got his off-the-wall humor and dry wit and encouraged his creative problem solving.
When he told me that, I wanted to lecture him about keeping an open mind, but deep down all I could do was shake my head in knowing agreement.
I write today in my post, Tough as Nails, on The Heart of the Matter, on one such teacher who I thought I would hate, but actually ended up loving. She taught me that there are no wrong answers or questions, as long we keep seeking the truth. I’m grateful that she gave me the strong foundation I needed.
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Brian, I can concur with your assessmentt of the anxiety we face with our teacher assignments. In my situation, I attended the same high school that my sister (The Valedictorian) attended, and I think many of her teachers who I got, expected the same from me. WRONG! But those teachers weren’t extremely hard on me, but were the ones who encouraged me to take college prep courses, because I believe they saw a potential I didn’t see at that time. Thanks for making me smile with memories. 👩🏻🏫📚🌞✍🏼🥰
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Oh, memories are fun to go back to occasionally. Yes, I had the same situation. My brothers were pretty good students. I, on the other hand, had to learn how to be one. Great teachers are an amazing thing!!!!!
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Oh yes they are Brian. They are truly the backbone of our educational system when you get those teachers who really care about your learnnig. I am fortunate to have many who demonstrated how much they cared coming through my formative years. Thanks for taking us down memory lane! 😍💖😊
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I had so many teachers like that, whom I dreaded because they had such high expectations. However, like you, they ended up pushing me outside my comfort zone and they’re my favorites, in retrospect. So funny how that works!
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I had some great teachers and some so-so ones, but am very appreciative! Love how the great ones reached me and got me raise my goals and try for more!!!!😎😎😎
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I’m not sure if it’s different in the UK, but I don’t remember this kind of experience. It may be that I attended 5 schools in 7 years, but I never gave my teachers any thought.
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Oh that’s wonderful Brenda, better not to worry about your teacher. Must be more of a US thing. My schools always tended to be on the smaller side, but when the school would always post the teacher and student names before the start of the school year so that you knew where to go in the school building on the first day. Ha ha ha
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The schoold I remember only had one class for each year until I went to Secondary. I guess you knew who you were going to get the next year
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The best teachers I had made me think and work hard. How great a dad were you to not give that lecture to keep an open mind!
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It’s amazing what great teachers can do. The effect they can have on you. I’m not sure about being a great dad. I just couldn’t give the lecture because I had the same thing happen to me. Ha ha ha
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It too easy to give the lecture. Sometimes we just need to listen.
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As teachers often teach us, never judge a book by the cover. 🙏 I had a similar dress in Grade 12 when I got a tough teacher for a humanities course and she ended up being one of my all time best and fave teacher. Tough but fair and so kind.
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Tough but fair and kind. My summation of a great teacher!!!!😎😎
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I love that your son came to the conclusion about his teacher on his own. That’s some really great parenting, Brian! 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thank you Wynne, I can’t take credit for that though, it’s the good fortune of having kids that are smarter than me! He was lucky too, he had that teacher two years in a row, really helped him grow and develop.
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I had bad luck when it came to getting the “right” teacher in grade school. They were all tough and mean, except for my 5th grade teacher. She was a great, hard yet so likable.
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