I got in the driver’s seat and reached over and unlocked the passenger door for my high school friend — this was back in the day before automatic door locks — and turned the ignition. The car tried to turn over but made a grounding sound. Hmm, that can’t be good. I looked over at my friend and smiled.
I tried again and, of course, but nothing happened at all this time. The car was dead.
I got an immediate feeling of dread. I had to call my parents and have them bale me out. I had learned from my dad that a car not starting was usually caused by one of three problems: a dying or dead battery, a bad alternator, or an issue with the starter. None were good.
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Leaving me stranded
That was the first, but certainly not the only time I’ve ever had a car die on me. I’ve been thinking of times my car has left me stranded.
The worst experience had to be breaking down near the entrance to my work. I had just started a new job a few months earlier. You had to pass a security entrance to get on the property. I didn’t think much about it until the day my car broke down right after I entered the gate. I was able to steer it safety out of the way, but right in front of everyone coming into the office. And me standing by the side of the road, waiting for roadside assistance to come and tow my car away. Oh, brother, I wouldn’t recommend it, but that’s one way to make friends in a new job.
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The bear went over the mountain
The craziest experience had to be breaking down on Skyline Drive, the scenic byway through Shenandoah National Park. The kids were all rather young and we had been visiting the park. We were all pretty tired. As I was going down a hill, I pushed the gas and felt nothing. The car’s transmission was going, leaving me with little to no power maneuvering around a long mountain.
Fortunately, God was looking out for us, because up ahead I was able to coast into an overlook. To make matters worse, we could see a huge storm coming in. It can be challenging to get cell service in the park, but we were able to call out for a tow.
As we waited along the side of the road, a big black bear came off the side of the mountain. I quickly jumped inside our car. She was only 15 to 20 yards away and took a few steps toward us but then followed her cub down the rest of the mountain.
Yes, we were lucky. (I wrote more about the Shenandoah experience a few year ago in my post, When a bear came calling.)
My cars lately have been pretty dependable. I don’t have a lot of recent stories to tell. Of course, I’ve now jinxed us. I guarantee you my car will die next week, leaving my family and I stranded along a busy highway!
Mark it down.
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Great stories Brian, I can relate. In my younger days, I drove many unreliable cars. The worst breakdown was when I went into labour with my second child. Luckily, we could borrow a relative’s truck to get to the hospital quickly. Like you, I have had better cars and luck in recent years. Thanks for the memories!
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Oh my goodness, what a story — going into labor and having issues!!! That would’ve been my nightmare!!! I’m so glad everything worked out for you. Yes, it is funny too that reliability matters much more now to me than when I was younger. Ha, ha, I guess that’s maturity right? Something like that.
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As scary as that bear experience was, it makes such an amazing story. Almost worth the car breaking down! 😆 Jokes aside, it’s never fun when it happens and teaches us to be super prepared just in case!
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Yes, the bear story is now family lore for us. I feel good knowing that my kids have great memories about it. I know I as the dad was panicking, thinking of the cost of a new transmission, how I was going to pay for it, how we were going to get home, where we were going to spend the night, etc., etc. I’m so glad that I was able to keep those worries from the kids. Looking back now it really is a fun story.
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Well, at least you’ll have something more to write about!
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Hmm, a car repair or writer’s block. Easy choice! Writer’s block. I know that another story is always there, just need to look for it. Ha ha
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You have some bad luck with cars Brian! A really good personal mechanic may come in handy 🙂
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This is over a lifetime. Pretty small number in the grand scheme of things.
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Oh no…no jinxing! Crossing fingers! And I don’t know why, but the ‘bear went over the mountain’ business made me giggle. Happy Friday! 😎
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It was all fun and games until the bear took one step toward us. I was close to the car, but still had my door open. I don’t think I ever moved so quickly in my life. It happened so fast. She took that step and then went down the mountain and that was that. Of course, now the story goes that I told the bear off, pointed at her, waved at her, and she was scared of me and ran away frightened by mere presence. Ha, ha, yea, that’s the true story. 🤪🤪
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LOL! I believe, honest I do! 😜
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I’m always afraid of my car breaking down in the middle of nowhere and having a hard time finding a mechanic. I hadn’t thought of bears.
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That was my concern driving cross country, but it was no problems at all. I worried about that too growing up in rural farmland. It wasn’t always easy getting a tow. Oh, the struggles of Adulthood!
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Cars always die at the most inopportune times. But then, is it ever convenient?
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Exactly Maggie!!!!
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get a bike
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Ha, ha, yes, I have one. When I was young, we lived in the country, challenging to get too many places without a car. I could try it now, but parts of the ride would definitely be taking my life in my hands. We still have a way to go to be more bike friendly. But yes, a great idea. Ha, ha.
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they used o say “get a horse” I guess.
Todays society is designed around the car.
I gave up on both and now use only a bike to get around. Better for my health, my wallet and the environment. A triple win!
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The black mama bear story would be frightening, especially with young kids! Yes, we’ve had our share of cars dying at inopportune times, but survived!
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I so know this and TG it’s a thing of the past Brian! 💞
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Been there, done that (except with the bear), don’t want to do it again! Age brings the wisdom to know the virtue of regular car checkups!
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Oh yes, age also brings the reality that I know nothing about cars. Ha, ha, better to get a car checkup then to leave it to me to fix. 🙂
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Ahh, the memories, right, Brian? We love Shenandoah Park and thank goodness for those overlooks! Glad you were safe from cars and mama bear. And I hope you haven’t jinxed yourself!
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Shenandoah is a treasure. We lived in Northern Virginia when we were much younger and it was fun to spend the day in the park. I know it can be popular this time of year, but it’s still probably one of my favorite parks. Love the mountains. And yes, the mama bear wanted no parts of us. I just didn’t know that, I’ve never moved so fast in my life. Ha, ha.
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