I was waiting for my wife to finish up an appointment recently and I watched as dark, gray clouds took over the once bright, sunny sky and a silence fell over the parking lot. A few minutes earlier birds had been chirping and two squirrels seemed to be playing by a tree. Now, you didn’t hear or see anything. Right on time, light sprinkles came and then a heavy downpour.
When I was a kid, I would’ve wanted a pair of yellow boots and I would’ve wanted to run from puddle to puddle. It was that kind of morning. Yes, everyone loves a sunny day, but there’s something great too about a rainy day. I grew up in farm country, I know that the crops often could use some rain. Most times we look past it, but kids know the truth, there’s joy in rain too.
Which leads me to a list I’ve been building. I’ve been doing my best impersonation of Julie Andrews in The Sound of Music and coming up with a few of my favorite things. I started going down this path after seeing a post on A Grace Full Life and the 100 Even, Even More Things I Love. When I saw her great list, of course, I had to think about my own.
Let me know what you think. (There’s no specific order.)
- My dog snuggling next to me.
- The look new parents give their newborn.
- Two lovers who’ve survived a number of years together holding hands.
- Calvin and Hobbes cartoons.
- A great servant leader in the workplace.
- Productive days, marking off things I’ve accomplished, could be errands around the house, or something at work.
- A fresh journal.
- Seeing my kids smile.
- Iced tea on a hot day.
- Reading a Great Book:
- To Kill a Mockingbird —Harper Lee
- The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn —Mark Twain
- The Old Man and the Sea —Ernest Hemingway
- “I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness or abilities that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer it or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”—William Penn
- 5 o’clock on a Friday.
- A call from a long-time friend.
- Working from home, instead of the office.
- Getting into bed after a long day.
- The hug hello at the airport arrival gate.
- Your choice of pumpkin pie, coconut cream pie, carrot cake with cream cheese frosting, or cheesecake
- Waking up early and realizing you still have two more hours to sleep.
- Waking up and realizing that you don’t have to get up. It’s the weekend.
- A notebook full of creative blog and story ideas.
- Hiking in the woods, the quiet and calm of the wind through the trees.
- My family all being home, us gathering to eat, playing a game of cards, or just chilling.
- Hearing A Good Dad Joke:
- “What do you call a factory that makes okay products?” “A satisfactory.”
- “Why do seagulls fly over the ocean?” “Because if they flew over the bay, we’d call them bagels.”
- “Why don’t eggs tell jokes? They’d crack each other up.”
- The excitement before a long road trip.
- Finishing a new, creative blog post.
- A beautiful sunrise or sunset.
- “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” —Maya Angelou
- Kids playing nicely together.
- A frosty drink on a hot summer day looking out over the beach.
- Playing hookey. Taking a snow day.
- Looking back over the calendar and seeing that you’ve worked out or ran everyday (excluding planned rest days) for two months.
- A face-to-face conversation.
- Learning a new thing.
- Watching a Great Movie Series:
- The Godfather
- Star Wars
- Harry Potter
- Laughing. I mean really laughing, belly laugh laughing until you cry.
- A strawberry milk shake.
- Spending time with a group of friends.
- An Amish moon pie (sort of an Apple strudel).
- Hope.
- The Beach and the sound of crashing waves and blue water.
- A Philadelphia Pretzel.
- The first day of vacation.
- Someone saying thank you or giving you a thank you note.
- Seeing a whitetail deer jump over some brush.
- A cathartic cry, where you feel emotional about something good or bad and are able to get it out of your system and move on productively with your life.
- Hearing a Great Quote:
- “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”– Theodore Roosevelt
- “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” —Reinhold Niebuhr
- “When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.” —Helen Keller
- A quiet weekend without plans.
- Earning both of my bachelor’s and master’s degrees (when 18-year-old me would not have thought either were possible.)
- Movie theater popcorn.
- Traveling for fun.
- Ice cream on a cold day. Ice cream on a warm day. Ice cream any day.
- My children being healthy and happy.
- Trying new things.
- Being given a second chance.
- Giving someone a smile.
- Watching a Great Sports Movie:
- Remember the Titans
- Hoosiers
- Rocky
- A beautiful waterfall.
- Memories of rocking and singing my kids to sleep.
- “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” —1 Corinthians 13:4-8
- Seeing my kids walk across the dais with their high school diplomas.
- Seeing my daughter earn her college degree.
- Seeing my oldest son graduate from boot camp.
- Thoughts of my wedding day.
- Buffalo chicken wings.
- Paying the order for someone behind me in line at Dunkin’ Donuts.
- Looking through pictures of my wife and me and our kids when we were all younger.
- Family dinner.
- A well crafted sentence that I created and actually like. (It doesn’t happen often.)
- Saying thank you.
- Saying thank you to my mom.
- A long walk with my wife.
- Bubble gum.
- Coming across a Great Poem:
- “If” —Rudyard Kipling
- “Funeral Blues” —W.H. Auden
- “Still I Rise” —Maya Angelou
- “The Charge of the Light Brigade” —Alfred Tennyson
- A package on your doorstep. Hello Amazon!
- Hearing a hearty laugh.
- A text out of the blue from my kids telling me that they appreciate me.
- Good coffee or tea.
- Hearing new music that you like.
- Breakfast with my wife.
- Hearing animals on a farm stirring and getting around in the early morning.
- Hugs from all three of my kids.
- Letting go of anger and frustration that has been building up and weighing on me.
- Waking up on Christmas morning.
- Having a long talk with my wife.
- Listening to some Feel Good Music:
- Three Little Birds ― Bob Marley & The Wailers
- All You Need is Love ― The Beatles
- Soak up the Sun ― Sheryl Crow
- Can’t Stop the Feeling — Justin Timberlake
- Getting a letter or card in the mail.
- Earning the respect of others.
- Reading or hearing a good story that inspires me to write my own story.
- Being kind to others.
- “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” ― Ian MacLaren
- “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” ― Aesop
- “Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.” —Mother Teresa
- Helping someone I don’t know.
- Spending a day in the library or bookstore.
- Hearing my mom talk about her inspiring story about how she left the Amish church as a young girl.
- Holding hands with my wife.
- Forgiving someone.
- Believing in yourself.
- You’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” —AA Milne
- “Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” —Brené Brown
- “Believe in yourself and you will create miracles.” —Kailash Satyarthi
- Hearing my kids talk about their work and their dreams.
- Charlie Brown and Snoopy from the Peanuts cartoons by Charles Schulz.
- A College Football Saturday.
- Going for a run and letting my thoughts wander.
- Pizza and beer with friends and family.
- The fresh smell of a clean car.
- The rough, rugged pooh smell of a working farm.
- New glasses (for those of us who need to wear them.)
- Splurging on yourself in whatever way that you can.
- Being told by someone that you matter and that you are special.
- Figuring out a solution to a problem that had been eluding you.
- Winnie the Pooh.
Okay, sue me, I threw in a few extras. Let me know what you think? What are a few things that you love?
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Nice, I could do probably 20 or 30, but a hundred?
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I’ve seen other 100 things posts like this over the years, it’s easier than you might think. I thought a 100 would be tough, but they keep coming. Plus, I stepped away and came back. You forget about things that really matter to you. Let me know if you try it.
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Walking in the rain! When our son was small, a rainy day was an invitation to take our umbrellas for a walk. I still love it.
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Taking umbrellas for a walk – I love it
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Love rainy days. Sunny days too, but rain brings out something altogether different. 🙂
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When I’m exercising regularly (the keyword there, being “when”), I like to run in the rain, but it’s not the same as playing with your kids in the rain. Kids bring an element of whimsy and fun. Ha, ha. I’m glad I got to experience that with my own kids.
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This is an awesome list of things!!!! 💕💕
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It was fun to come up with. I’ve leverage some ideas from others and came up with my own ideas. It was easier to get to 100 than I thought it would be. 🙂
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There were a few I’d definitely agree with you on. Only one I’d definitely say no to – strawberry milkshake. But the one I’d definitely celebrate with you #48 – celebrating degrees you/I never believed myself capable of.
You’ve done well putting together this list … its interesting even from a personal point of view to see what’s important to us and the things we value
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No to Strawberry Milkshakes. Oh, c’mon Brenda. A really good one!!! I’m shocked. Ha, ha. I tend to be a chocolate ice cream guy, but I do like to mix it up sometimes too. When we went to my grandmothers, when I was very little, she would make homemade ice cream and I remember one time, her making strawberry milkshakes, with the strawberries straight from her farm, the veery best. But, yes, I get it, they might not be for everyone!!! As far as the degrees go, I never expected them and they took a lot of work. I guess I value them too because my parents never had the chance to go. My father would have loved higher education. And yes, I did find it interesting seeing what I value, and also what I don’t value as much.
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There’s just something about strawberry flavoured food. I guess too much of it can be artificial flavours. Plus I broke a tooth once on a strawberry cream. Maybe the trauma was too much. I do like fresh strawberries though.
Education, I’d say I was in a similar position to yourself. First in my family to go to college or university. My mum was more or less illiterate and my dad’s attitude was leave school and get a job so we could start bringing money into the home. So returning to studies after 15 years in employment was a big step. Also my younger sister tried and failed, so I was always wondering if I was setting myself up for failure too. But like you, I got there … got my BA (Hons) and my MSc .. and a few others along the way.
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Wow, Brenda, what a great accomplishment. Love your story. I can only imagine the doubt and worry you had going back so many years later. Have you written about this? I apologize if I’ve missed it. I find stories like yours inspirational. It says so much about you! We had a cousin that had gone back to college after serving in the Navy, but my two brothers and me were the first in our family to get a college degree. I had it a little easier than you. My parents didn’t fight the idea of advanced education, but they didn’t have the $$ to help us. My dad had to support his family right out of high school and mom had grown up Amish as a young girl and had only an eighth grade education (meaning she stopped going to school around 14 years of age and didn’t have a high school diploma.) I had to teach myself study skills and to value the importance of education. Thanks so much for sharing!
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Thanks Brian. No, I haven’t written about this as a post, but now you’ve got me thinking. I might do something about being a mature student at the start of the new academic year and weave it in
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I worked for a time at a small college that catered heavily to adult students going back to get their education. The post you described would definitely help a lot of people. 🙂
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Definitely. Drawing on my experiences as both an adult returner to education and teaching shape what goes into my guidance etc targetted at students
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I’m inspired now to make my own list, though I imagine 100 will be difficult since I have no spouse or child/children who can be included. Your list will help me!
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The list is easier to come up with than you might think. I repeated myself a lot at first and kept coming back to it. You get to 100 quicker than you might think. If you try it, let me know.
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Wow….I read your list twice…what a list! Impressive…and I’m not sure I could conjure anything comparable without repeating myself. Loved it! So very…Brian! And…I loved that you added a few ‘extras’ — not least of which the opportunity to say ‘pooh’ twice — #102 and #107. LOL! 🤣😊🤣
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Oh, you could definitely come up with your own “Vicki List.” There’s a number of these lists out there on the web. I repeated myself a lot at first. I didn’t worry about repeats, just wanted something to work with. I kept coming back to it too. That helped in coming up with things that I had forgotten. And you are so right about Pooh. My favorite word of the week. If I was going to write about gory blood in my one post this week, then I figured the hell with it, I was going to get really descriptive and use Pooh! Of course, one of the uses was Winnie the Pooh. I’ve been thinking a lot about A.A. Milne. I don’t know that I have anything different to say than what others have written about over the years, but I’m definitely in a Winnie the Pooh appreciation mood. Can you tell that I was cleaning up some of the kids old toys, books, etc?
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I love it…however the inspiration struck…good stuff! And yes…A.A. Milne…often I think I understand better now than I did when reading Winnie the Pooh to our daughter. Still…your list? Impressive! 😊😊😊
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I love this list of your favourite things, Brian. What struck me is the thing that you treasure most are the things money can’t buy – like family, friends, self care, nature, a good quote of song. We’ll have to trade notes about Peanuts one day. Schulz’s masterpiece was one of the things I loved the most growing up and those characters still stay with me all these years later.
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Yes, I was glad about that too Ab! I haven’t always have $$$$ in my life and can sometimes lose focus and get envious of things, so I was really happy to see that most of the things that really stood out to me were the intangibles — family, friends and experiences. And oh yes, I love Peanuts. Snoopy rocks. Love that it appeals to kids, but has a ton of adult wisdom in there too.
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An excellent list. I love the Maya Angelou quote and poem. Ernest Hemingway “The Old Man and the Sea”. Kind people before me in line have paid for my coffee many times. I appreciate it immensely and when I can pay it forward, or behind.☕️❤️
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The more I read Maya Angelou, the more she speaks to me in ways I never expected. I like to read Hemingway when I’m struggling with my writing. It always helps. I can’t write like him, but his lessons of keeping things simple and simple description do wonders for me. And the dunkin thing. I love when silly things like that we do or done to us . . . how they can change the course of your day, helping turn a so-so day into a really good one. A small step, but something that has major reverberations. You should come up with your own list Melissa. Let me know if you do!
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https://melissalemay.wordpress.com/2023/04/24/100-things-i-love/
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I haven’t even made it through the complete list, but I love it! This is exactly what a downtrodden world needs right now, Brian. Joy, love, fun, a reason to laugh. Thank you! This is definitely a post worth sharing and share it I shall! 💕
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Thank you Julia, it was a fun piece to come up with and you’re so right, it brought me some smiles after reading some crappy news headlines! I guess sometimes we need make our own happiness. It was easier to come up with than it might look. Thanks so much for reading!
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Great list Brian! Looking a bit deeper I think it exemplifies the life of someone who is well rounded, mostly level-headed but fun, and a genuinely caring person- both towards themselves and others.
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“Level-headed but fun.” Hmm, I believe the shorten version of that is: A crazy person. Ha, ha, thank you Deb. It was a fun post to work on. Definitely a good one for a Monday.
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The C word? Not you Brian 😉
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Oh definitely, very much crazy. I’m well aware of that. Ha, ha.
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In a world with so many negatives it’s nice to focus on something positive. I’m working on my list!
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Oh that’s so cool! I hope you post it. I can’t wait to see what you list!!!😎😎
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Thanks for sharing this idea. I love this milkshake. Thanks. Anita
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Yes, something fun for a Monday.
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That is a very long list of favorites, Brian! Have a great new week. 👍🏻
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It was a fun exercise. Thanks for commenting.
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You are welcome. ☺️
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This list is fantastic. My friend made her list and emailed it to me, which inspired me to add to another list I’m working on! Your list has inspired me to add even MORE items to mine! This is a lovely project that just keeps on giving. 💕
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Oh, thank you for the idea. It’s simple enough, but really is thought-provoking. I found myself going in a lot of different directions. It gave me lots of future blog ideas too, which is always a good thing. 🙂
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Always a good thing!
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Yes, always got feed the “beast.” Keeping up with the blog ideas. Ha, ha.
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WOW Brian, you certainly gave this list a lot of thought and I love the things that show your gratitude and zest for life; for those things that truly matter beyond the expected materialistic stuff that really don’t create lasting memories and heartfelt appreciation! Bravo for your patience in writing these things down! 🤗👏🏼🥰
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Yes, I can occasional let the green-eyed envy monster get away from me. I think some of it has to do with struggling financially when I was young, so I was glad after-the-fact to see that my favorites on the list had nothing to do with $$$ and everything to do with relationships and experiences. It was a fun exercise. Thanks Kym for the feedback!!!
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Oh you are so very welcome Brian. So thought-provoking indeed and a lesson for us all my friend. 🥰🙏🏼😊
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Love your list Melissa! 😎😎😎😎
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Brian, with the possible exception of a few of your food choices (e.g., Philadelphia Pretzels!), I cannot imagine a fuller, more heartwarming list. I’m not going to try to make my own list; I’ll just point people to yours. Job well done!
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My food choices! Oh c’mon Jane, the Philadelphia soft pretzel is a great choice, a wonderful in between snack! Ha, ha! Yes, I’ve heard before that my diet leaves a lot to be desired! I’m glad you liked the post!!!!!😎😎😎🥨🥨🥨
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I love your list. My mom’s favorite Bible verse included. #59. I read that when we spread her ashes.
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My faith has its ups and downs, but I’ve always loved that verse.
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Me too 👍🏼
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Brian this is fantastic!!!!!!! When you are blessed to love/enjoy this many things you know you are one hell of a person!!!!
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I’m not sure about being a hell of a person, but it was definitely a fun exercise!!!
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I’m sure your wife and kiddos think so and so do we!
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Wow wow wow – what a list. It is so inspirational to read and enjoy your list. It is going to feed my inspiration for a long time. And I’m still laughing at the dad jokes! So, so good, Brian!! ❤
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It was fun to create. And yes, I think it will be helpful the next few weeks in coming up with a few blog ideas, that’s always a good thing. 🙂
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First thing that came to mind after seeing this was the smell of fresh-cut grass, which not only occurs on the lawn itself but in the garage if I haven’t fully cleaned off the mower thereafter. Love that scent.
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I’m right there with you Bruce. I’m not crazy about doing the work, but like the smell. Ha, ha.
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I love this you inspired ne to create my own list !
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Oh that’s great Dana! Please share, if you don’t mind. I’d love to see what you list. It’s a fun exercise, easier to come up with a 100 than you might think. At least, I found that to be the case. Good luck!
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I created my own list 🙂 Thanks for this great odea
https://dshalabisfaces.wordpress.com/2023/04/29/100-little-things-i-love/
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I love your list Dana! You’re right, once you get going it, the list really writes itself. Made me realize some of the different things that I’m grateful for in my life. Love your list! Thanks for sharing!
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Really enjoyed your post. I can easily imagine that 100 things would pop up if I started counting. Friends, the helpful things people have done. I’m an avid reader so the list could include books as well as inspiring songs. Even the first spring dandelions. And I like birds, so a flock of Canada geese winging northward, hummers at the feeder, a wren singing from a nearby bush, all fill me with joy and gratitude. Maybe I should do a post on this, too. 🙂
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Yes, it really is easier than you think. My biggest problem was checking to make sure I didn’t repeat myself. I like your list so far Christine!
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How did I miss this? I’m so glad Wynne shared this morning. I love how various things are interspersed — special family memories, bible versus and quotes, yummy treats, connecting with others. There are so many things to be grateful for!
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It was a fun list to come up with. It really is more of a grateful list. I thought I would have problems coming up with a 100, but they came relatively easy. I’m glad you liked it Erin.
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Your list gave me all the good vibes! I am very much inspired to make my own now. If I happen to post it on my blog, I will tag you as my muse. ☺
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You’ll be surprised how quickly you get to 100. It was a fun exercise to try! Good luck!!!😎
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Thank you! Aye, I am going to tear open my heart for this! 😝
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WOW Brian. That’s a long list 107 close to 110 things that you adore. You are one brave man to share all these things on your blog🔥🔥💯
I can see the things I am also into as well such as finishing a creative blog post and the movie theatre thing, I do love movies🎬🎬📽
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I’m just going to soak in these for a while…
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Let me know if you come up with a list of your own. It was a fun exercise.
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Okay, I’ll start my list off with popcorn and wine with my husband watching a good movie or reading good books…😃 📕 🍿 🎥 ❤️
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And you’re off to a strong start. I’m liking your list already!!!!!
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This is inspiring. Let me think up some things I love
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It was a fun piece to write, let me know what you include!!!😎😊😎😎
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I surely will.
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