Comedian Rodney Dangerfield built his ’70s and ’80s stand-up career around self-deprecating jokes and monologues about his persona of the “poor schnook” who gets absolutely no respect from his family or the rest of the world. He inevitably would tell a story and finish it with his signature catchphrase: “I don’t get no respect.”
- “I get no respect. When I was a kid, I was kidnapped. The kidnappers cut off one of my fingers and sent it to my father. He said he wanted more proof!”
- “I tell ya when I fly, I don’t get no respect. I took one of those cheap flights, no frills. I finished eatin’ and had to do the dishes.”
- “When I was a kid I got no respect. My old man took me to the zoo. He told me to go over to the leopard and play connect the dots.”
- “No respect. I don’t get no respect, no respect at all. Every time I get in an elevator, the operator says the same thing to me: ‘Basement?'”
I happened to come across one of Dangerfield’s many funny scenes in the movie Caddyshack and it got me thinking about others across pop culture and history who get no respect.
Out of the Same Mold
Of course, I thought about comedians Phyllis Diller and Joan Rivers. Diller became famous for pioneering self-deprecating stand-up about her looks, life, and her fictional husband “Fang.” Likewise, Rivers used her own perceived lack of conventional attractiveness and feelings of being dismissed by Hollywood and men to get laughs.
AAUGH—Good Grief!
Charles M. Schulz’s comic strip Peanuts had a running gag where Lucy van Pelt holds a football for Charlie Brown to kick, only to pull it away at the last second. Poor, poor Charlie Brown—endlessly hopeful, constantly flat on his back.
Trash-Talked and Overlooked
Living in a literal trash can on Sesame Street, Oscar the Grouch is surrounded by relentlessly cheery neighbors who constantly invade his personal space. His desire to be left alone in dirty peace is universally ignored—people just smile, wave, and treat his misery as an adorable quirk.
The Voice of Reason Nobody Listens To
As the perpetual skeptic among the Seven Dwarfs, Grumpy gets zero credit for having basic common sense. When he warns the group about a suspicious stranger selling uninspected apples, they treat him like a bitter killjoy—only to realize far too late that he was the only sensible one in the cottage.
It Isn’t Easy Being Green (or Management)
Being green isn’t the half of it. As the fragile glue holding The Muppet Show together, Kermit The Frog suffers continuous verbal and physical abuse from Miss Piggy, non-stop explosions from Crazy Harry, and relentless heckling from Statler and Waldorf—all while trying to keep a show running.
Forever Outshined
While Mickey Mouse gets the fame, fortune, and wonderful life, Donald The Duck gets explosive anger issues brought on by a universe that picks on him endlessly. From uncooperative alarm clocks to nephews who constantly outsmart him, Donald gets zero deference as the family elder.
The Unpaid Servant
Before her fairy-tale transformation, Cinderella faced relentless disrespect, being treated as an unpaid servant by her stepfamily who mocked her aspirations while she swept the ashes.
Forever Lost & Invisible
Classic “Marsha, Marsha, Marsha” syndrome. Overshadowed by the trailblazing oldest sibling and out-babied by the spoiled youngest, Middle Children inhabit a unique cultural space of being forgotten in family photos, handed down clothes, and left to fend for themselves in total anonymity.
History’s Unsung Geniuses: Real-World Figures Who Got No Respect
If you think fictional characters and stand-up comedians have it tough, history is filled with brilliant minds who changed the world—only to be mocked, ignored, or shunned by their peers during their lifetimes.
- Ignaz Semmelweis (1818–1865): In the 1840s, this Hungarian physician realized that doctors washing their hands with chlorine before delivering babies drastically reduced maternal mortality from childbed fever. Instead of receiving praise, he was ridiculed by the medical establishment, who took offense at the suggestion that their hands were dirty. Semmelweis was eventually committed to an asylum, dying years before Joseph Lister proved him right.
- Vincent van Gogh (1853–1890): Today, his masterpieces command hundreds of millions of dollars, but during his lifetime, Van Gogh was widely regarded as a failed, unhinged artist. He sold only one documented painting while alive (The Red Vineyard) and relied almost entirely on financial support from his brother Theo, enduring constant self-doubt and artistic rejection.
The Bottom Line
In the end, whether you’re a stand-up comedian straightening his red tie, a cartoon kid trying to kick a football, or a 19th-century doctor begging colleagues to wash their hands, getting “no respect” seems to be a universal human condition.
We claim to root for the underdogs, yet laugh at their misfortunes and occasionally realize—decades or centuries later—that the people we ignored were the ones who actually held the world together all along. So the next time life hands you the basement floor on the elevator, take comfort in the company you’re keeping: at least you’re in the middle of a very long, very noble line of poor schnooks.
Who is in your Hall of Fame of No Respect?
Drop a comment below with the pop culture icon, fictional character, or historical figure you think gets zero credit.
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daddy pig on ‘peppa pig’.
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No respect. Poor daddy pig. Ha, ha.
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and he’s really a good guy
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A terrific post! I love this one from Rodney: “My Mother never breastfed me as a child. She said she liked me as a friend.” Oh, and I work for a decade with Joan Rivers and she was the nicest, most collaborative person I’ve ever worked with…just loved her.
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When my post went live this morning, it hit me that Rodney might not be all that appropriate in this day and age. But I think the thing that younger folks might forget is how Rodney and Diller and Rivers showed the world in a lense. They might be a bit coarse at times, but everything was in humor and everyone could be a target. It made us realize that we were all more alike than we are different. Goodness knows we need that today. I read that about Rivers that she was so nice off stage. And I bet you have a ton of stories!!!
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The witch in Hansel & Gretel’s story. She built this lovely home out of gingerbread and candy and two juvenile delinquents ate most of it.
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Yes, I hear you. Ha, ha. Darned kids! Juvenile delinquents is right. How dare they. Ha, ha.
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Eeyore got no respect. Or at least that’s what he’d have you believe with all that “woe is me” talk.
Personally, Oscar the Grouch was always my favorite resident on Sesame Street.
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Woe is me — everyone recognizes silly old pooh bear, but no one recognizes me. Wooooeee is me. Ha, ha. Yes, Oscar was my favorite too. I got him immediately. Now as an adult even more. Ha, ha.
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garbagemen….
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Oh yes. I think of that every time I drive and see a bunch of garbage cans out. What a tough job. Ugh.
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I remember when Charles Schulz announced he’d be retiring, fans everywhere implored him to let Charlie Brown have one successful kick. I’m glad he refused. I still rooted for him to kick that ball, but I think it would have been the wrong move on Charles Schulz’s part.
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I realized I made a grammar error there–I still rooted for Charlie Brown to kick that ball, not Charles Schulz. The editor in me won’t stop.
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I got what you meant. The editor in me never stops too. Sometimes we just have to tell that part of our brains to hush. Ha, ha.
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Go Charlie Brown go. Yes, I’m glad he stood his ground. Charlie Brown will get his climatic moment one day . . . but it’s all the better in our minds then something he might draw on paper.
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Oh my goodness — what an amazing list, Brian. I would have never thought of Grumpy. Nor did I know of Semmelweis. Thank you for the wonderful reminder that there are plenty of noble schnooks out there!
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Poor grumpy!!! No one likes poor old Grumpy. They like dopey, bashful, or doc but not Grumpy. Ha ha.
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I loved the Rodney Dangerfield movie “Back to School” because of the Kurt Vonnegut cameo. Your quotes from Dangerfield reminded me of the movie.
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I like that one better than Caddy Shack. I know that’s kind of sacrilegious to say … but I loved that movie.
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I like it better than Caddy Shack too.
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This post made me think how we measure reputational value versus actual cultural impact.
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Ooooh, that’s good! Like where you went with that. So true!!!
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After the third time, if I had been Charlie Brown, I would have kicked Lucy.
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Yea, he’s got lots of patience. More than me!
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This phrase – “the people we ignored were the ones who actually held the world together all along.” is the absolute truth. There are so many good, hardworking people out there holding the world together, doing the right things, who get overlooked. It’s maddening when good people don’t get the credit they deserve. Thanks Brian, you deserve credit for shining a light on those who deserve respect. My favs from your list van Gogh and Cinderella.
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Can Gogh and Cinderella are two good ones!!!!
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Oof! “A universal human condition”. So true, Brian! So, true! I think YOU deserve more credit for a terrific post. Made me smile! 😜😊😜
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More credit for an active imagination that goes into some me crazy, bizarre places!!!🤭🤭🤭😎
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🤪❤️🤪
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Brian, I loved how your ‘no respect’ went from Rodney (I loved that guy) to comedians to cartoon charters and to real people. Your progression was brilliant, because it made the reader think, and that’s what you do best. Bravo!
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Oh thanks Jennie! Funny thing was that I had started with Oscar and the other kid’s characters. Caddy Shack was on the TV in the background and I was off to the races!! “Making people think” — oh you’re too kind. Just trying to see if others have some of the same thoughts as me. 🤭🤭🤣😎😎😎
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You do it so well, Brian!
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I am heartened to see Joan Rivers “getting her flowers” after her passing. Man, what an original and so ahead of her time. I love her work and watch them YouTube when I need a pick me up.
Poor Charlie Brown and the football gag. I’m surprised he hasn’t snapped on Lucy after all these years.
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Yes, can you imagine her in her prime today. Wow.
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