I had been sitting at my airport gate, patiently waiting for my boarding time. When I first sat down, the area was virtually empty. Then, one by one, the gate began to fill up until it was completely packed.
In the row right next to me, little Johnny was wailing for his toy. Jamal was demanding his dad’s phone. A mother three rows over was visibly distressed because her baby was fussy, and an older gentleman looking out the window was grumbling because his wife was fussing over his wrinkly shirt.

The mass of people was getting to be too much. There were lots of impatient people and no one seemed happy. Seeking refuge, I grabbed my bags and moved to a deserted gate nearby. I still had plenty of time before my flight, so I pulled out my notebook to sketch out my to-do list and brainstorm a few future blog posts.
I was minding my own business when another traveler flew in and landed two chairs down, looking every bit as fed up with the terminal and the mass of people as I was. His feathers were ruffled and he looked like he had seen better days.
I mean that literally—he actually flew.
My new companion was a tiny bird, likely a small House Sparrow or a Starling, who had somehow successfully navigated his way past Transportation Security Administration (TSA) agents screening passengers and checking bags. He’d probably slipped in through a loading dock or a baggage door, lured by the cool air conditioning and the promise of dropped crumbs. Now, he was perched right outside a closed Chickie’s & Pete’s restaurant clearly holding out hope for a rogue crabfry or piece of a sandwich.

I looked over at him, and he looked right back at me. We both gave a subtle shake of our heads. We were of like minds. It was pure chaos around us. We were both looking for a little peace and quiet.
He cocked his head and let out a tiny chirp of agreement, casually letting me know he was just waiting on his connection south. I raised an eyebrow. “Why wouldn’t a bird like you just fly the whole way?”
He didn’t hesitate for a second. He chirped right back, asking why I didn’t just drive.
“Touché, my friend. Touché.”

We wished each other safe travels, and soon went our separate ways.
Your turn. Do crowded places like airports and auditoriums bother you? How do you block out the noise and chaos? And have you ever come across a bird in an unlikely place? I’m surprised to learn that wayward birds are actually a big problem for airports and warehouses.
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Hope both you and the bird made it to your destinations safely.
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I got to my destination. I tried to follow him but he didn’t stick around long. He flew away after a few minutes. I kept looking for him, but he never came back. I assume he found his flight and seat south.
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😄😄
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Sounds like a super cute encounter, Brian! I increasingly find crowded public spaces overwhelming as well – I type this as I commute to work on the busy subway – and am thankful for the moments levity and camaraderie from nature. I’ll be on the lookout for a bird or mice this morning. 😊
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It was very surreal. He actually sat in the seat for a few minutes — long enough that I did a double-take but not long enough for me to open my phone and to take a picture. He was so still. I suspect he might have stayed longer if the restaurant was open. And yes, I have my people moments where I just need to get away. The airport just seemed extremely loud to me. I like being able to be around people but to close them off, but I was having problems closing off the outside noise. Ha, ha.
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I hear ya about closing people off. I always wear big headphones in public, even if they’re not in use – such as this moment from my subway commute home. It helps signal leave me alone. 😂
Have a nice evening!
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No mass hysteria, just a perch or a stoop. 😎
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A stoop and peace and calm. I’ll take it.
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what a wonderful and unexpected meeting, you two clearly had an understanding of the situation, and a natural bond. i tend to not be bothered by the people, i find it a fascinating study of human nature. until it’s not. and then i find my own space when that happens.
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Yes, I like to people watch. For whatever reason though I needed some space to myself. Crazy!!!
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i do get that.
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Such a fun meeting you two had! I always get to my departure gate early and as you say, the people slowly fill up the seats. Crying babies and fussy adults make bad travel companions. It’s always a 3.5 hour flight to Michigan to see family from Las Vegas. Window seat is a priority.
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I’m fine with the crying babies. That’s a part of life. It’s the fussy adults that I have a problem with. Ha, ha.
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I agree!
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I don’t blame either of you for appreciating a breather in that setting. A nice little happening, well told. I hope the bird made it out. At least you didn’t have to be caught and ejected.
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Yes, the bird didn’t stick around long. He sat and then flew off quickly. He had his own plans. There were lots of flights south . . . so I think he had his pick of the liter. Ha, ha.
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I don’t do much traveling. But when I do, I try to tune out the noise in crowded places by checking mail and doing other things on my phone. I’ve never encountered a bird in an airport, but being visually impaired, I wouldn’t have noticed one.
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My first bird in an airport too. I was actually shocked for a second. But it makes sense. So many open doors and people coming and going. I guess I’m a bird of a feather now. Ha, ha.
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What a remarkable encounter. I’m usually okay in airports, but I’d rather be sitting with the bird(s).
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I’m usually okay if I can carve out some space. It just seemed like every place I found — I was being followed by a large group of other people. Ha, ha.
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I came across a bird in the hand once. This freaked me out, but then I realized, it was worth two in the bush. Score!
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I drove through Bird in Hand earlier this summer. It’s actually “a-blink-and-you’ll-miss-it” community in Lancaster County. There’s Intercourse, Ronks, Lancaster Borough, and Eden too. Unfortunately though no Two In The Bush. The funny thing about that saying. I’ve heard it millions of times. Never really understood it until now. Yea, I probably still won’t use it. Ha, ha. If I see my birdie friend again Mark, I’ll send it your way!!!
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We do have quite a few birds in our property, so I consider myself the resident expert, don’tcha know.
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Oh yea, I had to look up a bunch of different birds. House Sparrow is my best guess, but I could be bad-mouthing the bird. I have no idea what he actually was. He had two wings, a beak, and bird-like claws. That’s the best I’ve got!!
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The last few times we’ve flown out of Phoenix, it’s been standing room only. That’s at our gate and all the surrounding ones. At the Palm Springs airport, there are birds everywhere. It’s partially open air.
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Palm Springs Airport is one of my favorites. Now my flying experience is limited, but I love the speed (because of its size) and the openness. We were only there a couple of times but it was so laid back — made the trip back east a little more agreeable.
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We lived within two miles of the Palm Springs airport. It was a breeze for us! My favorite airport.
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Bet you didn’t have any problems getting a loved one to drop you off at the airport!! Ha, ha.
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Nope! Once my daughter left her wallet at home when she was flying back to college. It was like no big deal to drive home and return to the airport!
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Brian, ths is so timely and precious. After sitting on the tarmac two weeks ago today, for two and 1/2 hours, I missed my flight in Denver, CO. I saw the best in people waiting on the plane in MO to take off. Yet, when we landed and most of us had missed our connecting flights, I saw….well, the patience of humans slip, too. I see life through a different lens now, my friend.
It had been a year since I hugged my son, DIL, and two little grands, so I called them and they were darn happy I landed–even if it was smoky and people were angry. But then, I got on the hotel shuttle bus (thank you, United, for the hotel and food voucher) and struck up kind conversation with a couple from the NE.
I’m an observer. So it was fun to sit and watch people in the noise and chaos. Perhaps because I was used to noisy classrooms, it didn’t much bother me THAT day. But after my overnight flight back to Chicago last Tuesday, the noise and chaos seemed “louder”. So, like you, I took myself to a gate that was less busy.
The conversation you had with the bird is precious, Brian! I DID see a bird in one of the airports (Seattle, I think??). I’m certain we would’ve had a cordial chirping session!!! Have a blessed week, my friend. Thank you for being such a great writer and human! You really give me pause to ponder. It’s been so hectic since returning that I could SO relate to your words!!
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No Karla, you’re the one giving me reason to ponder. I try to be patient in crowds. I’m stumped why the mass of people had me on edge. I usually love to people watch. A big reason is that when I’m waiting in a group, I get blog and writing ideas from it. I always come away with an idea or two. This time though I didn’t have as much patience. I was flying for my job so maybe that’s why I was keyed up. Either way, I need to be more giving and positive in the face of crowds. If I was in your position, I hope I would’ve been as understanding as you. I’m sure you saw all kinds of reactions to the missed connections — Both patience and downright rudeness and anger. Thank goodness you were able to get back on the road after a short stay. Thank you for the perspective and thanks so much for your kind words!!!! Great writer. Nahhhhh, I just know to keep coming back week after week. Ha, ha.
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What a special and memorable experience! I’m not a big fan of large, busy airports and we try to fly out of small regional airports when possible.
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I hear you Erin. I would’ve liked to have flown from a smaller airport, but it wasn’t meant to be. Maybe next time.
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How interesting that he made it all the way in there. I guess he knew it was the right place for flyers! Great story, Brian!
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I never knew it . . . but it’s actually quite common. I would’ve thought he would’ve felt safer higher up. But he swooped down to sit on the edge of a chair. I guess he saw me eating Skittles and wanted to one. Ha, ha.
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Oh my goodness. Too sweet. And yes…I’d be the traveler following behind you (but not too close) looking for a quieter gate area to plop in. All of those nuances you shared about the perturbed travelers by the crowded gate…right before getting on a crowded plane? No thanks. My friends and family know…I’ll go take a lap and loiter nearby instead. I get overwhelmed by all of the simultaneous activity/conversations/commotion!
😜😜😜
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You describe it so well Vicki. The overwhelming commotion gets to be too much. I like to get to the airport early, but I don’t want to be in the middle of the craziness until I have to be. And yes, I get crying babies and kids. I’m fine with that. It’s the adults that always get me. When I’m all situationed, I like to find a semi-quiet spot and people watch. Once I’ve had a chance to do that, then I’m fine the rest of the flight. My own bit of craziness.
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Same! You said that so well. Get to a quiet spot and watch the people…from a distance! Yes! And this time you had a sweet little birdie feeling the same. So good! 💝💝💝
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I’m thinking that little bird may have understood something we humans are rather slow to learn: when the noise becomes too much, sometimes the wisest thing you can do is relocate your perch. Jesus Himself sometimes “withdrew himself into the wilderness, and prayed” (Luke 5:16). He was protecting the quiet necessary for communion with His Father. I think we sometimes feel guilty for stepping away from the commotion, as though being available to every noise is somehow a virtue. But there is a difference between isolation and intentional quiet. Sometimes changing gates, putting down the phone, turning off the television, or simply closing a door gives the soul enough silence to hear what the noise has been drowning out. And apparently, if all else fails, find the sparrow who cleared TSA. He seems to know where the peaceful gates are. LOL It’s rather odd to me that large crowds or crowded spaces bother me because I actually enjoy people-watching. In my mind, I make up all kinds of scenarios about who people are, what they’re doing, where they’re going, and what their story might be. I have a rather voluminous—and sometimes wickedly fun—imagination. I think the difference is that I enjoy observing people more than I enjoy being surrounded by all the noise that comes with them. Crowded, noisy places can wear me out rather quickly because my brain seems determined to process every conversation, crying child, sudden movement, and passing distraction all at once. So give me the people to watch—just perhaps with the sound turned down a little.
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There were a few crying kids but I was fine with that. I love to people watch too. I’m not sure why I was bothered by the chaos. Maybe just my day. But yes, good to find quieter areas!!!! 🕊️🕊️😎😎
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We have that happen in LA frequently…terrific story
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He stuck around for a little bit. Of course as soon as I moved to open my phone, he was off again. The only people who even noticed him were myself and a mother and daughter. Kind of a surreal thing in a busy airport. But it does sound like it’s a pretty common thing. 🕊️🕊️😎😎😎
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We saw a number of them in Paris last time we were there! The ones I see see to know they are in a food source and out of the rain!
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How sweet. We had a sparrow fly into the store last year (Walgreens- they like to build nests in our letters on the front of the building) but thankfully he found his way out 🙂
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Good thing he got out. I can only imagine the challenge tgat might have posed. At least in the airport the bird had lots of places to fly with ease! Ha ha.
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Was this fiction? I couldn’t see the bird in the photo ?
Either way – it was a delightful story and I was right there in the airport with ya
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No, it really happened. I should have pointed that out. I tried to get a pic but he was gone so quickly I didn’t have a chance to get one.
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Well
At least you have is setting and we could imagine the bird
Also, you brought me back to different waits I have had at various terminals –
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What a lovely encounter, Brian. That bird would put a smile on anyone’s lips. I hate crowded boarding areas and do what you did and go to an empty gate. If someone sits down next to me I whisper, “It’s done. Did you bring the money.”
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I gotta remember that tip John. I’m saying that to the next person who sits by me. I have a finely tuned bystander etiquette. I never like understand why someone sits right next to me when there is an empty row nearby. Ha, ha.
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It is like a whole row of elliptical machines at the gym are unoccupied and the person (With the cough) chooses the one next to me.
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“Are you TSA approved, my fine-feathered friend?” If you want to see people at their worst, just head to the airport. I never understand why some people take out their frustrations on the personnel working at the gate. It’s not like they’re personally responsible for flight delays.
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I have to laugh when I’m in line at the airport. You’re so right. Why take out your frustrations. Everyone has the same line, the same wait. Thanks Pete!!!
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⭐️🤓🐦⬛
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😎😎😎😎
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Yes! I play scrabble with my friends on the phone. I get so focused I could almost forget my flight. Love the little bird that came for a visit with you. Adorable. Hugs, C
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I’ll be back in the airport again next week for work. When I mentioned to my wife that I want to try to get to the airport early again, she, of course, asked if it was because I wanted to run into my little friend. 😎😎😎
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I used to get birds in my classroom occasionally and would eventually sweet talk them into letting me cup my hands around their soft, warm little bodies and carry them outside. The room had big windows that tilted open and no screens. The fresh mountain air was irresistible on nice days and there was no air conditioning so we had quite a few encounters over the years. Luckily they all had happy endings.
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Oh, that’s such a great image Lori! You were the lil bird protector! Yes, great that they all had happy endings. I could see me getting a broom to help direct them out and it ending with a not so happy finish. Yikes!
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