Big Three: A Lesson in Gratitude

I posted every week in 2025 about three things that made me grateful. I started my Big Three posts on a whim. I wasn’t even sure how long I would keep at it. I half expected the series to last after a month of two. If I had known that I was going to keep at it, I probably would’ve come up with a different headline.

However, I found something to appreciate through thick and thin.

I thought it would be challenging, but the ideas came to me all the time. I found things to be grateful strolling through the grocery aisle. I found other items for my gratitude journal waiting for work calls. They came out of the blue.

What started as a chore became a fun practice.

Here’s what I learned from the experience.

–Little things really are big things. A smile, laugh, or a thank you really go a long way.

–I found the practice increased the positivity around me and helped me an adopt a more optimistic outlook. It trained my brain to see the good things.

–I came away more resilient since I knew that after every knock down I would still be able to find something to lift me back up off the ground. And boy did I need that.

–Starting my day with a positive mindset made me more motivated to tackle my to-do list and take on new challenges.

My favorite blessing of the year: The Big Three: Good boy! and being grateful for pets everywhere a few months after our own dog had moved onto Doggy Heaven.

So what’s next with my Big Three column? I’m taking a break from publicly posting my weekly Big Three for now, but I have a feeling they’ll make a comeback one day. We’ll see.


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42 thoughts on “Big Three: A Lesson in Gratitude

  1. I love your perspective. Truly. Everything changes when wearing different glasses. Goodness comes to goodness.

    Thank you for all of your reminders. I truly love being here. ❤️😁

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  2. I pray that you will continue to look at the blessings in your life as we all should. I thank Jesus for every day He allows me to carry His message to others. I have grown to look forward to those posts of yours and hope you don’t wait to long to bring them back.

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  3. Very cool that this was a goal and thanks for sharing your success (and positivity).

    I saw a sign at my doctor’s office this morning that said “one small positive thought in the morning can change your whole day” and it sounds like that is so true! Now, you’ve made me think about how I can remember to incorporate this into my routine as well.

    Also as an update to your earlier post about the weather – it snowed about 6 inches over the past two days!

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    1. One small positive thought really can make a difference. And yes, it snowed here too. Of course, it might have had more to do with the time of year then any of the other factors I mentioned. Ha, ha. But yes, we have three to four inches on the ground too. With the temps in the low teens, it looks like it’s going to stick around for a while too. Ha, ha.

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  4. “Little things really are big things.” This captures so nicely why practicing gratitude is so powerful, uplifting and healing. Thanks for sharing your Big Threes with us in 2025, Brian! 💕

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  5. Your posts were contagious and had many of us looking for little things to be thankful for. Well done! I hope you throw one of these posts in from time to time. Just to remind us. 😀

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    1. Ha, ha, thank you Darlene! I really appreciate that. I’ll have to think about that. I stopped it to give me more time to work on my novel. I’m hoping to post a little less this year too. I worried as well about some of those posts being too Pollyanna Positive without a sense of the real world. It’s good to know that wasn’t the case!!! Thank you!!!

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  6. I love the the things you learned, Brian! I enjoyed reading your gratitude lists when I was able. Isn’t it an amazing feeling to live with a posture of gratitude?
    Your favorite blessing is precious. I understand this.
    May your 2026 be filled with many moments and “columns” of goodness, my friend! ❣️🙏🏻

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