The end of a long day

In one hand, the father carried a crying toddler. In the other, he pulled a wagon through the thick sand. The wagon was loaded with beach chairs, a large umbrella, and an ice chest. The back of his gray tank top, with the sun beating down on him, was soaked in sweat. He looked as comfortable as a grizzly bear in a hot sauna. Close behind him followed the mom with two other kids. When the couple reached the boardwalk, I considered getting up and giving them a standing ovation.

I’ve been in their shoes and couldn’t help but feel empathy for them. Is there anyone more tired than a mom or dad loaded down with beach chairs, sand in places where sand shouldn’t be, walking off the beach at the end of a long sun-soaked day?

Of course, a few other people came to mind:

–The roofer is loading up his truck. It’s been a day of running up and down a ladder. He put a new roof on a home or business. He’s sticky and dirty from head to toe. He’s got dried sweat on top of dried sweat and he’s dying for a simple bottle of water. He’s hungry too, but he knows that he has to stop for something to eat on the way home. He’s got nothing but ketchup, mustard, and mayonnaise in his refrigerator.

–The mom carries her small kids and their assortment of bags out of an amusement or water park after a long day of running, walking and playing. One kid has a stuffed giraffe that she keeps dropping. The other keeps whining that he’s hungry. And mom just wants to get home and into a hot bath.

–An emergency room nurse and an EMT walk out of the hospital after a long shift. They’re not sure if they should laugh or cry. It’s been that kind of day. They ask lightly about each other’s family, but don’t get into too many details. They just want to go home, wash the crud of the day off of them, and crash on the sofa.

–The little kid about 10 or 12 years old walks off the trail. He didn’t even want to go on the hike, but his father made him. “Oh, it’s got great waterfalls. We might even see a deer or two. You’ll love it,” his dad told him. The kid is tired beyond belief. There’s a pebble in his shoe that keeps stabbing him and he just wants to go home and play on his video game console. Yea, yea, we saw a waterfall! Big deal!

–The truck driver pulls into the rest station for the night. He can’t wait to make it home. One more day and he’ll get the break he’s been waiting for. A whole week off, before he’s got to get back on the road again. Ahh, sweet, sweet rest.

Yes, we all need our rest.


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39 thoughts on “The end of a long day

  1. Nice post. Be curious, not judgmental – came to mind as I read this. All of us are carrying a burden of some sort, but we try to hide it from others. Others can’t hide it, but are just as weary after a hard day. Thanks for reminding me to be curious. Peace.

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  2. I’ve seen them all. The hardest one personally was seeing dozens of men, wearing hard hats and work boots, loaded down with backpacks and lunch boxes, black from head to toe, making the quarter mile trek from the steel pipe plant to the parking lot, after another thirteen hour shift. My husband made that trek back and forth for 25 years. Only one of the many reasons why I love our retirement – knowing those years and that exhaustion is behind him.

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    1. Well said Anne Marie. Such a tough job. Yea, if I dug a little deeper I would have to add watching my father finish his shift at the Steal Mill where he worked when I was a kid. My mom and us kids would pick him up occasionally when he worked nights. We’d all be wrapped up in pjs and blankets and we’d watch for him. All the men had stone faces. They were all so tired. Yes, I can definitely understand why retirement and having that exhaustion in the past is so meaningful!!!!

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      1. I’m glad your husband was able to retire and walk away from that job. My dad had a pretty massive heart attack which I always blamed on his job. I’ve written some on that but I should really explore more how it drove me to get my education. Thanks for the idea.

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    1. How about this vignette. A mom keeping two busy kids and a business on the go. Now that’s a cool story. Love the pics of your kids that you’ve shared. Cool pics. Shows the smart, kind people you’re nurturing!!!! Thanks for the kind words.

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  3. Great Post – I felt every one of your examples – Here’s my exhausted memory – three kids under five, the eldest in a wheelchair – the youngest sitting on the handles of the chair and the middle one who is similar to the kid in your example who didn’t want to hike, is dragging his feet – we are off to the mall to pick something up. Long days but worth every second – REST is essential!

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  4. People watching can be both entertaining and also a good reminder to empathize for the daily hardships and routines people of all walks of life carry, literally and figuratively. Lovely post, Brian.

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  5. Love this, Brian…love your thoughtfulness. For so many the heat has been brutal in the U.S. and I know horrific rain, flooding – disasters of all sorts – continue worldwide. Cheers and endless gratitude to those who serve and protect the rest of us.
    Yes, yes, yes! ❤️

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  6. This reminds me of the time I decided to conquer a giant sand dune on the Oregon coast. What a difficult slog that turned out to be; I’ve rarely felt more physically exhausted in my life. But I did it – I reached the top – and that made my whole struggle worthwhile.

    There are probably half a dozen metaphors in that little anecdote.

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