Stopping you in your tracks

There are days when you run across something that mesmerizes you. It hits you with such power and force that you’re stopped where you are. It could be a quote, a piece of music, or even a simple thought or idea. Many people experience this when they turn the last page of a book like The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank or To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee. Others feel this way when they hear Bach, Mozart, or even The Beatles.

There’s been a lot of talk lately about movies Jaws and Star Wars. Movie-goers flocked to see both movies when they came out in 1975 and 1977. We talk about it less now, but movies still have the ability to dazzle us.

It can be magical beauty too. You take a peek at The Grand Canyon, Yosemite or Acadia National Park and it’s awe-inspiring. The majesty and size are too big for one person to fathom.

Turning the corner

I had this happen to me about ten years ago at the Shenandoah National Park, located in the Blue Ridge Mountains in Virginia. My wife, our young kids, and I spent a few days in the park. We drove the scenic Skyline Drive and hiked a small fraction of the 500 miles worth of trails.

On our second day there, we had a full day planned. I got up early and went for a slow jog on one of the trails. I had run a mile or two and was making my way back. I turned a corner and came upon three deer. There were a doe and two fawns. White-tailed does typically give birth to their fawns in the late spring and early summer. The fawns couldn’t have been too old. When they saw me, they were cautious, but more interested in feasting on the leaves and twigs.

Gone like that

I stood and watched them. They stood less than 6 feet away from me. I felt like I could’ve taken a couple baby steps and reached out and touched them. I had the deer to my right. To my left, I had the misty mountains rising up like they were reaching out to touch the puffy clouds. I reached for my phone, but, for once in my life, I had gone running without it. All I could do was take in the scene.

The mother must have feasted for a good five minutes. At one point, she raised her head and motioned to the fawns. Like that, the three of them stepped deeper into the woods. I stood still for a few more minutes. I hoped they might return. Unfortunately, they were out of sight in no time.

Left speechless

When I returned, I tried to explain to my kids the cool thing I had come across. However, I had no actual proof. My story sounded contrived. “Sure dad, eating out of your hand. Sure, we hear you.”

I had the same loss of words recently when I came across something that Kurt Vonnegut wrote in his 2005 book A Man Without a Country. In the book, he touches on the importance of humor, modern technology, politics, and the human need for connection. 

I’m not sure I understand the full meaning of what Vonnegut was saying. I think I catch his drift though. I think it means that even in the face of challenge and adversity, the human spirit thrives. The presence of goodness continues to flourish.

Good people, doing good things

We live in a crazy upside down world. There’s crime and hurt. One day there’s catastrophic rain and flooding in Texas, killing more than 110 adults and children. War continues to rage in the Ukraine. Peace in Iran and Israel seems to change depending on the wind.

Still kindness, integrity, and decency reign supreme. There are still people who give selflessly and reach out with a heart full of compassion and empathy. Yes, I prefer to look for the good. Yes, there are saints everywhere.

We just need to look for them.


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55 thoughts on “Stopping you in your tracks

  1. Oh…the Vonnegut quote! Thank you for all of this, plus his wise words, Brian. Saints ARE everywhere and nature will forever dazzle us…we just need to pay attention with love and gratitude. 💕

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    1. My deer story made me think of the deer in the back of your yard. We get them occasionally but they keep their distance. I must scare them off. Ha ha. “Pay attention with love and gratitude.” Great stuff. Your next book: wit and wisdom from Vicki! Love it! 💕 🎉🎉😎😎😎

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      1. Oh I just had a beautiful thought! This has to happen. “The Wit and Wisdom of Lisa and Vicki.” It could be a podcast, a book, a global motivational speaking tour. The whole nine yards!!! Hmm, what do you say! I’ll be your promo agent. Let’s make this happen. The world needs it! ♥️🤣🤣🤣🤣😎

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      2. You’re on deck helping me write it…you and I share some DNA about the power of music and memories. I still need to tinker a bit (LOL – reminiscent of your recent post about posts, LOL again!) so you might not see it til Sunday. xo, Brian! 🥰

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  2. Isn’t it miraculous how some of us get to see amazing sites, read inspiring books, listen to moving music, experience ‘stop in our tracks’ moments? Not everyone has these opportunities. Thank you for bringing up all these memories; our family has been to Shenandoah Valley and drove/walked the Skyline Drive, visited the Grand Canyon… When life seems to heap pain and suffering on us, we still have these memories to ease us through the difficulties and remind us good things are possible and good people are everywhere.💞

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    1. You bring up a great point. When I’m down, I come back to these memories and experiences. They remind me of life’s beauty. They remind too that life might be hard in the moment but there’s still beautiful things out there. I just need to push on. Thanks Rose for your comment! Appreciate it. 😊😊😊😎😎

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  3. Not to be a downer but those deer aren’t as sweet when they’ve nibbled off the tops of your thriving green bean plants. However, I do still admire them even though they make it a challenge to keep a garden. Yes, it’s actually kind of shocking when someone shows “decency and integrity” especially in the current environment. We should all still strive to be kind.

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    1. Yea, I get what you’re saying. They can cause quite a bit of damage. They’re not so great either when they jump out in front of your car. I’ve had a few of those instances. They’re wild life. I still find them majestic. I really like how you phrased it. We should all strive to be kind. I like that kind of world! Thanks for commenting! 😎😎😎

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      1. And what better way to say it than to tell about one of those precious moments. I know how it feels to touch a fawn and there is nothing like it. So being up close to a group of deer is very satisfying in a “close to nature” kind of way that reminds us of how life could/should be.

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  4. I love this. It made me think of a quote – “There are two ways to live: you can live as if nothing is a miracle; you can live as if everything is a miracle.” Albert Einstein

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  5. Beautiful post, Brian. It’s just the kind of reminder and hope that we need. There is good around – we just need to keep doing it, taking in the awe moments, and celebrating the saints. Thanks for the heads up!

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  6. What a beautiful moment you had unexpectedly. I can see why it’s left such an impression on you. And I agree there are hidden angels everywhere – good people doing good things – and sometimes they make us pause in awe of it all.

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    1. It was such a surreal moment. I had been working a ton before vacation and really needed to get away. The woods were so quiet and then I was on them so quick. I thought for sure they would run. But, they just kept eating. My breathing was heavy and I was loud as heck … you’d think they’d be scared off, but that wasn’t the case! 🤣🤣😎😎

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  7. Still, the world has an abundance of love and kindness. I believe that, but I’m praying that peace will reign throughout the world.

    Beautiful thoughts, Brian.

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  8. Hi Brian
    We don’t think that we live in a crazy upside-down world. But we can imagine that the US is like this. Here in East Anglia, it’s quite idyllic, no crime, no rat-race. People are friendly and the coast is full of chocolate-box villages.
    We must say that we can’t complain – but we couldn’t either when we lived in NYC.
    The Fab Four of Cley
    🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

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    1. Yes, East Andlia sounds very idllic! My upside-down comment has more to do with politics and some of the news of the day. Fortunately, I can also point to other things like friendships and relationships that are wonderful. As my mother might used to tell when I was a kid, “stop complaining Brian and make it better.” Ha, ha. Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting. 😎😎

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  9. We visited Shenandoah with our son when he lived in VA, Brian, and it’s gorgeous. This post is touching and I love how you end it with focusing on the good. Our neighbor’s front yard across the street is a haven for deer. So we see them often, mamas and adorable babies. I never have my cell on me though to get a picture. They walk down the street too, but they’re not car smart and some drivers aren’t considerate, so I fear that one will get hit one day. Times are crazy, even crazier than I can remember from past decades. But we can’t let the craziness dictate how we feel. And the quote is great, and we do meet saints everywhere.

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    1. We lived a couple of years in Fairfax County (Northern VA) when we were younger. We used to travel out to Shenandoah on free weekends. When the kids were born it was a cheap vacation. Ironically, a doe and a fawn were in our yard tonight. I had my phone this time, but they were kind of far away. It was like they were “playing” with me. Lil buggers. Ha, ha.

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  10. Love this – “Still kindness, integrity, and decency reign supreme. There are still people who give selflessly and reach out with a heart full of compassion and empathy. Yes, I prefer to look for the good. Yes, there are saints everywhere.” 💖💖💖

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  11. Here’s another example of goodness in the world: Saint Springsteen stepped in to pay for the funeral expenses and compensation for the Texas flood victims. Long live The Boss!

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