The world can be a crazy place. Sometimes it helps to step back and list a few of the things you’re grateful for. I’m making it a habit each week to list three blessings. Here’s what I’m grateful for this week, May 25 – 31.
What I’m grateful for:
—Ice cream. The first taste of ice cream on a breezy spring day. Death by Chocolate. Cotton Candy. Need I say more.



—Strike-up the band. There’s nothing else like a small-town parade. You have the Little League teams walking in their shiny uniforms. You have Cub Scouts and Girl Scouts showing off their new badges. Students from the high school marching band play a patriotic song or something fun from Star Wars. You’ve got local VFW and American Legion members. A few of them squeeze into their old military uniforms, holding in their bellies the best they can. You have fire companies from across the region driving their recently cleaned fire trucks. A neighbor up the street drives the newest truck, another drives an old truck from the 70s that comes only once or twice a year. They honk their horns as they drive through town. You have the old car enthusiast. There are lots of convertibles. Kids on the parade route hold out flags. Parade participants in the back of flat-bed trucks throw candy to them. There’s nothing else like it.



—Soaking up the music. With the passing of Memorial Day, I’m in a summer mood. I’m thinking about some of the classic songs of summer. I’m thinking of “Good Vibrations” by The Beach Boys; “Schools Out” by Alice Cooper; “Soak Up The Sun” by Cheryl Crow; “Summertime” by DJ Jazzy Jeff & The Fresh Prince and, of course, “Sittin on the Dock of the Bay” by Otis Redding. What songs make you think of the summer sun and family.
“Sittin on the Dock of the Bay” by Otis Redding.
What gave me a smile?
Some great advice. The words that jump out at me:
- Set small goals, knock them off, set more goals.
- Happiness as a state of being.
- Remembering when everything was alright.
- Believe in yourself.
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I’m with you on the ice cream and music! I don’t do parades – got burnt out from being in the marching band and always marching, marching… but maybe now that I’m older a small town one would be nice?
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My son is the same way. Marched out. Ha ha. And oh yea, I’m talking small town ones. Not a fan of big parades. Kind of weird of me.
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ooh, all great things to be grateful for – and that is wonderful advice
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Yea … I just liked the bit of positivism. It’s been raining a lot here. The video hit like a bit of sun in the middle of some cloudy skies! 😎😎😎
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I love your gratitude lists. I’m with you with all of it, but listing the ice cream first resonates with me 😊. I’ll go for some Jamoca Almond Fudge and Pralines & Cream, please. A favorite since high school.
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Okay, that sounds really good. Hmm, I need to make a run for pralines and cream. It makes me wonder though. Is 9 am too early for ice cream? I say no. Does that make me crazy? Ha ha
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Is it ever too early for ice cream?
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Yes to ice cream. We even have an ice cream van that comes around the neighbourhood once a week. The dogs get so excited as they get a small bowl too. I always loved Nat King Cole’s Lazy Hazy Days of Summer. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3kiiXypT7_4
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An ice cream truck. I see the ice cream truck every so often in our neighborhood. I always think that would a be a cool job. Ha. ha.
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A good list of the essentials – ice cream, community and music. So good! As is the advice. Thank you, Brian!
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With those three Wynne, I can survive a lot of things. Without them . . . not so much. Ha, ha. Have a great weekend.
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Jeni;s salted caramel ice cream is a special “once a month” treat for me…don’t care about chocolate or desserts at all other than that…great music choices!
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Oh my daughter sent me Jeni’s for my birthday a few years ago. The salted caramel is the absolute best. Very much a weakness. Hard to pass it up anytime I see it. Ha, ha.
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Yes, caramel is my kryptonite!
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I love small town parades! The ones where I used to live also had a couple bagpipe bands, and seriously impressive farm equipment.
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Bagpipes would make it memorable. And yes, the parades and festivals with the farm equipment were always awesome. I remember one fireman’s festival where they had a huge tractor and other equipment sitting out. I remember sitting in the tractor the entire night having fun. Oh to be a kid. Ha. ha.
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Ah, yes, ice cream. I enjoyed some fresh blueberry pie crunch ice cream last night. We came to this little town in Michigan for a family vacay about this time last year, and I’m not ashamed to say one of the things I was looking forward to the most about coming back was getting to eat that ice cream again. 😂
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When our kids were young, we went back to the same spot in the Shenandoah National Park two years in a row simply because we found a spot that had the best blackberry milkshakes. To literally die for. Going back to the same place in Michigan . . . sounds like good decisionmaking to me. Ha, ha.
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Oh my goodness. Otis Redding AND ice cream – in the same post? I wanna go sit outside and eat ice cream…does that count as a ‘brunch food’? 😜
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The judge has ruled. Ice cream is an “anytime you want” food. In fact, I’m thinking of making it my appetizer, dinner and snack. What do you think Vicki?
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I love it! 🥰😜🥰
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Your post is packed with summer goodness. Enjoying the music in a parade, eating ice cream quickly because it’s melting in the heat. A touch stressful, but the taste is delicious!
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Yes, definitely a catch-22! I’ll still take the ice cream. Ha ha
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Sittin’ on the Dock of the Bay was always one of my favourite oldies.
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A fun song! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
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That ice cream picture on the bottom!!!!! I am so with you with ice cream have to have it every night and when it’s chocolate and has sprinkles and a waffle cone, there’s nothing better!
I also have a small town, parade and music ! great things to be grateful for! 🍦
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I’m a sucker for ice cream. So so bad for ya, but oh so good! Ha ha. 🍦🍦🍦🍦😎😎😎
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Those inspirational videos are just the boost we need sometimes – “everything in life is made up by people no smarter than you”. “Live the life you have imagined”. Otis’ “Sitting on the Dock of the Bay” is thee perfect slow summer song.
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Oh yes, need a boost once in a while!
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You crack me up getting Cotton Candy ice cream. You’re a kid at heart.
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I know, right. Can’t take me anywhere. Oh definitely a kid! Late fifties going on 10 years old. My two favorite ice cream flavors. Ha ha!
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I was gonna say…I’ve never heard of anyone over 10 ordering that flavor 🤣
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And who most enjoys ice cream? Um, kids. Maybe they’re onto something. Ha, ha. The funny thing is that one of my favorite flavors as a kid was plain old vanilla. Now I need to explain that we would go to an old dairy in the rural area where I lived and their vanilla was out of this world. When you say vanilla, you think plain. But at this place, it was amazing. It went out of business years ago . . . but I would pass up cotton candy in a heartbeat if I could get the vanilla of my youth. Ha, ha.
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Ice cream solves many of life’s daily ails and challenges! 🙏🍦
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Yes, yes, yes. I can’t prove this but ice cream eliminates a lot of problems. If two people sit down over ice cream . . . hard to start war with the other. Just sayin’
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Your post emits Good Vibrations Brian… Lots of wonderful things to be grateful for… Have a lovely week xx
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Aww thanks Sue, that’s what I’m looking for with my Saturday posts. A chance to be appreciative and send out some positive vibes!
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❤️
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Great list! I can’t pick just one song of summer, but I love music trivia, and made me think of this Hit Parade podcast about the history of the “Song of Summer” pop chart (which is actually a thing!). https://slate.com/podcasts/hit-parade/2024/07/how-song-of-the-summer-became-an-american-pastime
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I associate so many different songs with summer. It’s cool to read up on the back stories. Thanks for sharing. Ha,ha.
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You totally hit the nail on the head with your description of small town holiday parades. And the candy is always hard, usually Tootsie Rolls that are probably left over from Halloween. Unless it’s a Halloween parade, in which case, I’m assuming the Tootsie Rolls are fresh. Not that I’d be able to tell the difference.
(Not a Tootsie Roll fan, if you hadn’t guessed.)
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Not a tootsie roll fan. Crazy enough . . . I actually am. I suspect my liking of tootsie Rolls is an act of rebellion against Hershey’s since it’s everywhere in PA. Ha, ha.
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Just give me the ice cream and let me be 😂
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Ha, ha, I’m with you. I’ll take the ice cream and run away to my secret spot. Ha, ha.
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Same!!!!!! LOL
No conversation just amount with my ice cream and I’ll crawl out from my secret spot when I’m done.
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Love this post, Brian, but mint chocolate chip ice cream is my fave. 🙂 Thanks for the good advice, and perfect songs to get into the spirit of summer! 🍦🍦😎🎶
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No complaints with mint chocolate chip. Ha, ha
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😊👍🏻🍨
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