‘Haters gonna hate!’

Everyone in my class had left. The prof had packed up too. I sat staring at my notebook for the longest time. When I was 18 or 19 and in college, I needed an elective, so I took an Introductory Religious Studies Class. I walked into the class thinking it would be a piece of cake. Boy was I wrong.

In contrast, I was amazed how much it got me thinking about the role of religion in our lives. I found myself after each class, analyzing what we had discussed and how I felt about it. In the class that had just ended, the prof lectured on the “loaves and fishes” story and its role in the Christian faith. In the story, Jesus takes a few loaves of bread and two fish and miraculously feeds a crowd of more than 5,000. I had heard the story countless times in my youth. I found myself looking at it with fresh eyes.

Photo by Pexels.

Something different to everyone

I learned from the class that I care deeply about my faith. I understand though that others have different thoughts and opinions. With that in mind, I’ve been doing some thinking lately.

Christians celebrated Easter this weekend. It commemorates the resurrection of Jesus Christ and is one of the holiest holidays of the Christian year. With everything going on in the U.S. and World, I can’t help but wonder how our society and so-called Christians became so hate-filled.

I see a lot of hypocritical statements on what it means to be a Christian. People pretend to be Christians but their actions don’t match up with their words. They’ve become heart-less. I have the most issues with evangelical preachers like Franklin Graham and Catholic Priests like Bishop Robert Barron who have cozied up to politicians even if it means overlooking policies that go against Christian teaching (caring for and feeding the poor, showing mercy to the downtrodden, emphasizing love over hate, etc.)

Photo by Pexels.

Little patience for hypocrisy

Of course, Jesus warned about hypocrisy. He warned of announcing “our charity with trumpets like the hypocrites do.” He also warned of praying loudly in public and making a spectacle out of our fasting. He had no time for such behavior.

He had a simple answer on how to live our lives: “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.'” (Matthew 25:40)

I think it’s good time to to remember:

—Thinking of others first. I keep seeing a meme about the Ten Commandments. It makes a lot of sense to me. “If your version of Christianity wants to put the Ten Commandments into schools, but take free lunches out of them, you’re worshiping something other than Jesus.”

—The least of my brothers. In recent weeks, a large number of leaders have been visiting the notorious prison in El Salvador where the U.S. deported 137 Venezuelans. Secretary of Homeland Security Kristi Noem took a photo op in front of the prisoners with her gold $50,000 Rolex watch. West Virginia Rep. Riley Moore stopped in front of the prison last week and gave two thumbs up. He looked like he was offering a Yelp review of a Charleston ice cream shop, not standing in front of a prison.

I could write about “due process” and how the U.S. Constitution spells it out for “all people,” but I’ll leave that for another day. I will say this: Yes, I’m sure there are some bad men housed in the prison. However, I think Pope Francis found a better way to make his point when he visited a prison in Rome on Holy Thursday. Thanks to his health he was prevented from performing the traditional foot-washing, so the 88-year-old Pope, his back to the camera, prayed with them. He’s a better Christian than me. Probably most of us. However, Father James Martin asked a question I think very appropriate: Which photo do you think Jesus would prefer? Using the prisoners as a prop for a selfie? Or one of the Pope urging them to seek out God and beg for his forgiveness?

Photo by Pexels.

—Judge, lest you be judged. Can you call yourself a Christian and reject the stranger struggling and in need of food, shelter, asylum? “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.” Matthew 7:1. The excuse I hear many times: “Have you gone to Walmart or Target and seen [fill in the blank] eating and living high on the hog with their iPhones and jewelry?” When I hear this, I want to ask who made you God?

—The ideals of Christian discipleship. Jesus gave us the beatitudes and we’ve forgotten them. They aren’t some trite sayings, they’re core to our belief.

  • “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
  • “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
  • “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.”
  • “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.”
  • “Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy.”
  • “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.”
  • “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.”
  • Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

I worry that we’ve turned our backs on Jesus’ message. It’s like we’re spoiled children. We listen when we want to listen. We’ve become anti-immigrant; against anyone that doesn’t fit the heterosexual standard; out for ourselves; and focused on wealth and “gotcha politics” instead of faith. Where’s the empathy? Where’s the mercy and forgiveness?

To steal from another meme: Instead of a “Storm The Capitol Christian,” I’d rather be a “Love Your Neighbor Christian.”

We need to figure out where we stand. I hope I stand on the side of love. Peace be with you.


Discover more from Writing from the Heart with Brian

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

59 thoughts on “‘Haters gonna hate!’

  1. Beautifully expressed, Brian. Very sadly, everything the rogue administration in your country is pushing forward with is antithetical to what Jesus taught. Hypocrisy writ large. The now late Pope Francis understood Jesus’s messages of love and kindness, and so do you. Happy Easter Monday, which is a holiday in most of multicultural Canada.

    Liked by 2 people

  2. Such a thoughtful and wise post, Brian. I don’t like where the world is headed right and there is, as you say, so much hypocrisy. I always believe in the separation of church and state and we can see where things are getting so messy and wrong these days. Love always wins in the end and I am hopeful that will happen again. It may just take a bit longer this time!

    Liked by 3 people

    1. It was a hard piece to write. I think it lectures too much. But I wanted to get it out there. If I had to summarize in a few words what I was trying to say was that respect and love always win out. Thanks for commenting. Appreciate your perspective.

      Liked by 1 person

  3. All these thoughts bring me back to Donetsk where I was baptized and started my journey seeking truth and enlightenment. It was my escape from reality so I loved it dearly.

    Like

  4. I agree with everything you have written here Brian. I was sad to see the Pope had passed this morning. He seemed to understand the greatest commandment – Love One Another. Who will teach about Jesus and spiritual compassion now? Our mega churches are too busy getting rich…

    Liked by 1 person

  5. So many great points here. I love your contrast between prison visits for photo ops and the Pope’s. I want to be on the side of love as well. Here’s to that winning (and sooner, rather than later, please!). Beautiful, Brian!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Oh, Wynne, thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. Yes, those photo ops really bothered me. They summed up issues perfectly. Faith is such a personal thing. I just hate how angry some have turned Christianity. I’m by no stretch a poster child of what to do right. I just think it’s a shame that we hear less and less about mercy, grace, and forgiveness. Maybe it’s just me. Anyway, thank you so much.

      Liked by 1 person

  6. I’m not religious at all, but I respect others’ beliefs. I don’t think any true Christian would condone storming the Capitol, or any of the other hate and prejudice espoused by the current administration. Hope you had a nice Easter, Brian!

    Like

    1. My faith has its high and low points, but I hate how little we respect each other’s beliefs and opinions. Too many times, it’s my way is the only way. Despite what some would like to think America was founded on folks running away from state sponsored religion. They wanted religious freedom. And yes, I’m with you. I don’t know how some folks can support the Jan 6 riot and still call themselves Christian. It’s not possible. They’re in complete disagreement with each other.

      Liked by 1 person

  7. Say it louder for the people in the back, Brian! Wonderful words, my friend! You so beautifully wrote exactly how I feel–and I believe, it resonates with many of us!
    When I got off of FB in 2018, it was because of some bullying I “tolerated” because I’m not a fan of Trump. I was even private messaged from a former boss about why I was a Liberal? Apparently, to follow Jesus, I must be a Republican.
    I’m not anything, Brian. I’m just a middle-aged Independent woman who believes in Jesus. Even if I DIDN’T believe in him, why wouldn’t I want to be like him?
    The beloved Pope and so many other servant leaders knew/know what it means to be Christ-like. I fail daily. But I’d rather just simply follow the greatest two commandments–Love God and others. I stand on the side of love with you. Peace be with YOU, too!
    Outstanding words of wisdom, my friend. Thank you, again!

    Liked by 2 people

    1. Thank you so much K.L. I worried how it might come across to others, but it’s something that’s been bugging me. Yea I get tired of everyone being conservative or liberal instead of just being people. Jesus didn’t care about that, why do we? Love how you phrased it! Yes, like you wrote: love and peace! Thanks again for your comment. 🙏🏼🙏🏼😎😎

      Liked by 1 person

      1. You’re welcome, my friend. If you have followed me a while, you probably see that we share the same philosophy!
        It’s my blessing to share! I’m sorry I’m not here very often. But when I am, I sure enjoy it! Take care!! 🙏🏼🤗

        Liked by 1 person

  8. Brian my friend, all I have to say is, PREACH!!! Now this needs to be played on a continuous loop: “People pretend to be Christians but their actions don’t match up with their words. They’ve become heart-less.”

    On a lighthearted note, when I read your title, I thought about Taylor Swift’s song, “Shake it Off!” 😜🎶🤣

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Oh, thank you Kym. You know me . . . just making friends wherever I go. Ha, ha. It’s just something that’s been bothering me lately. Of course, Trump’s Easter message yesterday bothered me too. I hated to the see the hatred spewed on a holy day. But I guess that’s to be expected. And I’m one to talk, but I try. Thanks for your perspective. I really appreciate that.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Oh Brian, no need to apologize for being the wonderful YOU that you are my dear friend. 🤗 When did weaponizing faith and religion become popular these days? 🤷🏻‍♀️ But as you duly noted, it’s something that we have come to expect these days/months/years! UGH! 😝 We continue to hang in here and refuse to let them rob us of our JOY! 😍

        Nope, not today and tomorrow ain’t lookin’ too good either! 🤨

        Like

      2. You’re so very welcome Brian. I know I replied to this post but for the life of me I don’t know where it went! UGH! 😝 Technology sucks sometimes, but just know that I agree with you my friend. We have a spiritual connection! 😘🙏🏼💖

        Like

  9. my parents were catholic but i opted not to be, and really have never found an organized religion I can align with. the closest I’ve come, is the buddhist way, of living a kind and compassionate life. you’re so right about what’s happening these days, many who call themselves religious, do things that are the exact opposite of how a person following the tenets of any religion would act, instead acting with cruelty and hatred toward others.

    Liked by 1 person

  10. Great post, Brian!
    It’s the actions, not the words that tell the story as we can see through countless cases Brian. You’re right the bible has great scriptures but I don’t care what religion anyone is, it’s being the mouth piece for humanity and love that are religion to me. But yep, don’t espouse to being a Christian and talk out of both sides of your mouth! ❤️

    Liked by 1 person

  11. Wow! I too love studying religions, all of them, and finding the common ground. Love is always the highest truth in most every tradition. Great post. Your examples of scripture transposed over our current reality are brilliant. I know I fall short often enough when it comes to truly living out our faith. I get self-absorbed and forget the intense suffering of others. I’d like to scoot closer to love. Hugs, C

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Sorry for the slow response. I’m behind today. Ha, ha. You’re so right. There are so many commonalities. We really do skip over that. I hope my post worked. It was just me going off on my old man rant. I hate to see injustice and hypocrisy. When God was giving out those traits, I got in line twice. I’m way too sensitive on stuff like that. Ugh. Anyway, I love how you phrased it . . . I’m just here trying to scoot closer to love and hiding incognito so St Peter doesn’t see that I’m trying to get into Heaven, when he really sent me packing in the other direction. Ha, ha. 😎😎😎😎

      Liked by 1 person

  12. A lovely piece of powerful writing Brian. I’m glad you wrote it, and I don’t think it came across as lecturing. While not a practicing Christian I do share your thoughts about the hypocrisy of some. This was actually the reason why I turned away from the church.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Oh thank you Brenda. It’s definitely preachy. Ha, ha. My wife joked with me, asking when I’m going to be preaching to my flock. Of course, I need to ask God for forgiveness now — I stuck my tongue out at her. Ha, ha. I’m kidding, but yes, I really didn’t want to come across as holier than thou. Thanks so much though for your comment. Much appreciated. 😎😎😎😎

      Liked by 1 person

  13. I understand what you’re saying and basically agree. The root cause, as someone has said, is mixing politics with religion–or the whole idea of a Christian nation. No country on earth could survive or operate on Jesus’ “love your enemies, turn the other cheek, do good to those that hate you, forgive seventy times seven” principles–which is why He never established an earthly govt. His kingdom is 100% voluntary, not a birthright no matter what you believe.
    Many countries, the US included, are a mixed bag where a lot of citizens espouse most of Jesus’ teachings, but that doesn’t make them “Christian” nations. It seems US evangelicals have developed the idea of America as a type of Israel, God’s people, but under the Christian banner. The whole nation should be Christian and laws should reflect that. Hence fiascos like Prohibition. Countries need justice, laws, and defense, but tying politics to Christianity has caused much confusion.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Sorry for the slow response. I hear you about no country can operate like Jesus. I get that, there needs to be rules and standards that we all follow. And like you describe I wouldn’t want a world like the Christian Evangelicals prefer where it’s Christian laws, etc. I just feel that we’ve lost our way, where grace, mercy, and empathy are thrown out the window. I’m probably more conservative than many people might expect. For exmaple, I could go along with some of the tougher immigration laws . . . but I’m also a big believer in justice and due process. If you don’t have due process, you have anarchy. What’s to prevent me from pointing at my neighbor and using the police to get them thrown out of the country. They could be citizens, but without due process, how do we ever know? I just think some folks need to remember why they chose to believe in the first place. Thanks for sharing!!!!

      Liked by 1 person

  14. Brian, I thought of Taylor Swift’s “Shake it Off” when I read your title! Boy, was I off-base! 🙂 What a great post with so many good points. I agree with you, and it’s still mind boggling for me to know people who say they’re Christians and who voted for Trump. He is so far from being a Christian. Anyway, the hypocritical behavior is why we left our church. Thanks for this wonderful and well-written reminder to be on the side of love and empathy.

    Like

    1. It was a weird post to write. My big complaint with it is that it’s too preachy. I just have such a big problem injustice and hypocrisy of those saying one thing and then doing something else. My little way of tying to fight back against it. Thanks so much for the encouragement. I appreciate it. 😎😎😎😎

      Liked by 1 person

  15. I’ve thought a lot about hate, something I grew up with in the south in the 50’s and 60’s. I have seen hate, and I know in my heart that most people have a far more open mind today. There are two big problems. The press is #1. They are fear mongers who fan the fire of hate with their news. #2 is our legal system that protects the haters. Freedom of speech is one thing, but violence is unacceptable. Apologies for the long ramble, Brian.

    Liked by 1 person

  16. Inside every culprit there is a victim crying for help. Heal the victim and the culprit disappears. And that healing can only be through love, kindness and compassion. Beautiful post. God Bless.

    Liked by 1 person

Comments are closed.

Website Powered by WordPress.com.

Up ↑

Discover more from Writing from the Heart with Brian

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading