Catching a wave

The wave crashed to the shore, letting out a thunderous clap. The water would shoot out, rushing to the shoreline and then it would retreat back to the ocean depths, like it was being pulled by a string. From the water’s edges, I studied the waves for the longest time.

I pushed the laughter and chatter from the sunbathers and kids playing on the beach to the back of my mind. I was focused solely on the beat, tempo, and power of the waves crashing to shore, how they headed back out to sea, only to be replaced by new ones.

Spin me round

I’m not much of a philosopher or zen guru, no one will confuse me for Plato or Aristotle, but I couldn’t help but see the lessons in front of me. I noticed that I could learn something from the waves. They seemed to have a rhyme and rhythm all their own.

When they crashed on the shore, I started to cast my worries on the waves heading back out to sea. My worries about my big work project? I spread them out with the undertow. My worry about this or that I imagined floating back like backwash out to the sea.

Life is a wave

In my mind, I imagined my worries being sent away, replaced with huge waves of Hope and Excitement. The big change project that I’m working on, with all kinds of dependencies, was replaced with hope about my son’s junior year of college and prospects of spending some quality time this fall with all three of my kids.

In addition, I cast off worries about home about my kids and health concerns. I kept reminding myself to focus on the water. Strangely though, the water sounded calm in my head. Yes, it felt good to say goodbye to fear and hello to hope.

I write more on a few things I took away from a recent trip to the beach. In my post, A Sign of the Times, on The Heart of the Matter, I write about how the messages and signs I saw in several different beach surf and t-shirt shops gave me some great reminders on how to lead a fruitful, even if it is sometimes crazy, life.

What does the sea tell you?

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53 thoughts on “Catching a wave

  1. No one will confuse you for Plato or Aristotle? 😲 For real Brian? 🤷🏻‍♀️ You certainly had an “aha” moment at the beach. The ocean has that type of magnetism over us when we pause and see us compared to it’s vastness! 🌊🌞💦

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  2. I love this. Waves are often used as a metaphor for grief and now you’ve expanded that with life in general. I’ve always been drawn to the ocean, living much of my life on one coast or the other. I miss not seeing the ocean these days. I’ve always thought of myself as small in relation, not in an insignificant way, but in the vein of their being a larger force present in my life making my worries take up less space. What you so beautifully wrote about. Thank you.

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  3. Many people use the recorded sounds of waves to lull them to sleep. As you have attested, waves are calming-and a good place to cast your worries. Great pic-I love your smiley faces! 🙂

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  4. The ocean has always been a powerful place for me. You did an excellent job of expressing the peace in watching waves. Last summer, finding out about our daughter-in-law’s cancer diagnosis and waiting for her surgery outcome, we were on our beach vacation. I took so many beach walks those days.

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  5. Lovely photo of you both, Brian! I’m glad you got to enjoy a relaxing beach vacation. There is something beautiful about the water and the calming magic of the waves. I can see how casting those worries with the wave is a wonderful exercise in letting go and letting the calm wash over you. 🙏🌊

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  6. I really like how you describe your time of looking at the ocean. How spending time in nature can be therapeutic. I hope your trip to the beach has lightened you. The sea has told me that the world is vast, and much of it is unseen on the surface, that richness lies underneath. 🌞

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  7. My grandchildren are visiting next month, and they have never been to the beach or seen an ocean. I’m smiling thinking of what that will be like for them.

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  8. Howdy. I feel the same as you:
    My wife and I visit Cape Cod most years. The Atlantic Ocean borders CC’s eastern shore. I absolutely love walking on the sands, staring out to sea, listening to and watching the waves. I think my blood pressure drops significantly when I’m there.

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