Giving til it hurts

Where can I sign up for the study? I promise to be generous.

Let me explain. Psychologists released a study last summer where they gave 200 people from around the globe $10,000 to use as they wish with no stipulations other than reporting how they spent the money. The participants were drawn from three low-income countries (Indonesia, Brazil, and Kenya) and four high-income countries (Australia, Canada, United Kingdom, and the United States) and spent on average more than $6,400 on purchases that benefited others.

Yes, yes, please sign me up.

I’ll take care of everyone. You can trust me. I won’t steer you wrong.

Oh, I’m joking, but I find the findings to be quite interesting. Of that $6,400 total, nearly $1,700 went to donations to charity, suggesting that humans exhibit remarkable generosity. Diving in deeper, $3,678 went to people outside their immediate household, and $2,163 went to strangers, acquaintances and donations to organizations.

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We’re writing this month On the Heart of the Matter on problem-solving and I write more about the generosity of strangers in my piece, One good deed deserves another. I’ve long been fascinated why one person will avoid you and another will give you the shirt off his or her back. I suspect my interest goes back to sitting in a church pew one Sunday as a young kid bored and not really getting much out the service, until the preacher started talking about the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke chapter 10).

In the story, Jesus tells the story of how a priest, Levite, and Samaritan (the Jews-hated enemy) all pass an injured Jewish traveler. The Samaritan is the only one who stops and cares for him, bandaging him and taking him to an inn, where he pays for his care. Jesus finishes the story by saying, “Go and do likewise.”

But compassion can still be hard to find.

I’m not sure if there is a gene for generosity and caring or if it’s a case of upbringing or life experiences, but I can make you one promise: If the researchers want to do Round Two of the study or if Bill Gates or Warren Buffet want to give me some of their vast fortunes, I promise to give freely to lots of different organizations and great causes.

Heck, I’ll even give to my regular readers. Now doesn’t that make you want to become an avid reader and follower of Writing from the Heart with Brian, right?

I promise that I’ll be altruistic! I even pinky swear!

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43 thoughts on “Giving til it hurts

  1. My wife and I are a lesbian couple, without children or extended family ties, who have made a heartfelt decision to ensure our legacy enriches the lives of others. We’ve carefully crafted wills to dedicate our worldly belongings and financial assets to supporting those less fortunate. It is our wish that our estate benefits the local state university, with a clear directive that our intellectual property and accumulated wealth serve the greater good of society. In addition to this commitment, we’ve contributed thousands of dollars to local charities. These funds are earmarked to sustain free access to the community library and facilitate the provision of either free or affordable healthcare services. We hold a firm belief that if those with immense wealth adopted a mindset akin to ours, the fabric of our world would be woven with far greater compassion and equity. 🙂

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    1. Higher learning, access to libraries, affordable healthcare . . . love the areas that you’ve chosen Thomas. If more people contributed to those areas, yes, I believe many of our problems would be solved. We try to give where we can. I know I’ve been helped over the years by others and I feel that it’s my obligation to help others. Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment!!!!

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  2. I’m actually shocked at how generous the participants were! What a fascinating experiment, and appreciate the tieback to the parable of the Good Samaritan. I haven’t heard that one in awhile, and it’s always a good reminder.

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  3. Yes, it does! Sign me up too. Interesting post. I was surprised of the study’s results. I guess I’m used to American greed and tightwadedness (is that a word?) I always liked that Bible story of the Good Samaritan too. It’s been interesting in traveling to other countries, it seems the people from the poorest countries I’ve been to showed the most generosity, in spirit and in sharing food from their limited supply. I’m sure there’s lots of research done on why some are more generous than others, ie. nature vs. nurture. Will be fun to read more of what you discover…

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    1. Yes, the Good Samaritan is one of my favorites, especially when I learned that the Jewish people and the Samaritans were like the Hatfields and the McCoys. They couldn’t stand each other. And yes, we Americans can be very greedy. I think there are lots of giving people too, but you need to look for them. Thanks for reading.

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  4. before the pandemic and the ensuing rise and cost of everything, I was generous to what my brother would say to a fault. Now I have the same amount of fixed income and work at stretching it to pay for necessities, after giving up luxuries like having any way to watch TV – cable or streaming – no more pedicures or manicures, no more eating out, and making less expensive meals to eat in. When I see some thing that I know I would have contributed to before this problem, it hurts my heart that I can’t.

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    1. I hear you. It can be challenging. I find that you have to be smart. I try to give what I can, but also realizing that my wherewithal may be going up or down at any point in time. I also like to know a little about the organizations that I give to or volunteer. I like to make sure that they’re being wise in whatever resources I’m giving.

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  5. I guess we both have charitable genes, because we do what we can to support our favorite charities each year. And, we plan on continuing to do that…as there are plenty of folks less fortunate than we are. Interesting post, Brian.

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  6. That gives me so much hope Brian. People are basically good but we usually only hear about the bad ones. And given the opportunity, people will share their good fortune with others. That is good news. Thanks for sharing. Hugs, C

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  7. Oh my dear Brian, this is such a warm and fuzzy share. Who can forget that epic story about The Good Samaritan who helped a wounded stranger that everyone else who could have helped simply ignored. I love how people, given a gift they could have kept but who you may never think about having a heart of gold and giving to others. Love this my friend. It keeps us humble. 🥰🙏🏼😊

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    1. The choices we make as writers are always fascinating to me. The Good Samaritan part all came five minutes before I was going to hit publish. The piece was written but I felt like it needed a little extra. What aspect have most of the comments touched on: the Good Samaritan section. Too funny!

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  8. That’s a very interesting study, Brian! I’m curious what happened to the unspent funds.

    I do think there is a benefit both to ourselves and others when we give generously and altruistically with no expectations of getting something back.

    And yes, sign me up for this study too! 😆

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  9. Awesome blog post Brian. Indeed one good deed deserves the another. Giving is a sign of abundance and givers never lack anything.

    With the Easters coming up, let us give to those in need. By the way sir, Generosity is my middle name. Keep up the good work giving to those low income earners👏👏🔥

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  10. Oh by the way Brian. If I were to get that 10 000, I would be on top of the world not giving a toss about anybody, haha, just kidding😂😂😂

    I would share of course because sharing is caring👏👌

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  11. I love this hopeful post, Brian. Watching the news only highlights the awful events, so this was a nice change. And indeed, one good deed deserves another. I would take care of my family and close friends first, but I’d love to help out a stranger in need, not to mention, giving to charities that we support. I have given food to a homeless person that I see each day when I go to the post office. And she has been extremely grateful. It’s just so sad to see people without a roof over their head. Anyway, thanks for sharing, and have a great weekend!

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  12. The results from that study are quite fascinating and a bit surprising. I’m not sure what I would do if I got an extra 10K. I’d probably end up saving it or putting it towards my mortgage. Not sure that counts as “spending it”.

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