When I was a kid, we lived out in the country. Like most things in life, it had its pros and its cons. One of the negatives was that my brothers and I had to get up early to be ready in time for the school bus and the 25 minute drive to school. My brothers were older and went to a different school so their bus came after mine, and in time they were able to drive themselves. On my own, I always seemed to be running late and would have to run to get to my bus to be on time.
When I finally got on the bus and caught my breath, I tended to sit near the back. I would slouch low in my seat with my knees up against the seat in front of me. Of course, there were no seat belts. This was years from seat belts being a law. The drive was generally a borefest with one exception. You could count on the school bus driver hitting at least one huge pothole each trip, jerking you high up in the air.

The long parade of buses
I’m always amazed now by the number of kids I see in my area who are driven or drive to school. Yes, back in my day, some kids were driven to school and, when we were older, some kids had cars. You could always tell who saved up on and bought a car on their own and who was driving daddy’s sports car. However, the number of kids driving today is definitely higher. Significantly higher. You can see them one after another, like ants in a row, making their way to school.
People always talk about how they hated the bus. When I was in elementary school, I loved the bus. I loved it for a myriad of reasons: I could catch up a few minutes of sleep; I could get myself ready for my day, I was a voracious reader and could use the time to read; and I could day dream.

The makings of a writer
I credit those day dreams on the school bus with helping me become a writer. As crazy as it sounds, I found that those day dreams could help me brainstorm and create and think how I was going to write something, so when I was in front of a pen and paper, or later, in front of a lap top, I could turn those thoughts into something concrete on the page.
Oh, by the time high school came along, I came to hate the bus too like everyone else and rarely took the bus home, staying after school for various sports and after-school activities, but I still have good memories of the big yellow school bus and my early years of school.
Yes, those wheels on the bus do go round and round, just watch out for the big bumps in the road!
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I walked to elementary school so by the time high school arrived, I was psyched to take it. I never did mind it, to be honest. Being teased (English girl going to a French school) and later completely accepted because I was good in sports; all part of the ritual, I think!
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Sports help … don’t they?!?? 😎😎😎🤣
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Oh they do!
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I love how you both show that things really are impacted by the eye of the beholder: is it a borefest or an incubator for creativity? Is it a burden, or a place to make friends?
I’m curious, Dale, did you grow up in France or happen to go to a French school in your locality?
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Either way Dale … sounds like a blog post or two!!! I had the same question EW! And thank you. You’re so right about being the eye of the beholder.
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I enjoy your perspective. In my day, only kids who lived out in the country rode the bus. Everyone else walked. Most families had one car, so there was no driving your kid to school.
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Yes, it’s kind of funny how many cars some family have. Crazy? 😎😎😎
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Definitely! Best to you, Brian.
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Oh the potholes…for we, the readers in the back of the bus, they were a major hazard, weren’t they? I love your memory lane thoughts, ‘big yellow’ style. 🌞
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Listening to Wynne and your webinar and hearing you talk about creativity made me think of the bus drives. If someone else is driving on a long ride, I still like to close my eyes and let my mind wander. Always come away with a blog post idea or two. All started from riding on the bus!
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Isn’t that the best? Making the most out of those “found moments” and then realizing they’re inspiration sources. So good! (And thanks for the ear worm du jour…Mr. ‘Wheels on the Bus’!) xo! 😜🥰😜
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As far as the ear worm goes … I try my best! Ha ha ha.
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😜🥰😜
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My son was one of those kids that had an after school job and saved until he could buy a car of his own. I think it taught him many valuable lessons he wouldn’t have learned if the car had just been handed to him.
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Yup, I didn’t have a car until late in my senior year when I had earned enough money. It taught me a lot about hard work.
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I was a farm girl, so it was buses all the way through high school! We did have a favorite bus driver, who not only enjoyed our choral renditions but bought us all ice cream cones the last day of school! https://joynealkidney.com/2018/12/10/harold-cooper-favorite-school-bus-driver/
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Now that’s a great bus driver! Thanks for sharing Joy.
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I feel that schools all over the planet should have schools buses. There is a lot of fuel wasted by individual vehicles.
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Exactly Sadje. Such a waste!
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It is, and the traffic congestion, pollution are an extra.
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I rode the bus to school until high school. Like you, I was busy with activities after school and it was no longer cool to ride the bus. We had to walk quite a bit to the bus stop. But when there was a prison break (the state penitentiary was less than a mile from our house) Thelma, the bus driver, would drop me off at my front door. Your post brought back memories.
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Thank goodness for Thelma! That had to be a bit scary. I hope I brought back good memories!!!!!
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Thelma was the best! You did bring back good memories of hanging out with friends. We would all sing Simon and Garfunkel songs on the bus ride home.
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Oh that’s cool.
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👍🏼
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I was a suburbs girl during the era of new schools being built all the time. The school bus was always part of the equation in my school life. You got on the bus with your friends and the socializing started. What intrigues me these days is how many parents drive their kids to school (and pick them up) even though the kids could walk. Even in smallish towns like ours. ?????!
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It’s crazy! I did it when I could for my kids, but most days they walked or when they were older got rides with kids we knew. But it seems to be out of control today.
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Walking to school was good for us back in those days, as long as it wasn’t more than a mile or two, but nowadays, you wouldn’t dare send your kids out alone to walk to or from school with so many predators lurking. Sad to say, but it’s true. It may only happen once in a long time, but you wouldn’t want it to happen to your child that one time. If they always walked in a group it would be okay, but then there is always that first or last stretch when they are alone.
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Yup, when my kids had to walk … those were the times when I tended to drive them the most for the reasons you listed!
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Sad, isn’t it, that it has come to this.
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Such nice memories Brian. I was a bus driver in 11th and 12th grades. That was when I suppose we were responsible enough to drive kids to and from school safely. Like you, both my high school and elementary school passengers loved riding the bus. It was like a daily field trip for them! LOL Thanks for sharing some sweet memories my friend. 🚍🏫🚸 Have a FANtabulous weekend! 🌞🌟🥰
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A daily field trip! I like how you describe that.
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Honey Brian, I aim to please. Trust me, driving that school bus was an adventure for sure! 😜🐱🏍🥰
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Definitely brings back my childhood memories running after the bus during my grade school years. Unfortunately there was as “caste” environment once on the bus so the actual ride was a bit annoying but it got me to where I needed to be and took a lot of burden off my parents…assuming I caught the but bus ha.
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Yea, the bus did have its own strange culture and caste system. I somehow managed to avoid a lot of that, but still interesting. Thanks for stopping by!!!!
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love the nostalgia o the bus and being instrumental in formulating your writing career, Brian. When we finally replaced our 4 door ford of such, we passed it on to our kids. All 4 of them had to use it. Same with sharing a bathroom. 😹🥹❤️😉 It taught them how to be resilient and less can be enough❣️
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Oh yes, I love that Cindy, a great lesson of resilience. If you can survive growing up by next to your brother/sister then you can survive anything. 🤣🤣🤣
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My bus driver in high school always sped up going over a speed bump with the back wheels. I love how you trace back your use of that time for reading and imagination. Oh, the makings of a writer for sure!
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Great memories, Brian, and I like how they segue into writing inspiration. I have vivid memories of starting kindergarten wearing a plaid jumper and black and white saddle shoes stepping up into the big yellow school bus. 🙂 I took the bus several times in my childhood, but I also rode my bike. And then in my adult married life, since we lived close to our children’s school’s, they were able to walk, so that was good. But even today, I see the cars lined up and the traffic is horrible. I love when school is out on holiday! 🚌🚌
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I get driving little kids to school. We did that a lot, especially when the bus ride was long. I guess I’m just surprised by the number of teens driving and driving higher end cars than me. Ha, ha. Yes, when I was commuting every day, I loved when it was the summer. Cut down the commuting time significantly.
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We did the same when our kids were little, Brian, so I forgot to mention that. And we wondered the same too. I wonder how those kids turned out. 🙂 There’s a lot of entitlement around here which is quite annoying. 🙂 Anyway, cheers to light traffic! 🙂
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Awe, I love this one Brian, such a tender and inspiring story. And to think it was riding a bus that activated your creativity. That’s wild. We lived in the suburbs and we walked to school until the 9th grade when a bus became available. I only road it a few years before getting my drivers license and access to a very old car that my sister and I shared. I love how you ended it “watch at for the big bumps in the road,” of life. Perfect. Hugs, C
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It’s funny Cheryl. I didn’t really have much of a point with this piece, just a simple memory, but a lot of readers seemed to have connected with it. Funny how that works.
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I have fond memories of the bus rides too although they weren’t as long as yours as I lived in the city. But good conversations with friends and classmates.
I do notice more kids getting driven nowadays too. I do miss the days of being able to walk to school and not worry about the things parents worry about now!
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My memories of riding the bus are generally not great, but I’m glad it was good for you. I have no memory of potholes but a big hill where it was always a question whether or not the bus would make it. We went about 1mph as the poor giant orange rectangle on wheels struggled to climb. The wintertime made it extra exciting. We never once didn’t make it, but I’ll bet the driver was sweating.
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Yes, not always nice for everyone. I had a few problems but I somehow managed to miss a lot of them. The bus had its own kind of crazy culture.
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Yes. I felt sorry for what bus drivers put up with.
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