One of the best lessons I continue to learn throughout my life is the power of failure. We all want to be successful. We want to get things right, but when we fail or make a mistake, we learn how to do things right the next time.
If there’s one thing about society that I would change with a snap of my fingers, it would be to make it so that failure came with less of a sting. Failure is often a good thing. It teaches us, but unfortunately, we’ve been bitten too many times that we run from it or try to hide from it.
I’m rerunning a blog from a number of years ago where I wrote about one of the biggest mistakes I ever made as a writer. The mistake hurt, but it taught me a valuable lesson, one that I’ve been careful to never repeat.
Let me know what you think? Can you relate? What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made on the job or at home?
“The secret of life is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.” —Paulo Coelho
“I can accept failure. Everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying.” ―Michael Jordan
“Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail.” ―Confucius
“There is no innovation and creativity without failure. Period.” ―Brene Brown
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Good advice.
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I need to remember to follow it! Ha ha
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Me too.
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I would love to snap my fingers and change this, too. I’ve just starting reading Richard Rohr’s Falling Upward, the heart of which feels to be captured in this similar-to-your-post’s-sentiment early quote: “We grow spiritually much more by doing it wrong by doing it right […] yet nothing in us wants to believe it.”
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Oh, that’s a good one. And so true. We learn from our mistakes but we hate to have to go thru it. So strange!
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Perhaps the fear of what people will say about our failures should be changed first, and everyone should allow themselves to try and fail and keep trying.
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When we eliminate that fear, it really does become a freeing exercise. It becomes about improvement!
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Oh…the MJ quote…unable to accept ‘not trying’. That’s a keeper, for sure. Thanks, Brian!😉
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Yup, definitely a keeper.
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I love the Brene Brown quote that there is no innovation and creativity without failure. I’m with you that I wish that it came with less of a sting but I think that’s what makes it so useful!
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Yea, I liked that one too. She’s spot on!
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There’s a book I bought but haven’t read yet called “Failing Forward” by John C. Maxwell. Your post reminded me to take a look at it! One of my biggest mistakes was putting my phone number in a press release for a huge event — rather than the organizer who was in charge of RSVPs.
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Ha, ha, no going back on that one. I bet you never messed up a phone number again. Ha ha, our mistakes just show us that we’re human! Thanks for sharing EA!
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I never made that mistake again, that’s for sure! Most of my typos had to do with numbers. Imagine that.
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Failure really is one of life’s best lessons. It sucks, really does, but it provides an opportunity to get back up and do it again. Michael Jordan definitely had the right attitude about it.
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I’d rather to have done and failed then to have never done at all. Failure is beyond necessary! Great post!
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I’m with you! Definitely necessary. 😎🙂😎🙂
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