I followed closely behind my brother. When he stopped and picked a row, I sat in the seat next to him. I didn’t argue, and I didn’t nitpick. My brother was only three years older, but at twelve, he was in charge. I don’t remember our parents or our older brother being there; I remember just the two of us.
I sat down and sank deep into the red velvet cushion of the movie theater seat. My feet didn’t even touch the floor. We each had our own small soda and shared a bag of buttery popcorn. The popcorn smelled so good, but he warned me not to eat it all at once. I knew what a rare treat it was to see a movie, so I made sure to take only a single popcorn kernel at a time. I didn’t want to get him mad at me.

A Buzz In The Air
The theater was dark, but I was full of expectation and excitement. First came the previews, and then the lights went out completely. The lone lights left in the building were over the exit signs. The movie was finally going to start.
Then, that iconic John Williams introduction—Dunnn! Da-da-da dunnn!—blared from the speakers. The opening words, “A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away….” rolled across the screen. I could read the crawl fine on my own, but I remember my big brother, who most times paid me no heed, whispering it to me in the dark. In that moment, we were both completely hooked.
Of course, I’m talking about the opening of Star Wars (1977), later re-titled in 1981 as Star Wars: Episode IV – A New Hope. I was lucky enough to see other movies in the theater before that, but most of those were of the Disney variety, like Bambi (1942), Robin Hood (1973), or even The Apple Dumpling Gang (1975). Going to see Star Wars was a special kind of magic.
A Long Dry Spell
The movie theater experience has changed immensely in the nearly five decades since Star Wars was released. In fact, I can count on one hand the number of movies I’ve seen in a theater in recent years. I saw F1 with Brad Pitt last summer. And then this month, I’ve been to the theater twice in the span in the past two weeks.
First, we saw Young Washington. The movie focuses on the early life of George Washington, following the ambitious 22-year-old militiaman as he navigates the dangerous Ohio Valley and inadvertently sparks the French and Indian War. A week later, we saw Christopher Nolan’s The Odyssey, the gritty adaptation of Homer’s ancient Greek poem. It follows the weary warrior Odysseus (played by Matt Damon) on a decade-long voyage home after the Trojan War as he battles monsters and his own hubris to reach his wife, Penelope, and defend his kingdom.
Oh, I’ve seen plenty of movies over the years, but most of them have been at home. The pandemic played a big part in keeping us on the couch, but I’ve also just been disappointed by Hollywood’s choices lately. Even so, there’s still something uniquely fun about getting out and going to the theater.

Tell Me A Story
Like Star Wars long ago, I didn’t really know what to expect with The Odyssey. But it turned out to be a great experience—and not just because of the buttery popcorn.
I’m a tough critic of the movie industry. I tire easily of the endless stream of horror films and superhero sequels. The movies that actually get me to put up my hard-earned money and leave the house tend to be ones with a real plot. A real soul.
For me, storytelling still wins. It doesn’t matter if it’s a blog, a book, a piece of music, or a movie. I want a story that genuinely entertains and interests me. Yeah, I like CGI and things getting blown up as much as anyone else, but I still need a leading man or woman with a compelling journey. Hello, Hollywood? Are you listening?
We need fewer empty explosions and more of the magic that makes a kid sit on the edge of a velvet seat, savoring one kernel of popcorn at a time.
What about you? What gets you out of the house and into a theater seat these days?
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Oh man, I am so jealous of your Star Wars experience. I wish I could see that movie again for the first time!
Glad you are enjoying the movies again – it seems like a cross-generational trend this year. I just read that AMC posted their first positive quarter in a long time. I think we are all longing for that feeling of being swept away, and being faced with an image so large we can’t look away to play with our phones!
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I looked it up and Star Wars was released in May. I kind of remember it being a re-release in my area . . . maybe in the winter or something. It was still new to me and I couldn’t wait to see what the buzz was all about. And yes, I’m glad to see the movies in the theater coming back. It’s such a unique experience to anything else we do. Thanks Jessica.
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Growing up, I remember going to the movies being a magical thing. But there are so few movies that interest me anymore. About ten years ago I worked part time at a theater. One of the perks was that when we weren’t working, we could go and see any movie, with a guest, for free. In the four years I worked there I think I took advantage of that twice. And I have been maybe twice since, lol. Like you, I love a good story. I find that so much more in books than movies!
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My complaint is too many Superhero movies. And crazy enough, so many horror movies, which I’m not a fan. I think there’s a way to have the action stuff and still have story … Odyssey being a perfect example. And yes, I’m still very much a book fan. Love how it takes me away.
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I love being in a movie theatre. Some pieces are just better on the big screen. I wonder if you (like me) are more critical of the movie screen because you are a writer. I often think maybe I’m too critical of the script. I mean its not like I’ve picked up an Oscar nod for any screenplay – I’m just a moviegoer in Row 12 Seat F. You know?
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It’s kind of ironic, but movies in the theater I don’t get too critical about the script. Movies and shows at home . . . oh, I’m very critical. I tend to focus heavily on the script and the power of great writing. I probably focus on it more than anything else. I need smart writing or I’m gone. There’s too many other distractions. Writers like Aaron Sorkin and others . . . have spoiled me. Ha, ha. Thanks Kiki!!!!
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Storytelling wins. Yes!! I haven’t seen The Odyssey yet so I’m glad to hear it’s worth going to.
Love that description of watching Star Wars with your brother — you are a master story teller, my friend!
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Master storyteller . . . oh pllllllleeeeaaaase Wynne. That is you. Loved your Life of Trying episode this week. Such a great lesson on life. Don’t you remember when movies like Star Wars came out. Really miss that experience and feeling. Hoping it comes back.
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I too saw The Apple Dumpling Gang in the theater and loved it 😁…oh yeah…and the whole family went to see Star Wars together. I was 7…also loved it!!!!
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A Don Knotts/Tim Conway classic. Ha, ha. If you grew up in the 70s, this movie was a must. My brother and I were so young. My parents had to be there somewhere. The theater was such a special treat for us. Popcorn. Soda. A treat from the norm.
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Back in 2020 I signed up for Disney Plus and watched all those old movies. Apple Dumpling, the original Escape to Witch Mountain, Candleshow…it was awesome.
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Love today’s technology . . . but those movies were awesome. We stumbled across Disney’s Swiss Family Robinson a couple of months ago. It was so good to go back to and watch again. Loved it. My grown kids actually liked it too! Ha, ha.
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I haven’t been to a theater in over 15 years, but I’m in full agreement about storytelling being the key to a good movie.
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It’s too $$$$ … but love the idea of getting out and seeing a movie on a big screen.
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Nice! We’re planning to see The Odyssey on Sunday.
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A great movie. It’s it a big long. And silly me … I kept misremembering portions of Odysseus’ story with Oedipus’ story. Good grief BRisn get your Greek heroes straight!! Ha ha. But overall, my wife, son, and I really liked it. Lots of great scenes.
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Thank you for that! I noticed it’s almost three hours long, but I think it’s going to be better than Horizon: An American Saga – Chapter 1. My goodness, that movie was a pain to watch.
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It was long, but it flew by. It felt shorter than some other movies I’ve seen in the past. I didn’t see Horizon in the theater . . . but had to turn it off when I saw it at home. Didn’t do anything for me . . . and I was in the mood for a good western too. Very disappointing.
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I know! I saw it in the theater and was so disappointed. I really have no idea what he was thinking.
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I had the same experience with Star Wars only I attended with my son. He was ten years old and we both were gobsmacked by the story, the effects, and the originality of it all. We each had a soda and popcorn and were in a different world. Thanks for the reminder, Brian. I have not been to a movie theater in years.
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I’m fascinated with the movie feeling. It’s almost like hearing a carnival barker. “Come one, come all, be prepared to be amazed.” Most times, the experience is just okay, but then once in awhile, you get to see something like Star Wars and you’re amazed how good the movie is. That’s what I remember.
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I also remember 2001 A Space Odyssey. It was a breakthrough move using the green screen technique . I was in high school and was totally blown away.
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⭐️🤓🍿
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🤣🤣🤣😎
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Oh, the big bro at 12, rules! Looking back at that esteemed age from today’s perspective, isn’t it ironic how much power a 12-year-old can have?
It’s been YEARS (probably before COVID) that I’ve been to a chain movie theater. I’m lucky to have a small, very fun art house theater within biking/walking distance of my home and I love going into that somewhat oldish, funky building with not the plushest of seats, but good enough for me, and settling in with my glass of wine and a small popcorn.
The last time I was there they showed previews for The Odyssey which left me feeling quite firmly that I could skip that one, at least until it streams. But you’re not the first one to hint at what I’m missing. And I snubbed Hamnet while was here, but just watched it on Netflix last night and have to admit I was totally wrong. It’s an excellent film.
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I’m thinking my parents dropped us off but I can’t believe they would’ve done that when we were that age. I know I never would’ve allowed that for my kids. And yes, my brother had all the power. A big part of my memory is me following his rules so he would take me again! Ha ha. Love arthouse theaters. And Odyssey was much better than I expected. Hamnet proves my point about the power of the theater. I streamed it last week. I really wanted to like it — but I couldn’t get into it. Now to be fair … I kept getting interrupted, I had to take a call, my smoke alarm kept going off (needed a new battery), there fireworks outside. It was just a mess. I need to watch it again. I bet I would like it. Ugh. Ha ha.
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Yes, I bet those interruptions interrupted your investment in the narrative and in the superb acting. Smoke alarms. There’s a post waiting to happen.
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The kids would all walk to the movies when I was growing up – fun Saturdays! My husband just saw The Odyssey and was blown away by this powerful movie – he told me you have to see it in the theater!
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Yes, I thought the same. The imagery was amazing!!!!
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I remember Star Wars coming out in the theatre. I was very young, so my older sister and cousins got to go first to let my parents know if it was suitable for me to see. I was finally able to go, and was amazed that the line wrapped around the building. The movie ran non-stop for well over a year, which was the most unheard of thing back then. The ads for it in the local paper got bigger and bolder every week. It was a big deal. One of those things that brings everyone together in spite of what was going on in the world around them. Thanks for the fun walk down memory lane!
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That’s what I remember too. How it was at the theater for so long! And the lines! Nothing else compared to it. Maybe Jaws and Rocky but still not the same.
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There is something magical about disappearing into a fantasy and an amazing film. I’ve only heard great things about Odyssey and can’t wait to watch it. Nolan makes such great movies – Inception in particular was mind blowing!
I wish I could’ve experienced Star Wars when it first came out. That must’ve been transformative!
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I’m embarrassed to say – I’ve never seen Inception. I’ve heard great things though. The big thing with Star Wars that’s so different now is that even though I was so young — I remember the long lines even in my small town!
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I miss the days when movie going was an event. Something lost in the era of streaming for sure!
I highly recommend Inception. It’s a slow burn but the story and emotional payoff is so satisfying!
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Brian, I want to see both of those movies! I’m like you–I want a good story. I’ve settled on some movies, at home, that were not good. The last movie I saw at the theater was “Are you there God, It’s Me Margaret?” because of its ties to my high school years!
I love epic true tales and stories–compelling hero journeys (and failure stories that end in hope and faith!).
I’ll never forget seeing Star Wars! And…Raiders of the Lost Ark! The movie, Annie!
Thank you for this post–love it! By the way, did you like Young Washington and The Odyssey? I want to see both of them!
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Oh Young Washington and The Odyssey were great. I wanted to see Washington simply because it wasn’t a superhero movie. It very much focused on learning from failure. There’s one scene that I criticized afterward for its marvel superhero quality — but it was there and gone. Overall it was very good. Gave me a deeper appreciation for Washington. And odyssey— I’m not always a Greek mythology fan, but it gets your attention and doesn’t let go. Great performances by all the actors. It will win many awards.
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🥰 thank you!!!
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Great memories. Shortly after our first child was born, we traveled to visit my parents. I was tired with a new baby. My parents babysat while we went to the movies to see Indiana Jones. Wow.
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Oh wow, that’s a great story unto itself. Hmmm, no baby, and then seeing the spectacle of Indiana jones. That’s awesome.
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It was! Best to you, Brian.
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Hollywood isn’t doing movies like they used to anymore. We don’t do theatre here a lot but movies that get me glued to the TV and intelligence heist or action movies… And a good romcom with amazing conversations in it.
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Yes, I’m with you. I’m fine with action — just need to some strong intelligent writing!😎😎
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Now that’s another thing. Intelligent writing.
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Yup, we do need this, “We need fewer empty explosions and more of the magic that makes a kid sit on the edge of a velvet seat, savoring one kernel of popcorn at a time.”
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I’m obviously not movie directors target audience. It would be nice though to see them focus as on plot and story as they do explosions and special effects. Ha ha!
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Fun memory, Brian! We only shell out the cash for action movies like Mission Impossible and that latest Top Gun movie. Those are the sorts that ought to be seen on the big screen, we decided. And, yeah, I am so over the super hero movies. I prefer something with intellect, which is why we opt for clever TV shows instead.
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I like superhero movies like anyone but it just gets to be too much! I get critical of the poor writing and no real planning. Ugh. It’s like the movie companies come together and say: what can we blow up today! 🤣🤣😎😎😎😎
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Go to YouTube and search Ryan George Pitch Meeting Fantastic Four. You’ll find someone agrees with you. (Ryan picks apart plot holes in movies. It’s funny.)
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Ohh, that’s too funny! I’m not alone! Ha ha .
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I love to go to the movies, but it really has to be something good to get me out to the theater with so many streaming options. Movies we saw in the theater: “Project Hail Mary,” “Michael,” “The Mandalorian and Grogu,” “Supergirl,” “The Devil Wears Prada 2,” “The Super Mario Galaxy Movie,” and “Disclosure Day.” There’s just something about going to the movies vs watching it on a screen in your living room etc where you can be interrupted for whatever reason. Plus the snacks at the theater are usually way better!
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It’s a shared experience. I love that we have more freedom of selection and streaming at home … but the theater is such a great experience. I hope it doesn’t go away! 🍿🍿🤣😎😎😎
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I’m like you, Brian. I rarely go to movie theaters anymore…in fact, I’ve seen a grand total of one movie in the theater since moving to Wisconsin (“Gladiator 2” in Dec. 2024). That’s once in four years…yikes. I chalk it up to the availability of streaming, as well as just being too damn busy most weekends.
Having said that, “The Odyssey” is high on my list (though I probably won’t see it until it lands on Netflix or another platform).
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I wasn’t planning to see Odyssey in the theater. It was a nice happenstance. Our son was home and we wanted something to do together. I’m glad we went. I missed the experience!!!🍿🍿😎😎😎
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I will never forget seeing Star Wars when it opened! I recently moved to a town with a movie theater after years of not having one within a hundred miles, so I am excited to go again—and they make it easy—every movie is only 5 dollars per person at all showings every Monday!
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We have a couple theaters nearby but when I think about the movie experience I still think of the small one where I grew up. I remember the line to get into Star Wars and thinking it was going to be too crowded. Ha, ha.
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