Four or five years ago, I walked into the cafeteria and scanned the room for a seat. I saw my coworker Jim and walked toward his table. As I got closer, I noticed that he looked agitated. Diego was right in his face. I set my lunch down and took a seat next to them, smirking. I knew lunch was going to be interesting.
Jim grew up in New York City and still spoke with a heavy New York accent. Diego was quieter, but his affinity for Boston came through in every conversation. Both were avid baseball fans — the obsessive kind who can recite the batting average and career highs of some obscure player from twenty years ago. To add fuel to an already blazing fire, Jim loved the Yankees and Diego loved the Red Sox. The two teams, and their fanbases, have zero love for each other.

With both baseball teams fighting neck and neck for first place, I figured lunch would be entertaining if nothing else. Boy, was I in for a shock.
Instead of arguing about baseball, they were locked in a heated debate over the English Premier League rivalry between Manchester United and Liverpool. Jim roots for Manchester United and I learned that Diego is a die-hard fan of Liverpool.
After lunch, I looked it up. The rivalry runs deep, rooted in the intense economic and industrial competition between the two neighboring cities dating back to the Industrial Revolution. It has produced some of the most dramatic matches in soccer history. In all-time competitive play, the teams have faced off 246 times, with Manchester United leading the head-to-head record with 93 wins to Liverpool’s 82, alongside 71 draws.
For an American comparison, this is the Yankees versus the Red Sox, the Green Bay Packers against the Chicago Bears, or the Philadelphia Eagles taking on the New York Giants. It‘s the Hatfields versus the McCoys, the MacDonalds against the MacLeods, or the Montagues and Capulets in fiction. It’s win-or-go-home fandom.

Getting a free kick
I watched as the two spent the next hour arguing and fighting with each other. At one point, I tried to interject and bring up the Yankees and Red Sox series, but they weren’t hearing it. I figured at the very least I’d get a “Let’s go Yankees” or Go Sox” but it was to no avail. They pulled the conversation right back to soccer. I kept up with the conversation where I could, but I was definitely out of my depth. My knowledge of English Premier League soccer is spotty at best.
I tried a different route of attack by sing-songing the soccer chant Olé, Olé, Olé.
They gave me the dirtiest of looks. They might have been rooting for different teams but there was no mocking of their very serious love of the game. In reality, though, they could’ve been speaking a different language. I was lost. Oh, I know a little about soccer but they were way over my head. I turned my attention back to my lunch and ate in silence.
While kids in Europe and South America are born with a soccer ball in their cribs, I came to the sport later in life. We played soccer in gym class in elementary school, but the teacher’s heart was never really in it; he was a volunteer (American) football coach. Later, my high school cut soccer from its program to save money. In college, I caught a few soccer games on campus, but mostly just went along with my dorm mates to hang out and meet girls.

Taking a corner kick!
Soccer has exploded in the U.S. over the past fifty years, but it still has a long way to go. America though is about to get a firsthand primer.
The 2026 FIFA World Cup kicks off this Thursday with an opening ceremonies followed by the first match between Mexico and South Africa at the historic Estadio Azteca in Mexico City. The tournament will run for 39 days across 16 host cities, concluding with the Final on Sunday, July 19, at MetLife Stadium in East Rutherford, New Jersey.
I’m eager to get a close-up view of what we’ve been missing. I’ll be keeping a close eye on the tournament favorites: Spain, France, England, Brazil, and Argentina.
Playing to the final whistle
Like many people, my interest in soccer grew when the U.S. Women’s National Team won the FIFA Women’s World Cup in 1999. The iconic tournament final set global viewership and attendance records for women’s sports. Of course that was the game where U.S. defender Brandy Chastain scored the winning penalty, then spontaneously dropped to her knees and ripped off her jersey in celebration.
Outside of that, my closest look at soccer came during the 2010 World Cup when Spain defeated the Netherlands 1-0 in South Africa. Throughout much of that tournament, my daughter and I happened to be traveling along the coast of Spain. The excitement was fascinating to witness. Our Spanish guides and people on the street took us in and let us celebrate with them.
It was incredible to see how the entire country ground to a halt on match days. It was like fan interest in the U.S. when the Summer Olympics rolls around every four years, but on a whole different level.
I’ve been a casual international soccer fan ever since. I certainly don’t know the players, teams, or storylines well, and I am usually at the mercy of the sports announcers to tell me what’s happening. I have to say, it’s a new experience for me, but it’s fun to follow. At least I finally know what offside means.
And yes — just like in Major League Baseball — I’m still not a fan of the Yankees, the Red Sox, Manchester United, or Liverpool!
Here’s to the World Cup.
Will you be watching the World Cup? Who are you rooting for? What are you most looking forward to seeing?

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Oh my goodness! Daughter Delaney was in Spain when they won the World Cup in 2010, too! She still says it was one of THE most surreal experiences in her life thus far. 🤪😎🤪
Thanks for the giggle as I imagined you “sing-songing” with your soccer focused friends. Ole, indeed! 😂
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Too funny about Spain. My only regret was that we were back in the U.S. for the final gsme. Would’ve loved to be there for the win. And the Olé, Olé, Olé — I thought I was going to get punched. This is a big corporate cafeteria, lots of people coming and going, but they did not care for my joke!! Ha ha. I guess that’s the one thing Yankees and Sox fans can agree on. Yikes! 🤣🤣🤣😎😎
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Hilarious! Great story, Brian! 😂❤️😂
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My friend, Eric, is a huge soccer fan. It’s always so much more interesting watching soccer with him because he has all the stories. Great story about Jim and Diego – those loyalties run deep! Happy Monday, Brian!
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I’m the same way with certain Friends and my brother in law … they know so much about the game, it makes it more interesting!!! Bet it’s going to be the talk of Seattle tge next few weeks!!!
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He scores! Goooooaaaalllllllll!
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The sports season never ends, but your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s do!
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Always something to cheer — root for! Ha ha.
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I know nothing about soccer. But I think I will catch some soccer fever during this tournament. That’s a amazing that the entire country ground to a halt during match days. Your description reminded me of my college days at the University of Washington. The entire campus stopped each day from noon to 1 p.m. for General Hospital. It was during the days of Luke and Laura and Scorpio. The university cancelled all classes that hour because everyone was hovering in the student union building watching TV. Can you imagine changing class schedules for a soap opera?
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Everywhere you went people were around the tv watching the game. Like the Super Bowl … but it seemed more! It was fun to be a part. And no I can’t see a college doing that today. Ha ha.
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That’s so exciting for you and your daughter to experience it in person.
When my kids were in elementary school, my son was friends with Scorpio’s daughter. I told Scorpio all about it and that my college roommate and I named our goldfish Scorpio. He wanted to avoid all attention and didn’t look happy! Good for him.
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Ooh that’s so funny. I remember Scorpio. Tristan Rogers just died last summer. Wow.
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The 2006 World Cup was my introduction to soccer. It fueled an obsession that really took off when Portland landed an MLS team. My interest has waned a bit in recent years, mainly because I’ve gotten back into baseball…but there’s room for multiple sports love in my heart. I will be watching the World Cup too!
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I’m not sure how far the US will be sticking around but it will be fun to watch some of the other countries too! And yes, I’m like you. I pay attention to the Philadelphia Union!
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My son is a huge fan of soccer. Ask him anything about soccer and you’ll get the answer right away. He’s eagerly waiting for the start of the matches. 🤩⚽️
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My youngest son too. They’re so good at the level. Will be interesting to watch.
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Thanks for the reminder to not bring up the games cuz you never know what hornets nest I’m gonna be poking at! 😂 FIFA madness is sweeping our city, as a host city, and my morning commute is definitely more packed. It is nice to see the fandom and how it all brings fans and communities together – hopefully in a civil fashion! 😊
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Philadelphia has a few games too. We’re far enough in the burbs that I haven’t noticed an uptick yet but I’m sure there will be one. I know tix were out of this world. A friend tried to get them until he saw that it was the equivalent of a down payment on a house. Yikes! Yes, I’ll be paying attention but I’m definitely not a hardcore fan!!!
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The tickets are ridiculous! Thank goodness for the tv and Internet.
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We were out a couple of weekends ago and they were raffling off tix to one of the games in Philadelphia. My son joked that if he won he’d sell the tix. Might not have made much of a difference in his grad school tuition but probably would’ve covered rent for a month or two. Crazy prices!!!
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That is a great idea! Let’s hope it happens!
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