My endless list

A few things on my mind.

—Nails on a chalkboard. I have a pet peeve: People who drive without cleaning the snow off their cars. Snow turns into ice and when on a moving vehicle, it often impairs vision or flies off and ends badly for other drivers. It’s that simple. Everyone has to deal with it. Pull up your big boy or big girl pants and take care of it.

—Fight or flight. If you had to pick one to be your spirit animal: the head-strong, straight-forward bull or the amazingly fast gazelle, capable of reaching speeds up to 100 km/60mph?

Here’s the question, put another way. Which is better, facing conflict head-on or running from it?

A few weeks ago, I agreed to a strategy in a meeting. However, when I got into the weeds of the project, I ended up going with a different plan that I liked better. Oh, I meant well in my original decision. I have to admit though that I love that the second option avoided a bunch of hassles with the powers-that-be. Was I running for cover?

Oh I’m sure I chose the path with the least resistance, but sometimes the easy way out . . . is really the easy way out, right?

—Moving Mountains. Wisdom comes in many shapes and forms, but when you see something that makes sense, you soak it in. “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —Winston Churchill.

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—Please pass the salt. I find Economics to be an amusing subject. Let me explain. It’s the simple things like Supply and Demand. The foundational Economic principle holds that as prices rise, supply increases while demand decreases; conversely, lower prices boost demand but reduce supply.

For example, last weekend we went to three places looking for road salt to throw on the driveway. Three places. We couldn’t find it anywhere. We came up empty. Zilch. Nada. Nothing. In the summer and fall, the stores couldn’t have given salt away.

In a few weeks, the salt will go back to being useless. In the meantime, however, I was at the hardware store’s mercy. I picked up some yesterday and probably would’ve paid a small ransom for it.

Yes, the perfect example of Supply and Demand and I was the sucker!

And oh yea, the weather people are talking about more snow and icy rain this coming weekend. Yikes!

—Getting the old ticker pumping! We all need things that inspire us. You might be inspired by a piece of art, an interesting piece of dialogue in a movie, or an athletic feat on TV. Think these Winter Olympics. I might be inspired by a turn of a phrase or something I’ve found in a book. The differences don’t matter. Personal taste doesn’t even matter. What matters is that we all need something that gets our heart beating.

Thump a thump, thump a thump, thump a thump.

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—Now or ever. “It’s better to move forward at a snail’s pace, than backward at any pace.”  —Rhonda Begos. One step at a time. I think I can, I think I can, I think I can.

—When did that happen. I was running an errand the other day and turned on the radio. The DJ announced that the station was playing an hour of oldies hits. I automatically thought of the 50s, 60s, and 70s. Au contraire, she was talking about the 80s, 90s and 2000s. Umm, hello, when did the classic music I love turn into old geezer music?

Whats more, when did I turn into an oldie?

–Second chances. Developers in a nearby county where I live are moving forward with plans to demolish a 900,000 square foot mall. In its place, they plan to build an open air retail and mixed use space. There’s talks too of a new medical office complex and apartments. I’m no land management planner. It’s boring stuff to me. If I were one of the developers, though, I would raise my sights.

They have a chance for a second start.

Heck, it’s like getting your own personal makeover. Wanna be a movie star? Wanna be refreshed and feeling good? Wanna have a new perspective on life?

The sky is the limit.

—Dressed to the nines. The world is a business casual world now. It’s quarter zips and button- down blouses for everyone.

There’s a small part of me though that misses wearing a jacket and tie. I miss a crisp blue suit and a bright red tie that pops and looks larger than life. I miss the boost of confidence.

I miss looking good.

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—Keepin it real. I learned young about being honest and truthful. I learned that you treat everyone — the bank president to the janitor —with respect and dignity.

The message drilled home was a simple one: say what you mean, mean what you say and everything else will work its way out in the wash. Yes, everything comes out in the wash.

Thank goodness for a little truth and Tide, All, and Gain and all the other laundry detergents.

—Bright spots. Here’s two thoughts to end this rumbling, bumbling, stumbling, rambling post.

  • “Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things work out.” —Art Linkletter
  • “In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: It goes on.” — Robert Frost

Make the most of today’s opportunities and challenges and forget the rest!


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    1. Oh my goodness, that’s not right. How is that. 35 years. No way. In another comment, I wrote down some of the songs that are turning 30 this year. It’s crazy to think about. Oldies to me is 50s and 60s, not 70s, 80s, 90s. I must really be ancient now. Ha, ha.

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  1. About 15 years ago I heard the Stones on the oldies station. I’ve not recovered. I miss people dressing for things. Don’t get me wrong….it’s a writing day for me and I will be in sweats….but yeah. I miss going out to dinner who looked like they should be eating a meal that cost 75$ a person

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    1. Oldies are meant for oldies . . . not the stones. Ha, ha. Darned DJs! Don’t make me feel old. Ha, ha. I get it sweats for writing. But I see folks wearing pajamas in the store. It always blows my mind. Really? You went outside looking like that? Ha, ha. I know I sound so old. Ha, ha.

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  2. These kinds of brain dumps feel freeing, don’t they?
    Yes, I hate when people don’t clean the snow off their car and they blind everyone driving behind them!
    In fight or flight, I’m a fighter – please don’t startle me, I might accidentally punch you.
    Also, when did that happen, 80s, 90s, and 2000s music is now oldies?
    Bright spots – great way to end your post. 👍🏻 Make the best of today!

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    1. It is freeing. I had another post planned . . . but it just didn’t feel right. I had this one in the hopper and hit the publish button. Love just venting and writing down some of the things that have been floating in my brain. I’m not sure these thoughts all make sense to everyone else, but it’s a fun way to go every once in a while. Ha, ha.

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  3. I especially like the quotes at the end of your post. Life does go on, no matter what we try to do about it. When we realize that, God opens the world to us.

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  4. Whoa – that Art Linkletter quote is good. Loved this post, Brian. I’m a flight kind of person when it comes to conflict. I agree, it’s better to avoid the hassles than get stuck fighting the battles!

    Loved all the wisdom in this post!

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    1. I hate, hate, hate conflict. I think I hate it more now as I get older. Oh, I stand up when I need to, but I tire of the hassle. I have a friend who thrives off it. Looks for it. Meanwhile it steals my energy. I get frustrstated that some folks force it. Why? Why be like that. Ugh. I guess that’s just the way the world works.

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  5. I love these as usual, our mall is slowly coming back to life in a new form, housing, coffee shop, some stores, nice grocery, great walkable spaces, etc. I love that they’re using it, providing more house, already have lots of parking with that huge lot, etc. glad they are reimagining it and giving teens another place to hang out )

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  6. Yes, yes, yes–clean the snow off your car. And don’t get me going about oldies. Sixties pop, I can accept. I was a mere child then. But anything that was popular when I was in my 30s or 40s cannot be an oldie.

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    1. I’m with you on sixties. I get that. It makes sense. 70s, 80s, 90s oldies . . . no way. Ha, ha. At the risk of making us both feel old, these songs all turn 30 this year: “Walking on Sunshine” (Katrina and the Waves), “Material Girl” (Madonna), “Take On Me” (a-ha), “Money for Nothing” (Dire Straits), “Shout” (Tears for Fears), “Don’t You (Forget About Me)” (Simple Minds), “We Built This City” (Starship), “How Will I Know” (Whitney Houston), “We Don’t Need Another Hero” (Tina Turner), “Raspberry Beret” (Prince), “Addicted to Love” (Robert Palmer), “Home Sweet Home” (Mötley Crüe). Oh my goodness. Ugh.

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  7. I’m still laughing about the “oldies” being from the 80’s and 90’s. Oh my. As to your fight or flight question? I’m no gazelle.. I’ll be the old mule blocking the way. Look for me – I’ll be holding whatever ground I can. Especially now…IYKYK! 😉😉😉

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  8. Nothing chaps my hide more than hearing “Smells Like Teen Spirit” on the classic rock station. When I think of classic rock, I picture Led Zeppelin or Thin Lizzy. Pink Floyd. Lynyrd Skynyrd. NOT Nirvana!!

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    1. Okay, get a load of this one. Kurt Cobain’s daughter, Frances Bean Cobain, is now older than he was when he died. She’s 33, he died when he was 27. And yes, I agree Teen Spirit is not oldies. Ha, ha. It can never be oldies. Sorry not sorry.

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  9. It’s one thing to stand up to conflict (I hate to, but it is a necessary evil.) but it is also a sign of wisdom to find compromise within conflict so that everyone can move forward.

    I also miss the dressier years of yore. When I look at old B&W images of just regular people (teachers, retail salespeople, church goers, etc) no matter what their socio-economic level was, they all dressed so much nicer than we do today.

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    1. So you’re telling me that if I came to visit, I wouldn’t see Rangewriter walking around the grocery store or your town in pajama bottoms and fuzzy slippers. Ha, ha, when I run my errands, I see that all the time. I swear to God. Ha, ha. Definitely not me. And yes, I’m with you. I see old pics of my dad and he used to wear a tie and penny loafers and he never had any spare $$$ in his life. It was a different time.

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