I posted every week in 2025 about three things that made me grateful. I started my Big Three posts on a whim. I wasn’t even sure how long I would keep at it. I half expected the series to last after a month of two. If I had known that I was going to keep at it, I probably would’ve come up with a different headline.
However, I found something to appreciate through thick and thin.
I thought it would be challenging, but the ideas came to me all the time. I found things to be grateful strolling through the grocery aisle. I found other items for my gratitude journal waiting for work calls. They came out of the blue.
What started as a chore became a fun practice.
Here’s what I learned from the experience.

–Little things really are big things. A smile, laugh, or a thank you really go a long way.
–I found the practice increased the positivity around me and helped me an adopt a more optimistic outlook. It trained my brain to see the good things.
–I came away more resilient since I knew that after every knock down I would still be able to find something to lift me back up off the ground. And boy did I need that.
–Starting my day with a positive mindset made me more motivated to tackle my to-do list and take on new challenges.

My favorite blessing of the year: The Big Three: Good boy! and being grateful for pets everywhere a few months after our own dog had moved onto Doggy Heaven.
So what’s next with my Big Three column? I’m taking a break from publicly posting my weekly Big Three for now, but I have a feeling they’ll make a comeback one day. We’ll see.
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“Little things really are big things.” So true. Giving and receiving a smile and a friendly greeting can make a big difference.
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That’s my new motto. Little things really are big things. A reminder to myself to keep things in perspective. Less about size. And more about importance.
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I always looked forward to your Big Three. 💞💞💞
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I’ll probably be bringing them back. I just needed to slow things down a little. Thanks for the feedback.
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I love your perspective. Truly. Everything changes when wearing different glasses. Goodness comes to goodness.
Thank you for all of your reminders. I truly love being here. ❤️😁
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Love how you phrased that — goodness comes to goodness. I forget that sometimes, but it’s so true!!!!
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Love these takeaways from the Big three. Amazing how a simple practice can transform our outlook. Thanks for showing us how.
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Oh you’re so right Wynne. A simple practice, but it comes with some big rewards. Thanks for reading.
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I pray that you will continue to look at the blessings in your life as we all should. I thank Jesus for every day He allows me to carry His message to others. I have grown to look forward to those posts of yours and hope you don’t wait to long to bring them back.
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Yes, I’ll probably bring them back. I just needed to slow the pace of my postings a bit. A little chance to breathe and they’ll be back!!!
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It’s always good to take a breather at times.
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Very cool that this was a goal and thanks for sharing your success (and positivity).
I saw a sign at my doctor’s office this morning that said “one small positive thought in the morning can change your whole day” and it sounds like that is so true! Now, you’ve made me think about how I can remember to incorporate this into my routine as well.
Also as an update to your earlier post about the weather – it snowed about 6 inches over the past two days!
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One small positive thought really can make a difference. And yes, it snowed here too. Of course, it might have had more to do with the time of year then any of the other factors I mentioned. Ha, ha. But yes, we have three to four inches on the ground too. With the temps in the low teens, it looks like it’s going to stick around for a while too. Ha, ha.
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Any reminder we get to place gratitude first and foremost in our hearts and minds is something to be grateful for, Brian!
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Well said Bruce. Love it.
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⭐️🤓🙏🏻
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Thanks so much!
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It really is the small things that matters🥰
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And yet we laugh at the small things. But they matter! Ha, ha. They really do make a huge difference. Thanks for reading!
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Ah! I had the same reaction as Chris! Little things…becoming big things. So perfectly put, Brian. Thank you! ❤️🙂❤️
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Aww, thanks Vicki. And it’s so funny — those little things really are right in front of our noses. Ha, ha.
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Yes…but you’re extra adept at catching them! 🥰
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This is the key to living a good life, “It trained my brain to see the good things.”!!!!!
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I’m getting there — slowly. Ha ha, need time for things to get through my thick skull. Ha ha.
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Good for you for sticking with it a whole year! As an eternal optimist, I always appreciate gratitude posts.
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Comes naturally for you Mark!!’ Ha ha! Love it.
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I think it was a wonderful initiative and I really enjoyed it, a year is a long time to stay committed and you did and benefited from it, a bonus!
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8760 hours! 525,600 minutes! Or 31,536,000 seconds! Puts things into perspective. Ha ha. 🤣🤣🤣😎😎😎😎
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“Little things really are big things.” This captures so nicely why practicing gratitude is so powerful, uplifting and healing. Thanks for sharing your Big Threes with us in 2025, Brian! 💕
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My mantra so far this year Ab. Focus on the little things. Ha ha!
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Your posts were contagious and had many of us looking for little things to be thankful for. Well done! I hope you throw one of these posts in from time to time. Just to remind us. 😀
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Ha, ha, thank you Darlene! I really appreciate that. I’ll have to think about that. I stopped it to give me more time to work on my novel. I’m hoping to post a little less this year too. I worried as well about some of those posts being too Pollyanna Positive without a sense of the real world. It’s good to know that wasn’t the case!!! Thank you!!!
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I love the the things you learned, Brian! I enjoyed reading your gratitude lists when I was able. Isn’t it an amazing feeling to live with a posture of gratitude?
Your favorite blessing is precious. I understand this.
May your 2026 be filled with many moments and “columns” of goodness, my friend! ❣️🙏🏻
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Columns of goodness! I like that. Let’s hope so. I know I sure need that. Ha ha! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🤣🤣🤣😎😎😎😎
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Ha! We’ll you got it already, friend!! 😁😁🤗
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I enjoyed your big three posts. They were filled with positive message and a reminder to be grateful for the little things.
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Yea, I may have to think about bringing them back! Ha ha!
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Yes, I agree! 😉
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I have SO enjoyed these posts. I look forward to a comeback.
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Yea, give me some time. I suspect the Big Three posts will make a comeback . . . at some point. Maybe with a different title. Ha, ha.
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You will know if and when, and I’ll be here, no matter the difference.
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Aww, thank you Jennie! Much appreciated! 🙏🏼🙏🏼😎
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