Retailers have long used the phrase Black Friday. They like to create anticipation for sale prices.
For the upcoming 2025 Black Friday, U.S. online sales are estimated to reach between $11.7 and $12.5 billion, with global sales reaching $80–82 billion. Discounts are expected to average 25–30%, with some tech products seeing up to a 40% discount.
I understand that it’s the start of the Christmas shopping season. However, I’ve never cared much for the Black Friday name. It sounds like Black Death or something. One signifies a sale, the other was a pandemic that occurred in Europe from 1346 to 1353. In fact, Black Death ranks as one of the most fatal pandemics in human history. It killed as many as 50 million people.

I’ve just never understood the comparison. I’m a natural curmudgeon. Here’s a few other things that I’ve never understood:
–Mean, angry people.
–Why financial literacy (stocks and investments, inflation, interest rates); home and car maintenance, and time management are not taught more in high school? Oh, it’s there some. And I don’t want to come across as a stick-in-the-mud, we-did-it-better-in-my-day, sourpuss, because frankly yesteryear wasn’t all that great either. It just feels like many people could benefit from the skills.
–Rude medical professionals. I had an experience this week with two rude doctors. I’m sure they were tired. I’m sure they were pulled in a million different directions. I actually have sympathy for them both, but somewhere along the journey they lost focus on why they sought out a medical degree. They lost focus on their calling.
–Bitcoin and NFTs.
–How Bluetooth or GPS work?
–Why days feel long, but years are shorter than we realize. Why is that?

–Why the slowest traffic is called rush hour?
–Coldplay.
–How electricity works.
–Spiders and bugs. Nope, no can do. Don’t get them.
–People who don’t understand the difference between your and you’re; there, their, and they’re.

–Why chocolate isn’t considered good for you when it raises so many people’s spirits?
–Why spending a little time on technology is fine, but overuse can strain relationships and increase stress?
–Eggplant.
–We know that it’s better to try than to never take your shot, but why do we still procrastinate?
–Slow drivers.
–Three people across on the sidewalk or trail with little regard for others.
–Bullies.

–The difference between meters to yards. Heck the entire metric system versus the U.S. system and our measurement of inches, feet, yards, and miles.
–How Artificial Intelligence works.
–There are more empty houses across the globe than there are homeless individuals. Ugh.
–Jargon and the overuse of acronyms in the workplace.
–Why doesn’t glue stick to the inside of the bottle?
Who’s with me?
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This made me smile this morning. Eggplant – I’ve never tried in my 83 years on this planet nor do I intend to. Glue sticking to the inside of the bottle – never occurred to me. I did go shopping on black Friday – ONCE. I went to buy a $7.00 dog bed and wound up spending over a hundred bucks. ‘No more for me.
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Oh I’m so glad that I’m in good company! Ha ha. Just can’t eat it. And I’ve gone shopping on Black Friday a few times over the years but it’s not my favorite thing to do. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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This made me chuckle, and I am 100% with you, Brian! I despise the metric system and more things you listed. Black Friday seriously needs a new name. Especially with the recent pandemic still in mind. Say no to Coldplay. Oh, I could go on but that’s enough… 😂
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You gotta laugh. Life is too short.
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Yes indeed, Brian, I’v laughed at myself just today for something I said… 😂
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Yes, I agree with 99.99999999% of what you’ve said. So now you’re wondering what the .00000000 (or so)% is? It’s coldplay. I don’t know what that means.
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It’s a rock group. Not my favorite.
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I guess they wouldn’t be happy to know I’ve never heard of them.
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There, their, and they’re–I actually got them mixed up in a response to someone else’s post the other day. I was mortified. As for Black Friday, I have to work, but I agree with you it’s a terrible name.
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Yes, i complain about people using the wrong there and I still get it wrong at times too. Ha ha, D’uh Brian!!! Ha ha.
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Oh, Brian, you’re a gem!
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Ha ha, you made me laugh Joy. A gem huh. There are your precious gemstones like diamonds, rubies, sapphire, and emeralds. The priceless ones! Then you have your run of the mill gemstones like quartz and onyx. I’m definitely more of a quartz. Ha ha. Thanks Joy!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😎😎
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I haven’t been to a black Friday sale in decades; I avoid riots.
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When we had young kids, I cared more about Black Friday. Now … not so much.
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If you or anyone else would like to do some good from 11/28 onward, you might consider this: From 11/28 to 12/2 many are not shopping at Home Depot, Amazon, or Target—why? Because they support those who are disassembling the country.
Instead, small businesses need support, and stand with our communities.
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Yup! Well said Dr. Stein.
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I’m with you on Black Friday. I got hit by a pick up truck going 35 mph as a pedestrian once upon a time on a Black Friday while I was in college.
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Oh that’s right. That had to be horrible. I bet it was a Black and Blue Friday. That had to be a horrifying experience.
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I think it was more horrifying for my parents who got the phone call while I was home on Thanksgiving break! At least that’s how I’d feel now!
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I gotta chat with you about eggplants. You’re missing out, Brian. So many great recipes!
All kidding aside, I’m with you on Black Friday. I avoid it like the plague and especially after seeing some of the horrifying mobs and crowd crushes that take place. I think it conflicts with the idea of Thanksgiving and the timing is unfortunate.
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Oh yes, definitely contrary to the themes behind Thanksgiving. Ha ha, get get get as much as you can while you can. Ugh.
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I do love to stand in lines and bond with the other people and get coffee and chat, and I guess I am anomaly, and should do this as a side job and get paid by the minute as a line place holder. but I don’t love aggressive, pushy crowds. I do love chocolate, but milk chocolate, not as sophisticated, and not as good for you as dark chocolate, but life is short. and I do like Coldplay, just because. and eggplant.
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I see a side hustle here Beth!!! Maybe I’ll be your first shopping client!!!🤣🤣🤣😎😎😎
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That’s quite a list and Black Friday does have an ominous connotation, doesn’t it.
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Ha ha, kind of funny! 😄 😎😎
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Watching adult fight over toys or any other object, is funny, yes. 😕
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Mrs. B and I go out on Black Friday to buy wreaths and other outdoor decor, have some breakfast, and just take it all in. We very rarely need to shop for any items…we just like to keep the tradition our families began going. In other news, we both also like Coldplay.😁
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Yes, I like to go out to eat or maybe window shop, but nothing real urgent. We certainly don’t have anything that we must get. Best to have a good attitude about things.
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I can get on board with a lot of these, but not Coldplay! “A Rush of Blood to the Head” is brilliant. I can (and have, and do) listen to that album over and over again.
I just learned this week that today is known as Blackout Wednesday because so many people flock to bars the evening before Thanksgiving. I’ve never done so myself, but the idea is a helluva lot more appealing than actually going shopping on Black Friday!
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Okay, okay, maybe I need to go easier on Coldplay. I’ve been surprised by all the Coldplay love I’m hearing. I guess I need to give them a second listen. Ha, ha. And yes, I hadn’t heard of the phrase Blackout Wednesday, but I knew it was a big bar and liquor store day. I assumed that it was all the college kids coming home . . . but who am I kidding. It’s not just college kids. Ha, ha.
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You have a great list, Brian!!
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🤣🤣😎😎😎😎
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Love the list – especially your thoughts on rude doctors!
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Ugh, they are the worst. I don’t think they realize how much their bad behavior affects the outcome or at least the mood of their patients. Just crazy.
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Yes, I agree! I realize government and insurance oversight has a play in their treatment plans, but I think the needs of the patient should come first!
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