I yawned. Human Resources sent out a note to every manager in the division letting us know where our team stood in the company’s required training. I knew that I was behind so I set out to take the required classes and be a good example for my team.
Nothing like a little warning note to wake you up and get you moving.
I was behind in three trainings: two online ones that dealt with changes in our business and a final one, an in-person class on leading a diverse team. I cranked out the first two in no time. I groaned thinking about the leadership one. I scheduled it for the next Friday. It was exactly what I liked to avoid: spending precious time with a bunch of strangers, gathered in a circle, singing Kumbaya.

Really, this is how we’re going to spend our time?
When I got to the class the next week, we divided up into small groups for an ice-breaker. We had to chat with a team mate and then give a brief presentation to the rest of the class on their background, past work experiences, and what they hoped to get from the class. And then we traded spots and the other person presented.
When the facilitator asked if we understood the assignment, I had to fight from saying, “just shoot me now.” Okay, okay, I was smart enough to keep my thoughts to myself, but the introvert in me was clawing at the door to get out of the room.
The rest of the course was spent on role playing scenarios where we were put in challenging work situations and had to work our way through them. It certainly wasn’t your mother or father’s leadership class. In one scenario, I had to play the role of the leader and needed to work with a high achiever who was leading the team in sales and was a minority, but was a past victim of racist behavior and felt he wasn’t getting enough opportunities for future advancement. I remember stammering my way through an answer.
I’m speaking broadly about the class, and yes, I would love to pooh-pooh it. I would love to bad mouth it, but I learned a lot about my peers and myself and how to deal with sensitive situations. What’s more, it was good to hear from others who didn’t think and act like myself.
Keeping an open mind
I went in hating the class and came out raving about its lessons. I think of that that class when I see Diversity, Equity, & Inclusion (DEI) classes and programs mentioned in the news. They seem to be in the news every other week now. In one of his first moves on Monday, President Trump issued executive orders slashing diversity, equity and inclusion programs and ordering Federal employees of those offices to be put on paid administrative leave.
It’s the corporate world too. Meta joined Ford, McDonald’s and Walmart and pulled the plug on key DEI programs early this month. Conservatives, including “supposed” Christian leaders like Franklin Graham have also pressured companies and universities to move away from DEI policies. (I would think the Christian message would be justice, equality and fairness for all, but what do I know? I’m just a lapsed Catholic.)
While many firms have balked at DEI, others including Apple and Costco have held firm. In particular, Costco has maintained that its DEI initiatives have helped it attract top talent, improve employee morale, and better understand diverse customer bases, which they see as crucial for business success, and have contributed to a positive company culture and employee satisfaction.

The devil is in the details
Here’s the thing: Instead of getting rid of DEI, why aren’t more companies offering DEI related training and programs. Yes, I hated that class. Yes, I cursed my time away from desk. But, here’s the thing conservative folks miss: Diversity of thought and experience are good things. I’ve seen too many times teams with similar backgrounds and educations stumbling over small problems because they fell into the trap of narrow thinking that would have been easily solved with a involvement of folks who might not have looked, acted or thought the same way. The team in short missed the forest from the trees.
And yes, I still believe hiring for merit. But I also believe in expanding that pool so that it’s not a small group, but a bigger one.
The irony gets even thicker. Politicians this week promoted the life of Martin Luther King Jr. They put out press releases promoting his messages of respect and justice. If they believe so much in his messages then why are they the same folks fighting DEI. I’m not sure I get it.

DEI makes a difference
When you have people of the same backgrounds, you get similar responses. Some of the best teams I’ve been on had men and women; heterosexual and LGBTQ; and people of different colors and races, who brought their multitude of experiences to bear.
From my perspective, DEI helps create a more inclusive and respectful environment, improves employee satisfaction, and has helped employees be more productive and innovative. It creates an environment where all people can thrive.
In short, we can do better.
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I appreciate and applaud your honesty here, Brian. The divisiveness about the acronym is a sham…it’s the underlying intent that matters – the desire to erode opportunities to build respect. Building it, appreciating differences. Learning from each other. ❤️ Thank you, thank you.
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It’s a political football and politicians are some of the most narrow-minded folks in society. It’s really a shame. We’re going back instead of moving forward.
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With you! Agree!😔
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so much better.
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Thanks Beth! 😎😎😎
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Thank you. And I never thought I’d say this but hats off to Costco.
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Yes, Costco really has been a leader on this. I just saw today that their shareholders rejected an anti-DEI proposal pushed by activists outside the company. Good for them in doing what’s right.
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I think this sentence hits the proverbial nail head:
“…it was good to hear from others who didn’t think and act like myself.”
It’s sad that programs have to be created in order to simulate and hopefully stimulate what I see as natural compassion and curiosity. But, we are pretty selfish, fearful people.
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Compassion, empathy, curiosity, having a growth mindset seem to me to all be out of favor right now. It’s all about fear and getting what’s yours. I blame politics but it’s other things too. It’s a real shame.
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I think maybe politics are a reflection of societal condition…maybe they tend to reflect one another?
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I think you’re right! It’s a reflection of bigger issues. I was going to write some on that — why in my mind, mercy is a such strange thing for so many — but I’m not sure. Might let it go. I hate to be so negative.
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Well said, Brian. I’m so glad you shared your honest thoughts on this topic. (Also, I’ve always liked Costco. Now I like it even more.)
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I’m not sure I opened any eyes. I just felt like I needed to put my thoughts down on paper. And yes, I like Costco even more, knowing they’ve stood up for what’s right. Kind of sad that we’re in this position!
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You might have more influence than you think you do…especially when you share so authentically.
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Thank you Mary for the kind feedback. I appreciate it.
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Well said indeed. Sad that we are so divided now that offering training in dealing with a diverse workforce has been politicized…
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We live in a screwed up world right now. Really sad.
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It’s good you got so much out of a class you dreaded. I had to go through a lot of those during my short stint as a financial advisor. I did learn a lot, too. As for DEI, my son told me that his boss announced they were not going to interview any white males for job openings. My son who supports DEI, thought this was discrimination and said so. He was told that it was not.
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After writing my DEI piece, it hit me how similar it was to my piece this week on not assuming. As far as your son’s situation, I’m not a DEI expert but I think that decision is wrong and gives DEI a bad reputation. DEI means broadening the pool, so that it makes it equitable for all people. It doesn’t mean excluding folks simply because of their color or background. It’s similar to a situation that I’ve hit in my career. “Oh you’re a certain age, okay, we’re going to stop giving you growth opportunities and instead manage you out the door.” That’s ageism. With your son that sounds to me like reverse discrimination. Or at least a clueless or out of touch manager. Sad!
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Thank you for your well thought out reply. I appreciate it. I think the problem lies in taking anything to the extreme and losing sight of the original intent. Ageism is definitely another whole category of discrimination. I have a dear friend who was my boss in PR who was fired as director of marketing after 20 years. They replaced her with someone younger and cheaper. She was given 10 minutes notice to get out of the building after a career of stellar reviews.
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My situation was a bit different but the wave of folks who were pushed out and whose only crime is that they were above 50 was too big to be a coincidence. Feel bad for your son — that’s a horrible message to receive. When I found something new and handed in my resignation, I would tell that boss he was the reason why I left.
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Fortunately, I think that boss left before my son!
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Totally agree, Brian. This country is taking a giant step backward, unraveling decades of progress, and it makes me sick to my stomach. Is this really who we are?! It’s not me, I can tell you that.
So glad my laptop is a Mac and my Costco membership is up to date.
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Well said Mark! You’re so right: is this really who we want to be? Geeesh!
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Love this Brian, especially staying curious and open to co-workers with diverse opinions! I appreciate your honesty and inspirationL attitude. 💕C
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I hope I explained my thoughts well. I forget where I wrote it — maybe the blog or Facebook or somewhere — but I’m really trying to avoid writing about politics, but I feel there are certain things I need to say. Hopefully it makes sense!
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We can do so much better. ❤️
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Exactly. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😊
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“Just shoot me now” love your sentiments here, Brian.. lol
“I went in hating the class and came out raving about its lessons.”
I’m hoping something goes right in the current classroom. I purposeful highlighted MLK in my Monday post but couldn’t bring myself not to share how I feel.. lower comments and numbers or not. Although I tweaked it several times and tamed it as much as I could. ❤️
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It’s a strange time Cindy. I can’t explain it. Right is wrong, wrong is right. It’s too strange for me to understand.
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Brian my dear, I am standing where I am and applauding your amazing insight. I agree. I simply love this:
“The irony gets even thicker. Politicians this week promoted the life of Martin Luther King Jr. They put out press releases promoting his messages of respect and justice. If they believe so much in his messages then why are they the same folks fighting DEI.”
It’s an oxymoron, and Franklin Graham’s father never acted or spewed such hate when he led the Billy Graham Crusade. Some folks really know how to show their true colors! So appalling and despicable! 😡
This is a great piece my friend, no matter the trauma you may have felt from your class! 😜
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Oh yes, the hypocrisy has really bothered me. Off topic, the anger at Bishop Budde too … for let me get this straight, doing her job and preaching the Gospel and Beatitudes. Ugh. I doubt my piece opened up many eyes, but hopefully it made sense! Thanks for the encouragement!!😊😊🙏🏼🙏🏼😊😊
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Oh my goodness – so on point, Brian! The multitude of experiences to bear. The target audience or consumer is not one dimensional and so our teams should be the same. Well said!
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One dimensional. I keep thinking of how some of the biggest mistakes in business and society have been because one dimensional teams!!! Really sad state of things!
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AMEN to your post!!!!!
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Aww thank you. Much appreciated. Hopefully it made sense!
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The executive order to dismantle DEI programs is just heinous. It’s a shame that equity and inclusion have become a politicized hotrod issue and going backwards is not the answer. Very disheartening to see this transpire. Way to go to Costco for standing up!
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It assumes the world is made up of just heterosexual white men. Who wants that … I certainly don’t. Ugh.
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Well said, Brian! I am with you and don’t get it either about people who say they are Christian but their behavior is quite opposite! And Cheers to Costco and Apple! It’s going to be a long four years. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and being honest.
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The Christian hypocrite thing bothers me a ton. If you say you’re a Christian that means something. But … for some it just doesn’t seem to mean the same thing. Crazy! But thank you, I appreciate the feedback!!!!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😎😎😎😎
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I was walking with you the whole way. Great post, Brian.
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Thanks Jennie … really sad to see where things stand.
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You’re welcome, Brian.
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