In a crucial scene in Star Wars: Episode V – The Empire Strikes Back, Darth Vader attempts to turn Luke Skywalker to the Dark Side and says, “Luke, I am your father.”
It’s an amazing scene, a big twist in the film. Vader wants to lure Luke to his side, but Luke remains dedicated to using the force for good. We’ve all seen it, right?

But guess what? Vader never said it. Well, not those actual words. Instead James Earl Jones voiced the words, “No, I am your father.”
- Vader: “Obi-Wan never told you what happened to your father”
- Luke: “He told me enough. He told me you killed him”
- Vader: “No, I am your father.”
The line is one of the most misquoted movie lines of all time. The phenomenon of people incorrectly remembering the same thing in the same way is known as the Mandela Effect. The London-based research firm YouGov found that 63% of respondents incorrectly remembered Darth Vader’s line, and only 17% got it right.
We hear what we want to hear.
As time goes by
It’s the same way with movie classic, Casablanca. People like to use the movie quote “Play it again, Sam,” but it was never actually spoken in the movie.
When Ingrid Bergman’s character Ilsa first enters the Café Américain, she spots Sam and asks him, “Play it once, Sam, for old times’ sake.” After he feigns ignorance, she responds, “Play it, Sam. Play ‘As Time Goes By’.”
Later that night, alone with Sam, Humphrey Bogart’s character, nightclub owner Rick Blaine, says, “You played it for her, you can play it for me”, and “If she can stand it, I can! Play it!”
Nope, “no play it again” ever said.
Wax between our ears
Humans are horrible listeners. We hear what we want to hear, not what is actually said. Here’s another one: Movie directors and fans like to repeat the line “Houston, we have a problem.” It’s close, but not quite what was said in real life. When Apollo 13 ran into problems in April 1970, Jack Swigert, the Command Module Pilot, called Mission Control in Texas and said, “okay, Houston, we’ve had a problem here.”
The movie version might be better, but it’s still different.
Hope for me yet
We have some crazy memories, but it gives me hope. It let’s me know that I’m not alone in hearing things wrong or remembering events differently from others.
It does remind me though to listen close and to never assume. Yes, you know what happens when you assume.
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such great examples of this, and I have to confess to being guilty!)
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Oh, I’m right there with you Beth. My poor hearing, mixed with my poor short-term memory, mixed with wanting things the way I want them to be …. Makes me a bad listener of songs and movies. 🤪🤪🤪🤨🤪🤪🤪🤪
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I have that same holy trinity of issues)
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Oh but it’s such great issues to have!!!! 🤪🤪🤪🤪😎
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There are so many examples of misquoted lyrics! My favorite is from Field of Dreams. He never said, “If you build it, they will come.” The actual quote is, “If you build it, they will come.”
Don’t even get me started on the Mandela Effect…
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Oh, field of dreams is a good one. We hear what we want to hear. Too funny
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Oh my goodness. I had no idea about the Vader misquote. I love this reminder to listen…really listen. 😉
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Oh I’m horrible at this Vicki. I constantly mishear things …. Usually to my benefit. Hmm, maybe that’s a good thing!🤪🤨😜😜😜
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Ditto….me, too! At least I’ve got good company! YOU! 😜
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“We hear what we want to hear.” Interesting thought. Often within my family, we have different versions of memories and what was said. That’s true between me and my brother plus with me and my kids.
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I love how the versions of the memories are different. Love that!
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But these misquotes are great, they are iconic. Don’t ruin a good Brian. (LOL)
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The misquotes are better than reality!!! Ha ha!
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Whoa – you have blown my mind. I was sure it was “Luke…”
Fascinating how we individually mis-remember things. But you’ve honed in on how we collectively do it. So fascinating!
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Great Movie examples and insight!
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Nahhhh are you sure.. amazing when you take the wax out of your ears, Brian. Thanks for taking it out of mine. 😂👏💕
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Ha, ha, we all forget to listen. Ha, ha. I’m as guilty as anyone.
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Totally.. especially to my husband.. 😂
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At least you’re honest. Ha, ha.
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exactly, he would say the same of me.. 😂
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Great post, Brian, and I’m sure I’m guilty at times. But your words only emphasize how important it is to be a good listener. Sometimes, listening is the better gift.
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Oh, I’m with you. I can be a horrible listener, but it really is a gift. For me, it’s slowing down and just listening, not trying to fix or solve, but listen. Thanks for reading.
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Slowing down and listening is a good plan, Brian! You’re so welcome!
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No way! I always thought it was “Luke, I am your father!” And same with the Casablanca line too. Amazing selective hearing and memory, indeed!
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The first two I knew, but I’m sort of devastated by the third. The wrong line gets repeated often enough, and people long forget what the real line is. Too bad.
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