I got an email the other day from a financial institution about how to watch out for scam emails and sites looking to expose users to malware and identity theft. Warnings like that always get my attention because they tap into my fears.
The email explained that scams are on the rise and offered a few things to watch out for including: URL errors and issues and requests for personal information.

Like other warnings I’ve seen in the past, the email suggested watching out for bad grammar and spelling mistakes. The thinking is that legitimate sites take care to avoid errors. If you spot poor grammar, spelling, or formatting mistakes in content, that’s often your first clue it’s a fake site.
That’s great, but what do you do when you’re a writer and you’re always reading for tone and grammar. I’ll read something and I’ll go yes, that’s a fake, that’s not real.

Of course when I look closer I’ll realize that it’s not an email or text from a scammer but a note from my wife to pick up milk on my way home.
Oops, sorry honey. Love ya honey!
Or a note from a friend, who’s a great guy and wonderful friend, but plays it fast and loose with his spelling, grammar and punctuation. Let’s just say his sentences tend to run together into one big one, his commas tend to be few and far between, and he gives new meaning to phonetic spelling.
Oops, sorry Charlie. Love ya big guy!
Or what about my own writing. Some days I’m better with the grammar than others. What’s that mean on the days, when I’m not feeling it — more reasons for the critics to come out.
Thanks scammers. Thanks for nothing.
Yikes.
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I am horrible at grammar. But I do know that I’m not receiving a legit email if the email address is chase32
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That’s a new one to use on our spouses, “I thought you were a hacker!” 😆😆😆 Gotta love it. I’ll have to try that one, Brian!
But I agree that we need to be ever more vigilant for the scammers or the ones asking us to do chores on their behalf!
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Looking at the email address is the hugest clue. Having been had once, I never (or will strive to) let it happen again!
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Yes, they can be tricky. I hate it because you can never let your guard down.
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They get better and better.
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Scamming really is a pain, even if you know what to look out for, and it really can be hard to differentiate what’s what. Sorry, honey…
Our IT team at work sends out monthly in-house phishing email tests. Most people recognize them, but the one that took down a dozen folks was the “free doughnuts” for National Doughnut Day, so watch out for too-good-to-be-true freebie scammers, too! 😆
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Yes, it’s always things like that where I stumble!!! It definitely makes more cautious
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I’ve been watching YouTube videos about scammers, particularly romance scammers, and I am surprised at how many people ignore not only grammar mistakes, but also foreign accents and other warning flags when it comes to being tricked into being loved. Very sad, usually seniors who give away their properties and life savings, willingly, to people impersonating hot-looking models or handsome and fit middle-aged guys.
On the subject of English, however (not my mother tongue so I’m guilty of errors though I’m not a scammer) I often see government sites using words inappropriately or committing grammar sins.
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Yes, I hate to see that too when it’s seniors or people just starved for connection. Kind of sad. Government websites can be the worst — the jargon is crazy. I was on my state’s website recently and I really could not tell you what they were saying. It was bad! And as far as folks who English is a second language — I have so much respect for you Alessandra, I know my writing in Spanish, even when I knew it the best, was not that great. I have so much respect for bilingual folks, it takes a lot hard work and dedication!
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My dad has a friend in his 80s who gave all his money away to an Eastern European heart throb, who didn’t exist. Now he’s completely broke except for his Social Security. My husband has a client who wants to give $1 million to a foreigner to marry him.
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I’m not sure what makes me sadder — the financial loss or people prying on peoples need for connection and other humans. Hopefully your husband was was able to help the client. Wow
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My husband is working on it. Yikes.
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A swimmer on my daughter’s Ute team got a phone call from the IRS saying he owed more than $2,000 and to buy Apple gift cards to pay. He was in his last semester of college and he went to the store and bought the gift cards with all that was left of his college fund. He’s now in med school. Would you trust him to be your doctor? Then, last week I was at the grocery store when q woman in front of me asked where the Apple gift cards were. The checker asked if they were for a friend or relative. She answered, “No. It’s for a purchase I’m making online for makeup. They told me to buy Apple gift cards and give them the numbers on the back.” The checker and I told the woman it was a scam.
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Kind of crazy. So sad!
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It is. I can’t believe people fall for these things.
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Honey Brian, scammers have become more sophisticated with their tactics these days. We must be vigilant when things appear to be too good to be true. When you’re desperate or vulnerable these scammers can smell it like a hawk. 👃🏼🦅😱
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Yes, they seem to be everywhere! Kind of sad.
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I know Brian. It’s scary, sad, and infuriating at the same time! UGH!!! 😝
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Well, I think we can rest assured that the quality of your posts means that you are no scammer!! I laughed out loud about the shopping list! 🙂 ❤
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Hey, I’m just trying to be vigilant. Ha, ha.
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And then there are those early morning calls “from Amazon” letting you know about a suspicious charge to your account, $450. If you haven’t made this purchase, press 1 (Or click here) for an account rep. On the other hand, I had an offer of $4 million in US foreign aid money one time. From some Indonesian country, all I had to do is give info and put up the ambassador who was bringing it to me. (It would probably cost me that much to host him properly.)
Or the fellow who won $X million in a lottery. “Just meet the rep at XXX and he’ll hand you the cheque.” But while he was trying to connect with the directionally-challenged rep at XXX, his house was being burgled.
Good article, Brian. Yes, scamming is sad and and it’s cruel.
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Oh, those stories make my stomach churn just hearing them. Ugh.
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The grammar is always one thing I look out for.
…but we can’t always be right, right?
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Grammar is important, but it’s so easy to mess up🤣🤣🙂
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Oh so easy 🤣
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