Several years ago, I had an emergency appendicectomy. I had been feeling horrible all day and had to be rushed to the emergency room. I was in so much pain, I’m not even sure how I made it home. When I got to the ER, the doctor looked me, pushed on my abdomen and diagnosed the problem right away. He told my wife that if we had waited much longer, I could have been looking at a burst appendicitis.
In the middle of the night, I remember being rather groggy from the medicine they had me on, but I kept waking up with the various doctors and nurses checking up on me. The medicine didn’t matter, I’ve never been able to sleep in a strange place.
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Doctor, give it to me straight!
At one point, I vaguely recall looking up in my groggy state and saw the on-call doctor looking at something on the monitor. In my drugged up state, I asked him if I was going to die. He laughed and said that he had an emergency appendectomy just like me the previous summer and that I would be feeling better in no time.
If I wasn’t going to die, I figured that I would take the opportunity to tell the doctor that if I had a choice of Ironman, Superman, or Captain Jack Sparrow from The Pirates of the Caribbean visiting me in the hospital, I would prefer Ironman. He was taken back by my question, but said that he didn’t know of visits like that happening, but he thought that was a good choice. (A few weeks earlier, I had a watched a news story on volunteers at a hospital in Florida or somewhere who regularly dress up as superheroes to cheer up the children’s ward of the hospital. I’m not sure how that came into my mind, but somehow it did.)
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In good hands
In any event, the doctor’s reassurances made a difference for me. I was able to go back to sleep and sleep through the rest of the night.
A good doctor makes a huge difference. I write about a not-so-great experience today in my post, Proving the experts wrong!, on the Heart of the Matter. I write about how our son was first diagnosed as being dyslexic and the horrible way the doctor and her team gave us the news and temporarily stealing our hope and optimism.
Let me know what you think? What’s the best experience you’ve ever had with a doctor or medical personnel?
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Working in healthcare forever has allowed me to see and experience some of the most compassionate providers and some of the worst. Personally I will never forget the horrible OB who delivered my first child versus the amazing OB who delivered my second even working under the constraints of a rather outdated medical system. The glaring dichotomy between the two was astounding. I’m glad you got one of the good ones during a stressful time Brian!
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Yes, there’s good and bad, always great feeling when you find a good one.
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Oh my goodness…thank you for the giggle about your request for a superhero visit…and who you’d like to come to your bedside. Those must’ve been some potent meds! A sense of humor goes a long way and the doctor seemed to have that working for him, plus his reassurance that he survived the procedure himself. 😎
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Hey I wanted Ironman! No superman or captain Jack Sparrow for me! Of all the questions, I could have asked the doctor. Geeesh, just shows how crazy I am!
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But I love it…you are funny! 🤣
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If I would have had to guess, I would have suspected he was a Spiderman fan, so he definitely caught me by surprise. Of course, that could have been the medication talking.
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I love that you’re speculating about that! 😎
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Wow, I’m glad that you are okay, Brian! My mother was ill for too long many years ago and she was always going on about how terrible her doctors were in talking with her, and how good some are too. My GP is a wonderful doctor. When you find a good doctor, stay with him or her as long as you can!
Did you have a bad case of loving your doctor? 😂
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Nah, no love, but definitely appreciated his sense of humor. Ha, ha.
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😂👍🏻
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A shoulder block before total reverse shoulder replacement (three years ago). Not one opioid until after I got home and could control it. Six years ago, after abdominal surgery, I’d developed a hernia. After that one, I was so overdosed in recovery that the intake nurse in the room had to “code” me! As the room filled with personnel (including a chaplain, according to my husband who was awed at what was happening) while the nurse administered whatever she used to reverse the OD and slap me awake. That’s why I was so thankful for that shoulder block!
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Wow, I can’t imagine all of that. I was out of it, but not quite like that. Glad things worked out for you.
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Hmmm….I’m reading this as I’m waiting in a waiting room to see an ENT aboit my never going away sinus infection. Right now I hate all medical professionals
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Oh, I’m sorry LA. I hope you got some good news or, at least, some relief. There’s good ones out there, I promise.
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Well, all sorts of new medicines and revisit in two weeks
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At least, not waiting forever to know. Hope it gets better
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Well, I could sleep last night
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When I had radiation treatments, I asked the radiologist if he could setup the machine to give me x-ray vision. Sadly he sad he couldn’t and added that bringing in a spider during the radiation treatment wouldn’t turn me into Spiderman.
disappointing …. sigh …
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Oh, my goodness, that is so disappointing. At least the radiologist had a sense of humor about it!
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We had a great primary care doctor for about 25 years. He was an old fashioned doctor who would spend time with us and talk. When he sold his practice, the entire practice changed and they were awful!
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“Spend time with us and talk.” That’s definitely a different generation. Now, it’s all about the speed. Number of patients. Etc. My wife had out-patient surgery on her wrist recently. It was like a well run machine. One patient after the other. As I took my wife out of the car, we joked about the $$$$ the center made in one morning. Wow.
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That’s what most medicine is like these days.
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Yup, sadly you are right. Five minutes and the appt is over. Ugh.
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I haven’t found another doctor like the one we had forever!
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Yea that stinks! Keep looking!
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We have the Mayo Clinic in Scottsdale that everyone raves about. They have a three-year waiting list and won’t put us on it!
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A three-year waiting list, that’s crazy. YOu’re right to keep looking for someone that you trust and can talk with. It makes a huge difference.
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You’re right, a good doctor is tremendously valuable. In 2014 I dropped my long-time primary doc, because he had made a few pretty big mistakes in diagnoses. I have confidence in the primary doc I’ve had since then.
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Yes, there’s good and bad, always great when you find one you like.
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The doctor said that was a good! LOLOLOL You are hilarious!
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He must have liked Ironman as well. Maybe if I had stayed in the hospital a little longer, we could have gotten Ironman to make a visit. Ha, ah.
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🤣🤣 maybe
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Love your questions to the doctor, Brian. And I’m so glad you got there before your appendix burst!
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Oh, it was close, I had to keep stopping.
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The bedside manner is so important for sure especially in moments that are more serious or life altering, such as the diagnosis delivery for your son. I wonder if part of med school these days is also teaching them the important soft skills of the profession.
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I think that too! Bedside manner or EQ is so important!
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